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My friend always ditches me.
& today she wrote this hugeeee apology.
I don't feel like i should forgive her, if shes always done it & said the same thing before.
What should i do?
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If she keeps on doing it, there's no point in giving her another chance. She's gonna end up doing it again.
Be friends with someone else & kick her ass to the curb.
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Well, do you want to be friends with this girl? If you feel that she is worth your time, tell her that the only way you'll accept her apology is if she really does change.
If she does change .. good for the both of you. Maybe you can develop a stronger relashionship.
If she doesn't change, then lose her, she wasn't worth your time anyways.
Good Luck!
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okay,w ell maybe she doesnt mean to always ditch you, maybe things just come up. but i think that in this situation you should forgive her, because if she realizes shes doing it and apologizing fr it then at least she trying not to be mean about it, and maybe she just doesnt remember about plans or w.e. ..
so, i think that youshould forgive her but talk to her about the fact that it aggrivates you and ask her why she does it all the time, and tell her that you dont really wanna be ditched all the time.. cuz its annoying and its hurting your feelings etc...
well hope i helped =]
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Honestly, this girl is not your friend. I've been there and has a so-called friend just like that, she always ditched me and she always came up with lame excuses. It's not right and she wasn't my friend, as soon as I realized that I just told her that I wasn't going to be a friend to someone, who isn't my friend. And I think you should do the same, not neccessarily exactly what I said to the person who did this to me, but to not forgive her for something she's done more than once.
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if youve confronted her before about this and she still doesnt change then you shouldnt care about her anymore...you have other freinds dont you?Ditch her out too,give her a taste of her own medicine.No longer confront her about the fact that she ditches you,youre noones spare.
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Hey. If this friend of your always ditches you than she is Definitely Not a friend! I could see once, maybe twice even but if she always does this than she really doesn't care about your feelings and that's not a friend as I'm sure you know. She probably does this to other people too so I wouldn't feel too bad about it. The apologie note is just part of her "little games" which sounds very immature. I wouldn't say anything mean to her or even act like you care which may hurt but will work out better in the long run. Just try to stay as far away from this girl as possible and don't make plans anymore. Be friendly, but stay far, far away. I really hope this helped and good luck =)
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give her another chance if shes worth keeping
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Just be blunt and tell her how you feel, and that it'll take more than some written apology to forgive her, she actually has to really try. Anyone can write things on paper.
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Well, goes to show how much she is sorry since she had to write an apology rather than say it to your face. Some friend she is.
I'd call her out on it. Why should you forgive her for a repeated offence?
If that's all the better she treats her friends, then I'd find a new friend to chum with.
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