Question Posted Tuesday November 14 2006, 10:42 pm
Okay, time for another love conundrum.
So I like this girl. I have ever since I met her, you might even be able to say love at first sight.
And don't worry I didnt only fall for her looks. I got to know her and we got really close and she's just awesome. So eventually we got to a point where we were really close...like:
Holding hands
Writing love notes ect ect
Then summer comes...I live in the country she lives in the city. I barely get to see her.
I start school again and she's dating some other guy. So I was jealous...not angry at her or anything just...dissapointed.
So then...now in november I heard they broke up about 2 weeks ago. So at that point I was desperatly trying to get over her cause it was just too hard. So I was hanging out with another and thinking maybe I'm developping a crush on her.
Then today in Georaphy she writes in my binder..I see her sign her name then I look away. Then class ends and I get my binder back. In Math I open it up and read her signature.
Then I freeze. Not a panic but a stun. a flap in my binder it sayd " I (heart) you" with an acctual heart. So i'm wondering...does this mean anything? What do I do? Do I pretend I didnt find it? Do I confront her?
And now...do I keep trying to get over her? Am I overreacting? Was I really crushing on this other girl or was I desperate to get over her?
Sorry you had to read that whole thing...and asked so many question...every little advice helps!!
I think you should try and forget about this girl. She obviously isnt prepared to be commited. You say you were 'Holding hands and Writing love notes ect ect' This practialy sounds like you were going out. Yet over the summer she doesnt bother to contact you and finds herself a new boyfriend then after just 2 weeks shes tring to be you girlfriend again. Do you really wanna go out with someone that messes with your feelings that much? I know it probly not what you wanna hear but i think you would be better off without her. I would just make out like you never saw the heart and ignor any other signs she might 'like you' . Try hanging out with that other girl somemore. She can probly help you through getting over her.
NewGotham answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 4:04 am: Ask her what it means, and don't be shy about it. If you care about her, and are in love with her, it'll be worth the risk to find out one way or another if she feels the same way. [ NewGotham's advice column | Ask NewGotham A Question ]
beebee69 answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 12:06 am: Dude!You tottally like this girl!And it's either she knows you like her and she's screwing with you or she really means it/But asking for advice here won't help.Go ask her yourself!
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