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were britney and justin married? (link)
No, they just dated for a long time.


how long did justin and brit go out? (link)
3-4 years I think.


Ok I dont start working until the end of march, because thats when I turn 16. I really want a new xbox 360. Im like craving for one. lol My friends all want me to get one because they play.
My mom said I need to buy it myself. I hate this my parents can afford it..? What can motivate me so I can wait the 2 months? (link)
You could get a headstart till you turn 16. Babysit, do extra chores and stuff like that for money. So by the time you're sixteen, you'll have a little cash saved up. =]


ok, id like answers only from people who have been with their boyfriends/girlfriends for over 6 months. and preferably ages 16 and up, please. ok well, does it ever feel to you as if yall shouldnt be together? like theres nothing there anymore. youre not all excited to go home and talk to them. you really dont even care. youre not "cheery" around them or talking to them anymore. and you picture them with someone other than you, and it bothers you some, but not THAT much? i dont know what to do. im 16 and hes 17. weve been together 6 and a half months and were each others "first loves". ive never felt this way for anyone else before seriously. hes like a part of me now. but the past couple days ive been feeling this way and i dont know what to do. normally, im absolutely crazy for him, but there has been a couple times when ive been like "we should just be friends", but sooner than i say that, something happens that makes me realize just how in love i am and i could never lose him. so maybe its one of those times again..? or maybe its the gray weather.. ahh someone please help me. i dont want to make a huge mistake and regret it!! btw that whole "taking a break" deal does not swing with us we just dont really agree with it, we're either on or we're off. (link)
Be 'off' for a while. Do your own thing, date other people. And it it's meant to be, nothing can keep you apart. However cheesy it sounds lol. Hope I helped


does anyone know were i can find those small animated clips preferablly THE OC ones or some other show like that??? something girlyish?
these are what they look like http://i7.tinypic.com/29qkvb9.gif

THANKYOUU! (link)
http://www.fanforum.com/f152/

you can probably find some somewhere around there =]


Hey lately I've been having dreams about water and the ocean. The first one, i was swimming in a pool with Orca whales and then my dad and my brother threw them into the ocean so they could be back in the wild. The next one, my dad, grandma, and brother got eaten by sharks while I watched from the window of a rental house. The last one, I was swimming in the ocean with my brother and my friend's dad. The lifegaurd told us to get out of the water because a shark was near. Next thing i know, my friend's dad has the shark in a headlock and killed him. WHAT DOES THIS ALL MEAN?! Thank you. (link)
To see water in your dream, symbolizes your unconscious and your emotional state of mind. Water is the living essence of the psyche and the flow of life energy. It is also symbolic of spirituality, knowledge, healing and refreshment. If the water is calm, clear, then it signifies that you are in tune with your spirituality. It denotes serenity, peace of mind, and rejuvenation. If you are splashed by water, then it represents your need to be revitalized and more expressive. To dream that water is boiling, suggests that you are expressing some emotional turmoil. It also may mean that feelings from your unconscious are surfacing and ready to be acknowledged.?

To see muddy or dirty water in your dream, indicates that you are wallowing in your negative emotions. You may need to devote some time to clarify your mind and find internal peace. Alternatively, it suggests that your thinking/judgment is unclear and clouded. If you are immersed in muddy water, then it indicates that you are in over your head in a situation and are overwhelmed by your emotions.

To hear running water in your dream, denotes meditation, reflection and pondering of your thoughts and emotions.

To dream that you are walking on water, suggests that you have supreme and ultimate control over your emotions. It may also suggest that you need to "stay on top" of your emotions and not let them explode out of hand. Alternatively, it is symbolic of faith in yourself.


To see a shark in your dream, represents a person whom you see as greedy and unscrupulous. This person goes after what what he or she wants with no regards to the well-being and sensitivity of others. The shark may also be an aspect of your own personality which exhibit these qualities. Alternatively, you may be going through a difficult, painful, or unpleasant emotional period. The shark symbolizes feelings of anger, hostility, and fierceness. You may be an emotional threat to yourself or to others.


taken from dreammoods.com


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Hello! Just about every morning I'm excited to get up and go to school (I'm a grade ten in highschool). When I am sitting in ANY class I'm just thinking about how happy I am to be around other people. I'm popular, but there's SO much girly drama so I rarely go out anymore.

I'm afraid that this will change when I go to university. Will I still be able to socialize in university? Any advice/insight is greatly appreciated.

Thanks! =) (link)
of course you will be able to socialize. Just not in class, professors dont really like that, trust me xD. Usually theres parties on campus or hosted around or whatever, its a great place to meet friends and stuff.


Ok so there's this guy his name is Matt and i really like him but you see first of all i've never had a bf before except once and i moved away a week after we got together so i wouldnt consider him a bf but anyway i'm a 13 year old girl and this guys matt is in my grade (8th grade) and at the beginning of the school year i was sitting in my choir class and one of Matt's friends asked me if i would go out with Matt and i said no thinking they are joking or something so then a few days ago i was walking out of my choir class and these 2 guys corey and jeremy which are matt's friends and they ask me if i would go to the Valentines dance with Matt and so i told them i would get back to them and tell them my answer later though i never did cause i wanna know if they are joking so someone help are they joking or not???? and if you cant tell jsut any advice would be great please and thanks (link)
maybe hes shy? I dunno, just try going up to him and asking him about it.


i just uploaded a video onto youtube. when it uploaded, i updated it and it said that it uploaded and everything. and then when i added it unto my myspace, it said that the video was unavailable? and when i go to the 'uploaded videos' place on youtube, it shows the video, but not the picture from it.
is there a time thing that makes it so it takes awhile for it to be seen by other people?
or....what?

sorry if that question was confusing..i didn't really know how to ask it. (link)
it's probably just a time thing, it takes a while sometimes to actually start functioning when you upload it.


how do you put holes in your jeans but not to where they look like you just randomly cut them? (link)
randomly cut them, do it like diagonal.

Example:
- = Rip

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-
-

- -

-

and i'd suggest using a razor blade. i think it uses a awesome distressed material look.


my friend got wrote up for pda. jw wut it means? (link)
Public Display of Affection


My friend always ditches me.
& today she wrote this hugeeee apology.
I don't feel like i should forgive her, if shes always done it & said the same thing before.

What should i do? (link)
Just be blunt and tell her how you feel, and that it'll take more than some written apology to forgive her, she actually has to really try. Anyone can write things on paper.


I dont know what this should be in but I was studying for exams and my parents wont let me watch t.v. so can somebody breif me on what happens? (link)
tonights ep?

Basically speed boy comes back (he was the kid whose faster than clark?) and Clark found out he was working for Oliver (Green Arrow). Olivers trying to take down area 33.1 or whatever its called run by none other than the Luthors. Clark finds out, confronts Oliver who tells him Lex is beginning a war by using people with abilities for experiments. Cyborg (he was the guy from the famous jett jackson?) and Aquaman and Speedy work for Oliver to gain info and take down the experiment place or whatever after Lex captures Speedy. Oliver breaks up with Lois too because they're starting the whole 'Justice League' thing on smallville and going out to save the world from other Luthercorp plants. Clark stayed behind..for now anyway. That pretty much sums it up.


how old do you have to be to work at chuck e cheeses? im just curious if they would hire a 14 year old. (link)
a lot of places require you to be 16, but at a place like that, you could probably get a job there at 15.


I heard this song a while ago but i have no clue who sings it. Here are some lyrics:

Any ideas?
It's a women singing it and I'm pretty sure its R&B or hip-hop

you been doing your thing and i've been watching you

i think its right i think you'll do we going home tonight

get back get crunk get it crackin get down get right get low then you might just gte me home (link)
i think the songs 'touch it' by Mary J Blige.


what can i do to have healthy hair [& add bounciness]


and yea yea i know i have to stop with the styling products. but what elesee? (link)
healthy hair usually determines how you treat it. if that makes sense, lol. Try using some TresEmmE' shampoo and conditioner, it really helps and makes your hair smell good


How can an average looking guy like me increase my chances of getting into the pants of a hot girl like you? (link)
by refraining to tell your little fantasies. kthnxbye.


i really wanna learn how to dance, like you would at a party to a hip hop song or something. does anyone have any tips on how to do it? i've tried dancing in the mirror, it really does not help for me. are there are any good videos or ANYTHING? i just seem to have no rhythm and no idea as to how to move my body. please don't say anything like just listen to the music, because that's not working. (link)
you could get some dance videos. Or if you like hip hop and stuff like that, you can go and buy Jessica Alba's movie "Honey" and try and imitate her moves. I think theres a feature on the DVD where Jessica shows you how to do the dances in the movie step by step. Hope I helped =]


I have horribleee temper problems, well I think.
I get mad way to easily and when I do get mad it's terrible. This one kid was just asking me a question and he was getting on my nerves so I was like 'f*** you, shut up!' and the kids in the classroom next to mine could hear me.
Apparently my teachers don't care when I do it, because they know I'll back talk them if they say anything.
I just don't know what to do, because I don't like being mean.

A couple of my friends and my Mom told me I should go to anger management.

(link)
maybe you should try the whole anger management. Trying to control your temper isn't a easy job, but with people who can help and teach you how to in steps, it'll help you become more clam and relaxed and maybe even widen your patience span. hope I helped =]


what is a wet dream? do girls and guys get them? (link)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wet_dream

should help you out =]




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