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Can telling someone you liked them hurt your relationship??
I recently posted a question about:My friend is Pregnant and I have feelings for her??? If i tell her can it damage the relationship or should i just take a chance and tell her? She is a really nice person and I don't want her to get the wrong ideas. Like i am helping her only for a relationship. I am nervous but I feel she has a right to know.
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i dont think that it will damage your relationship three things are possible to happen. she will either tell you that she likes you too and you will get together or you could still stay friends only (just because of her situation with her baby), She will be flattered and just want to stay friends, Or she could just feel different then you and she could say that she only wants to stay friends and if this is to happen things might be awkward for a little while but they will go back to the way they are right now.
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I know everyone else has told you to tell her but i think its better to keep this to yourself as she is obviously in a stable , happy relationship or she wouldnt be pregnant. Are you willing to possible ruin the relationship between her and her partner and are you willing / able to bring up her child with her. If your friend turns you down then it could possible ruin your friendship . What about if this is just a 'crush' and she leaves her partner only for you to not whant her anymore.If you really think you should tell her and you definatly wont change you mind then go ahead but be aware of the consequences.
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You should definetly tell her.
But you should tell her when you think the moment is right..
Because you don't want her to get the wrong idea or something.
But you should go for it.
Maybe she'll feel the same way?
I'm sure it will all work out.
I hope I helped.
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Go for it, just be careful, pregnant women are moody. I suggest you offer her a gift of Ben and Jerries.
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I say for sure to go for it and tell her. Just sit down and have a talk with her and let her know whats going on with you. Hope things go well.
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You should tell her.. over the time you have known her.. you have developed feelings for her. I'm sure she likes you too.
You should also mention that.. you're not helping her just for a relationship or anything, because she seems really nice and you want to help her.
But be prepared if things don't go the way you want.
If you think she has a right to know, then go tell her over lunch or something.
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