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I love Mayday Parade, Sherwood, October Fall, and Cute is what we aim for...does anybody know any other bands that have that type of music without any screaming and heavy meatal and song names would be fantabulouss :) thanks guyss.

circa survive? some fightstar stuff, my chemical romance maby madina lake

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14/f im going to florida on tuesday and i due for my period and i dont want it while in florida cause im gunna be going in the pool and beach and i dont wanna look all bloated in a bathingsuit so is there something i can do to either get my period like in the next couple of days or something i can do so i dont get my period for a while?

thanks

A few years ago i ha to go on a school trip and the doc gaveme some pills that i need to take everyday to stop my period but if you skip a pill/ when you stop taking them your period will start. Its defintatly worth it coz you will constantly feeln crappy all your holz if not .
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I recently posted a question about:My friend is Pregnant and I have feelings for her??? If i tell her can it damage the relationship or should i just take a chance and tell her? She is a really nice person and I don't want her to get the wrong ideas. Like i am helping her only for a relationship. I am nervous but I feel she has a right to know.

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I know everyone else has told you to tell her but i think its better to keep this to yourself as she is obviously in a stable , happy relationship or she wouldnt be pregnant. Are you willing to possible ruin the relationship between her and her partner and are you willing / able to bring up her child with her. If your friend turns you down then it could possible ruin your friendship . What about if this is just a 'crush' and she leaves her partner only for you to not whant her anymore.If you really think you should tell her and you definatly wont change you mind then go ahead but be aware of the consequences.

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Okay, time for another love conundrum.
So I like this girl. I have ever since I met her, you might even be able to say love at first sight.

And don't worry I didnt only fall for her looks. I got to know her and we got really close and she's just awesome. So eventually we got to a point where we were really close...like:
Holding hands
Writing love notes ect ect

Then summer comes...I live in the country she lives in the city. I barely get to see her.

I start school again and she's dating some other guy. So I was jealous...not angry at her or anything just...dissapointed.

So then...now in november I heard they broke up about 2 weeks ago. So at that point I was desperatly trying to get over her cause it was just too hard. So I was hanging out with another and thinking maybe I'm developping a crush on her.

Then today in Georaphy she writes in my binder..I see her sign her name then I look away. Then class ends and I get my binder back. In Math I open it up and read her signature.

Then I freeze. Not a panic but a stun. a flap in my binder it sayd " I (heart) you" with an acctual heart. So i'm wondering...does this mean anything? What do I do? Do I pretend I didnt find it? Do I confront her?

And now...do I keep trying to get over her? Am I overreacting? Was I really crushing on this other girl or was I desperate to get over her?

Sorry you had to read that whole thing...and asked so many question...every little advice helps!!

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I think you should try and forget about this girl. She obviously isnt prepared to be commited. You say you were 'Holding hands and Writing love notes ect ect' This practialy sounds like you were going out. Yet over the summer she doesnt bother to contact you and finds herself a new boyfriend then after just 2 weeks shes tring to be you girlfriend again. Do you really wanna go out with someone that messes with your feelings that much? I know it probly not what you wanna hear but i think you would be better off without her. I would just make out like you never saw the heart and ignor any other signs she might 'like you' . Try hanging out with that other girl somemore. She can probly help you through getting over her.

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I AM LIKE FREAKING OUT RIGHT NOW! Last week I was 120 exactly, and all of the sudden I weighed myself and I am 129! I am on my period so I dont know if that affects anything, but I am about to go on an exteme diet. Does anyone know why this happened all of the sudden? 14/f, Im not pregnant or anything like that..

If you want a true scale reading do it first thing in the morning before youve eaten anything and when your not on your period

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how much money do you give for a sweet 16 ?

Well it depends on how well you know the person if its just a random friend how about £16:16


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my bf said he wanted to take a break? what is that? I think it sounds like hes dumping me but he sed not exactly. whats going on? i tried asking him and he just says he kind of confused right now.

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I think he means hes not sure about his feelings towards you and by saying he needs a break ,he means hes not sure if he wants to go out with you but doesnt want to full on dump you in case he changes his mind. I think you should completely blank him out of your life until he desides to make contact.If he decides he still wants to go out with you but then says he needs another break 2 mins later then hes gonna know he do what ever he likes when he likes . Make sure he knows you respect his feelings but wont be pushed around

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There is this teacher, and she teacher earth science at my school, and i cant stand her. SHe hates coming to work, and she can never smile. SHe said she doesnt care about us, she just wants to teach., When we ask a question, she makes you feel like an idiot. She thinks she is so smart, but she is just aroogant. ANd...she yelled at me, because i proved her wrong. Can someone giv me some advice on how to deal with her. Thanks , trust me if you have good advice, i will be so grateful.

Hi . I know you'll probly feel super embarassed but i think the best thing you can do here is talk to your headteacher as He/She is the only one with power over her . She doesnt sound like the sort of person who will listen if you go and speak to her directly and is obviously not a very good teacher. If your Head doesnt listen go to your parents . They can make a proper,formal complaint to the school . I hope everything works out for you

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Well, I am 13/f.This might sound stupid but I found a guy on the computer and I was wondering how I could find out if he is cheating on me or not?Also wondering should i still go out with him even tho he is off the computer? Thanks.

There is nothing wrong with a bit of harmless flirting on the computer (unless you give out any of your details or arange to meet up with anyone you met off there)Im afraid there is no way to tell for definate if he is cheating on you . For all you know he might be having a 'relationship' with every girl he meets on the internet. I dont think you should think this as a proper relationship but more of just simple flirting. I dont think there is anything wrong with continuing flirting with him as long as you just keep it as flirting.

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