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My friend has this guy at school that she likes, and he is always turning around in math asking her questions. But when they have math homework he always gets them right. She wants to know, is he flirting with her??? (link)
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I've been that guy and done that before. Yes, he's flirting with her in his own shy way because he's afraid she'll turn him down.
Have her make the first move and ask him out, or it won't ever go anywhere.
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okay, so, here's the deal: this guy that ive known for a while might like me. he used to be my neighbor when i was little, then i moved away and went to another school, but then i started coming to the same school 3 years later, i just dont live by him anymore. well, anyway, so my friends say he likes me, but hes to shy to say it. and i like him a LOT!! he sometimes talks to me, you know, he just says something to make me laugh, or to try to impress me. he always looks at me, and when we're at school watching basketball games with our friends, every time i look at him, hes looking back at me. i think he MIGHT have a crush on me, but i dont know for sure. i just need your opinion on if you think he likes me or not. (link)
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He definitely has a crush on you. I wouldn't quite call it love at this point, but you two spent a lot of time together when you were younger...
I think you should go for it. If he's a good friend, even if he doesn't want to go out with you, he'll continue being your friend afterwards anyway.
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How exactly should i ask this guy out? What should i avoid? i was thinking of asking him to the next dancebut i'm afraid that he'll go off with another girl at the dance. I have real self-confidence problems, espically with Guys. Everyone thinks i am a guy beacuse my hair is really short. i don't think he'll go out with me because i don't look like any of the " popular" girls. please Help!!! (link)
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There's an old song from way before I was born that I still laugh at thinking about "Popular girls"
"If you want to be happy for the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you."
Ask him. That's the best advice I could ever give anyone is to go for it. If he doesn't want to, you tried. If he does, you got what you wanted. If he leaves you, he wasn't worth it anyway. If he doesn't... Well, congratulations. You've got a boyfriend. ;)
And, popular girls aren't often worth 'the hassle' they usually give... They're often shallow, self-centered and arrogant to a fault. Truth be told, the 'normal' ones will always be the ones who end up with happy relationships.
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Okay, time for another love conundrum.
So I like this girl. I have ever since I met her, you might even be able to say love at first sight.
And don't worry I didnt only fall for her looks. I got to know her and we got really close and she's just awesome. So eventually we got to a point where we were really close...like:
Holding hands
Writing love notes ect ect
Then summer comes...I live in the country she lives in the city. I barely get to see her.
I start school again and she's dating some other guy. So I was jealous...not angry at her or anything just...dissapointed.
So then...now in november I heard they broke up about 2 weeks ago. So at that point I was desperatly trying to get over her cause it was just too hard. So I was hanging out with another and thinking maybe I'm developping a crush on her.
Then today in Georaphy she writes in my binder..I see her sign her name then I look away. Then class ends and I get my binder back. In Math I open it up and read her signature.
Then I freeze. Not a panic but a stun. a flap in my binder it sayd " I (heart) you" with an acctual heart. So i'm wondering...does this mean anything? What do I do? Do I pretend I didnt find it? Do I confront her?
And now...do I keep trying to get over her? Am I overreacting? Was I really crushing on this other girl or was I desperate to get over her?
Sorry you had to read that whole thing...and asked so many question...every little advice helps!! (link)
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Ask her what it means, and don't be shy about it. If you care about her, and are in love with her, it'll be worth the risk to find out one way or another if she feels the same way.
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