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hey my name is samantha =]and im from randolph, MA...
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well my bff asked me 2 make-out w/her man so i did the next time at skool me and my bff"s man were in a library and he made out w/me he cam on 2 me and now my Bff is PISSED at me and now we r in a BIG fight wat do i do?o i forgot the night b4 she presured me into fucking her man but i didn't. (link)
okay, well first of all why is your friend trying to get you with HER man?? thats got me a little confused. But, if she pressured you in the first place to make-out with him and then , HE tried to make-out with you again after. That NOT YOUR FAULT, and you need to just sit her down and try to explain to her that HE came on to you and that it was only because she had you make-out with him b4... and, you should also tell her that its kinda weird to get ppl to make-out and fuck her men. but, if thats how she is then she needs to learn not to get jealous because if shes gonna start stuff like this then she needs to deal with the consequences that came out of her actions. because if she didnt have you make-out with him in the first place then this wouldve never happened and you guys wouldve not been fighting. and, i also think that no matter how much your friend begs you or w.e. that you should make-out with her man, because it leads to drama like your in now.
i hope i helped you at least a little.. and i hope things get better with you and your friend =]


O.K. well you here people like saying they want to hit 2nd base in a relationship.... what does that mean? like what are all the bases & what do they mean?
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okay the bases are how far you get with someone, as far sexually i mean.
first base is kissing
second base is feeling up
third base is in the pants
and home is having sex

hop i helped


so wen i swallow my right tonsil hurts only & there is a red bump on it. also, i know this is gross but i was having trouble breathing...and like i finally spit up this loogey and it was kinda bloody and brown and little green

i havent had a good appetite lately either?

wats wrong? (link)
okay well it sounds like your really sick and i know im not a doctor or anything but the whole sore throat and red bump thingy sounds like strep, so i think that you should go to a doctor and tell them exactly what you said on here, becuase spitting up blood can never be good.


14/m
Ok so me and my gf were having sex and i thought that i could hold off from cumming but it was so good that we couldnt stop and i gizzed in her, and i wasnt wearing a condom. Could she be pregnant? (link)
ummmm no offense but common sense.. that is how babies are made.. lol but anyways, yea she could be pregnant so i would honestly tell her that you would feel better if she took a pregnancy test to be sure..


ihad sex about three weeks ago and he used a condom. But i usualy have my period either the 20th-21st of every month and this month i missed it.

*im pretty sure the condom didnt break but when he pulled out the condom was like half way off.

so my question is should i take a test tomorrow ( which is kinda what i was planning on doing ) or do i just wait?

thanks (link)
take the test as soon as possible because you NEED to know these things..


i live a generally good, happy life. i have a supportive family, good friends, amazing boyfriend, good grades, etc. but whenever i get upset or mad over stupid little stuff [mostly when i argue with my mom or boyfriend], lately ive been thinking about cutting myself. i am NOT suicidal i never ever have been not EVEN close i can not even begin to imagine cutting to try to kill myself i have my future planned out and want to live a full happy life, so id never cut my wrist or anything. if anything id more than likely cut like the top of my forearm or my thigh, jus so i could feel it but not have any serious risks. i dont what the heck brought this on because its only lately ive been thinking about it. im not one of these who looks happy on the outside but on the inside has problems and is depressed i am honestly a happy person but its just when little things get me down i have that crazy thought. should i be worried? id be scared to death to try to cut my wrists honestly id never ever do it so even if i did start i wouldnt get to that point. but i just dont get why im thinking like this?? please dont say therapy. (link)
i know you said not to say this but i honestly think you should talkt o someone about this because no matter if you think it or not this could get to be pretty serious, and you dont necessarily need therapy you could just talk to your boyfriend about it and ask him to help you stop wanting to. i mean im an angry person when i get into arguments and stuff too but generally im also a happy person and i would never thin of doing that anf i dont think that anyone else would either, but i dont really think that you should start doing that, its not a good idea, AT ALL. i hope i helped =]


My friend always ditches me.
& today she wrote this hugeeee apology.
I don't feel like i should forgive her, if shes always done it & said the same thing before.

What should i do? (link)
okay,w ell maybe she doesnt mean to always ditch you, maybe things just come up. but i think that in this situation you should forgive her, because if she realizes shes doing it and apologizing fr it then at least she trying not to be mean about it, and maybe she just doesnt remember about plans or w.e. ..
so, i think that youshould forgive her but talk to her about the fact that it aggrivates you and ask her why she does it all the time, and tell her that you dont really wanna be ditched all the time.. cuz its annoying and its hurting your feelings etc...


well hope i helped =]


SO i like this guy, and he asked me to my high school's Winter Semi-Formal. Everyone has been telling me he'd been planning it for a while.

Everyone is also telling me that he likes me, and I can't help but wonder that also. We flirt all the time. And, he ASKED ME TO THE SEMI-FORMAL!

I really want to go out with him, so should I ask him out? The formal is Feb. 10, so should I ask him before then, or just wait and see what happens after? (link)
just go with him to the semi and then see what happens that night, cuz maybe hes planning on asking you out that night or something, so i think that you should just wait to see what happens and if he doesnt ask you, and you still feel the same way about him after the dance, then you should ask him out.


My boyfriend is significantly older then I am.

:] Well let me start by saying that I do have a great relationship with my boyfriend. He's my best friend and he makes me extremely happy most of the time.

The problem is he makes me feel so bad. He says that I don't let him see his friends enough. Whenever we rarely hang out on weekdays, and yes, we do hang out on weekends only because we're both so busy any other time. =[

So, tonight he came over because I cooked my family dinner and everything was going well. Until he got a call from his roommate who said they were going to have a party. The guy who was going to be there always has weed & stuff and the only time my boyfriend ever gets high is when he's there.

That's when I went into a serious girlfriend mode and started telling him he couldn't do it, otherwise I'd be mad. Then he started complaining about how I always make him feel guilty & never let him hang out with friends.

What can I do to make this whole situation better? But, still be with him at the same time?
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hey i think that you should let him do waht he wants and chill with his friends so that you dont make yourself look so clingy and nagging all the time because guys dont like that. and if you keep doing this he will probably break up with you.
and letme tell you something, guys are just like girls, they talk abuot us girls and their relationships etc. and if one of his friends doesnt like that you arent letting him do something he wants to do .. his friend WILL be able to convince him to get rid of you... and all hell have to say is friends come first or like they say it.. "bros b4 hos"..
i hope i helped =]


16/female. I'm a junior in high school and my student teacher is extremely hot! He's 21 and he is totally in to me. We have sex at school, in the parking lot in his car. it's not regular sex but kinky crazy sex with toys and everything. Well he always tells me he loves me and if I ever left him he would freak out and come to my house and take me away. But I love this other guy at my school and I had sex with him...if the teacher finds out I'm screwed! He is always following me at school and making sure I don't flirt with guys. He even took me to his office once because I was "flirting" with guys and he kissed me really hard and said that he wouldn't ever share me. I need to get out of this relationship but I'm really scared for my life sometimes. The sex is getting way too crazy for me, he likes sticking things inside of me like sticks and everything. He's hot too, I don't want to hurt his feelings. Help? (link)
well first of all havin sex with a teacher is wrong no matter how hott he is.. and umm putting sticks and stuff inside you is kinda gross so i would stop that cuz u can get like diseases and shit from that.. so id watch out.. but i thnkt hat you should just tel him how you feel and you should just leave it at that and you should let him know.. quick


I need help.
My grades are 2 f's 3 d's and the rest are c's/
im so tired of everuthing and i need my grades up?
Any advice?♥☺☻ (link)
no offense but all you really have to do is study so try that and you should be good.. and if you dont understand something then go after school for extra help...


okay, im getting my boyfriend a ring with our initials and the day we started dating engraved in it. but im also getting him a picture book with all of our pictures and some other things in a valentine's day box with our picture on it and im making him a cd with our song and some other songs that i like that remind me of him. okay my question is, does anyone know any 'loveish' songs that i could put, our song is once in a lifetime by keith urban. and he HATES rap and stuff like that, so country and rock pretty much.

it will be GREATLY appriciated if you could help me outttttttttttttt =) (link)
okay well first of all is this amy? because it sounds like it and if not im sorry i was jw..

but, some "lovish" songs are:
"bless the broken road"--rascall flatts
"dont wanna miss a thing"--aerosmith
"crazy"--aerosmith
"always"--blink 182
"miss you"--blink 182
"this i promise you"--N*SYNC
"differences"--Genuwine
"weak"--jojo ((or SWV))
.. wel theres some.. hope i helped


Ever since my fiancee and I have been having sex without a condom, I've noticed a change in the way I smell down there. I use daily feminine wash and I've douched. What else can I do? (link)
well i heard that if you start to smell down there that it could possibly be chlymidia.. seriously, though you might want to go get tested, in case that is your problem.. good luck


Okay so I am girl and i'm striaght but I have this problem of having this urge to makeout with my best friend and she has the same urge to...She just recently discovered she was bi but I dont feel like i'm bi because i would never go out with a girl I just love to makeout with them or in other words her. So what should I do or what do you think is the problem? (link)
there isnt a problem, its pretty much something that everyone goes through..about every girl that i know has madeout with another girl so dont worry theres no problem =]


I stumbled across this site by accident. I seriously doubt many of you have the qualifications to give real people proper advice. After reading some of your responses to people's inquiries i was quite astonished as to how teenagers find they are able to give quality advice and information to real people in need with such little life experience. If you ask me you are not in a place to give your "personal opinion" when people truly believe you are giving them the right answer simply because you claim "people think i give really good advice". (eg. i am still at a loss as to how a 17 year old girl thinks she can give advice to someone regarding conceiving a child) I know you try to come across as a "godsend" to poeple who are in some sort of personal crisis and need a fast easy answer but the truth is, in the cases where it really counts, there rarely is one; at least not from you. (link)
okay, well you may not think that anyone of us gives good advice, btu then why the hell are you on this site?? and i mean the people that are on this site obviously think that we do give good advice, or weve helped them (etc) so thats why. and some teenage girls are mothers and we go through more than you think aso maybe if you dont like this advice you should just leave the site completely because you obviously dont understand what this is here for. Because, the truth is, half of the people, maybe even mroe than half of the poeple on this site are teenagers, and well half of the people on this site probably dont even listen to the advice, they probably go online when they are frustrated or sad(etc) and they probably just look for people to give them their opinions on their situation to make them feel better and TRY to help, and if we dont .. then hey, we tried at least. But what i have to say is that we all should know that the internet is the internet, we cant really trust anyone on the internet, because i could say i was a doctor and no one would ever know if i truly was or not, and so my point is that we give our opinions, you can take it or leave it, all we can do is try to help, and some of us have even gone through some of the situations that people ask about.. so if you dont like our advice then im sorry but you can leave the site, but other people must if they are on here. bye


i have stretch- marks on like the sides of my stomach. now what creams or whatever make them go away.
please only answer if you have used this product thank you (link)
CoCoa Butter and Shea Butter Cream.. they work really well, and its better if you find a cream that is a mixture of the both, you can find it at walgreens or CVS or soemwhere like that...


My friend asked this boy before taking a sip of his soda does he have mono? what is that? (link)
Mono is a disease that you can catch from other people (its contagious) and its called the kissing disease.. you usually get it from kissing people... (thats why)


ok so i need a new aim sn. and i have no imaginationn =]]

a little aboutt me:
my name is sam/sammy/ect.
i dont mind x's or o's.
my fav. color is pink.
no: chick, girl, star, gurl.ect.
do: songs [[ lyrics ]], X3
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sammyx3
oXsamXo
RuNaWaYlOvExO
xoPiNKxo
PiNK x3
SxAxM
SxAxMxMxY
OxOxPiNKxOxO
PiNK


hi like well im bi aand i cant stop falling for strraight ppl and the gay/bi people i know i dont want im so confused i thought i was bi and i think im bi but like im like guys more and more like everyday and i have no idea what to do can someone PLEASE HELLP ME!! (link)
hey, im bi too, and well i fall for straight ppl all the time, its one of those things were you want what you cant have. Dont worry about it, i mean i dont really fall for a lot of gay/bi ppl either, but dont worry about it, i like guys more than i do girls, but i like girls to and i know that and im ok with it, so all you have to do is realize if you really do like girls or not. and if you do than you are bi, and so what if you like guys more, if you know for a fact that you like both guys and girls than your bi, no question about it. hope i helped your confusion.


I started cutting when i was in 6th grade but i didnt like it. but now i am and i have huge cuts on my hips and i burn my self with really hot water or something really hot like metal. I know i shouldn't. i wear a razor on my neck at school and people look at me and interrogate me and say...''DO YOU CUT!'' the only people that know that i do this are my two friends who help me out a lot... an especially one... she helps me to convince people that i don't cut. i just wished i could stop but im so caught up inside. (link)
well, i have a friend who used to cut and well, im sorry about that and i dont know what your reasons are for doing it, but that doesnt matter, what matters is that you realize that you need to fix this. well, what i did with my friend was we got rid of all of her razors and we kept her away from anything sharp or anything that would tempt her, so pretty much tell your friends that know, that you NEED help and you want them to help you. Tell them, that you want them to make you stop no matter what you tell them(meaning even if you tell them to stop trying to help you). it will help you in the end i promise, and it will be hard but if your friends help you and you try really hard then you can do it. Im sure of it. And i think that it will be hard at times to try to stop but it seems like you really want to stop this so, good luck and i hope this idea works out for you.




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