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if the man does drugs, but the woman doesnt and takes care of herself when pregnant, can the baby have some form of development problem? (link)
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it's possible, but not likely. If he is on drugs during conception, maybe, but even so, it is doubtful that it will effect the sperm. The baby should be fine from a drug standpoint. The baby should be fine if the woman has been taking care of herself and not only refraining from drugs herself, but from being around people while they do it. Sometimes the fumes can be effective, but everything should be fine.
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k well i'm going to a semi formal in may, and i'm having trouble finding a dress. i already got a dress i liked but i'm gonna return it because there's too many sparkles and they get everyyywhere. i found this and this is basically what i'm looking for:
http://www.mypromshopper.com/#df/872
except without the polka dots and the bow, but the same fit and length and fabric and whatever.
where can i get a dress similar to that?
oh and also i like this dress type but the store its from is nowhere near where i live(& I'm nott getting it online):
http://www.windsorstore.com/shop_detail.aspx?CID=742&ID=51737
so where can i get one similar to that?
oh yeah and don't say jc penny or macy's please, i already chcked :}
k bye (link)
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well, if you can't find anything you like at any of the stores, you can always check specialty dress shops. Places like David's Bridal and things like that. They have some really good stuff at some decent prices. Of course, some things are really expensive, but you can find good stuff. YOu just have to love the dress because you CAN'T return it if you buy it there, like you'd be able to do at a normal department store. I've gotten some good dresses at places like that, so you should check there. They are all really nice and they aren't all like formal dresses. You can also dress things down, so yeah. Good luck and have fun!
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Hi, I need a glue that's safe for use on skin - I'm going to a fancy dress party and I need to glue some false hair (beard, moustache etc) to my face.
What kinds of glue are there that are suitable for this purpose, i.e. they won't damage my face skin but the hair willl stay stuck all night.
If anyone can give brand names/shops that sell them in the UK, that would be even better.
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i use spirit gum for things like that. It works really well. You can get it at any costume shop pretty much. I like it.
Good luck.
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Ive tried websites but I cant find the advice!! Sooo what are you supposed to do with your toungue while frenching... like what does "flicking" mean? (link)
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basically, you just massage his tongue with yours. Usually it isn't too hard once you do it. You'll understand better once you do it, especially with someone who knows how to do it as well. Its kind of hard to explain, but you just pretty much massage with your tongue. I haven't heard the term flicking before so i don't really know what it means, but as far as kissing and stuff, its just a sort of in, around, out, in, etc sort of motion, if that makes sense.
Good luck.
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i have two questions but if you can only answer one thatll be ok! first off im 16 and a sophomore.
1- i was wonderin how much harder are AP courses than advanced? i took 9th and 10th advanced literature and i was recommended for AP liturature next year and was wondering how much more of a struggle it honestly is?
2- im really worried that i wont survive in college. i make mostly all a's and an occasion b on report cards in regular & advanced classes, but the thing is, i dont really learn much! i memorize information, pass the tests because of that, soon forget it, but usually do all my homework, therefore i get high grades. i dont really try to do this, but it jus kinda happens. i zone out and stuff so yeah + if its not an interesting subject i just can not learn it. is that going to affect me a whole lot in college? im scared of flunking out especially since i want to try to get into a major university! (link)
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to answer your first question, i've done some honors and stuff and AP is pretty hard. Well, its not exactly hard, it just takes a lot more time and effort, so make sure that you are ready for it. Since you're already in advanced, it will only be a bit of a step up from that. Of course, i don't really know your entire school's curriculum, but thats how it works here.
as far as your second question, you should be fine. That is how studying works. You still have the information inside you if you can pass your tests, but you will probably need to just refresh teh information before you have mid-terms and finals and things. If you work hard and have grades like that, you should be completely fine in college. Don't worry about it. YOu have two more years.
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I was wearing panties and sweatpants. My boyfriend was like fingering me but i had on my sweatpants. Is that still considered being fingered? I'm really not sure considering I was wearing pants.
Also I'm a bit sore right now. What's going on? (he did it about 10 minutes ago) (link)
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it depends really on how it was done. If it was like, through your pants and stuff, then not really. You might be sore because of the layers and stuff. Of course, i don't know exactly what happened, but my best guess is that no not really and that you're probably just sore from force. Because the layers and stuff would probably make it more difficult to accomplish.
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(14, female)
My past boyfriend and I broke up about three
weeks ago after he cheated on me with the girl
I already disliked. After the breakup, I became
good friends with my old boyfriend, Michael.
My best friend, Annie, had a huge drinking
problem last year, and got to the point where
she had 30 minutes to live after alcohol
poisining. After about 9 months of trying
to change her around, she broke our trust and
drank again.
So to get me through the problems, Michael and
I became best friends again. At one point I
totally fell for him when I realized how great
he was. But I'm having such a hard time trusting
people after my latest problems, I'm not sure
what to do. I love him to death, as my best
friend. He's planning on asking me out soon,
because I told him I liked him to get my
mind off of my ex who cheated on me.
Now, I want to keep him as my best friend,
I'm not ready to trust another person with
my heart like that just yet. I'm not sure how
to tell him, I don't want to hurt him or scare
him away. I really can't lose him, I need
him right now. What should I do? (link)
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You should probably tell him BEFORE he asks you out. Tell him that you like him, but you really aren't ready to be more than friends because you're still so torn over your past relationship and how it ended. Just be honest with him and if he's worth anything at all, he'll understand. Then you guys can go back to being just friends and if things progress later, then see how you feel about it all then, but just be upfront and honest now BEFORE anything happens so that you can save everyone from too many problems and emotional dilemmas.
Good luck!
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my friend's dad is really abusive + she only trusted a few people to know. one of those people spilled the beans and told the school. she said she's being called down to the office alot to be quesioned. 5 times in two days. she said their guhna ask anyone whos been to her house how her dad acts i dont wanna be the reason she gets removed from her house, even though i know shes in a bad sitch + she already told them about how he's abusive. what should i say? (link)
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you really need to tell them when they ask. I know that you want to help your friend, but not telling would just be worse for her. She needs to get out of that house and away from her father so she doesn't get seriously hurt. Also check on her mom's condition if the two are still married. See how the dad treats her and how the mom treats her. It might just be him or both of them. YOu really need to help her and get her out of there before something goes seriously wrong.
Good luck!
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hello im 15 and im going to this like club for all ages and theyres gonna be guys there and i dont know how to like club dance? can any one give me tips other than be myself cause i would basically just do the same moves over and over again.. so if any one know any suggestions/dance moves or any websites taht show me then that would be great! thanks! (link)
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i go to all ages clubs too. There arent' necessarily moves. What i've come to realize is that guys will like you if you just shake your ass around. Thats not exactly what i recommend, but thats what it seems. Club dancing isn't really much different than anything at a school dance. Its just like shaking your hips and stuff, nothing special. Usually freak dancing and grinding and stuff. Just basically get out and move to the beat, though if your purpose is to attract guys, then maybe not. Just from personal experience, they tend to be really bad dancers and never on beat, which is okay, it's no contest or anything, but yeah. I just say do whatever flows. then everyone is much easier.
Have fun!
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ive had my period for like 5 years now and its always been a reasonably heavy 5-7 day flow. only the past 3 or 4 times have i began using tampons [regular absorbancy]. ive loved them and never had any problem however i started yesterday and this morning i got up and put one in [7:45ish] and by lunch [11:45] it was soaked and leaking in my underwear! i was pretty sure i could feel it and when i checked i was mad because thats never happened before! grr. what are some good tampons that DONT leak? i only have 1 super absorbancy and the ones i use now are playtex i think. (link)
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just use super absorbancy. It is common that it would be like that after four hours. Thats about the max you should have them in for. My best advice is either change them more regularly or just use super ones and everything'll be a lot easier. I use Playtex Gentle Glide. They're good because they're easy to use and they are much less harmful than most. Of course, any use of them is harmful in some way, but if you're smart about it, you should be fine. But yeha, i really like those. The thing is, pretty much all tampons will give you the same result. Its the change of absorbancy rather than brand.
Good luck!
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i have a pink sanyo 2400c i think its called.
1.How much does it cost to open picturemail?
2.i know you have to go on the internet to view the mail so how much is it getting on the internet on your phone?
thanks.
♥ danielle (link)
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i have sprint too. It depends on your plan, not really the phone. For picture mail for me, i think its five or ten dollars a month and thats for unlimited pictures in and out. and for internet you pay monthly as well, though not too much. I'm not exactly sure how much it is, but i wouldn't have it if it was expensive. Your best bet is to ask your parents (if they set up the plan) or just head in or call your nearest sprint store or radio shack and they'll be able to help you.
Good luck!
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what are some things that guys (in general) find irrestable? how can i get guys to fall for me? (ps. please dont tell me to "be myself" or "be confident" because i am myslef, and i am confident, i need more specific things, like what to wear, what not to wear, what not to say or do, things like that) it would really help if some guys answered this for me. (link)
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look nice, but not slutty. Going too out there will give them the wrong impression. If you have a good body, flaunt it. Be flirty and let guys know what you want. If you like a guy, flirt with him and see if he flirts back. Start with subtleties, but then, at a certain point, you have to be direct, otherwise he wont' get it. Guys are a little slow. So basically, flaunt it, but not to the point of where it's too much, because then you'll just look like a slut and thats no good. Good luck!
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I just got my hair colored today at a salon. i was wondering what shampoo and conditioner are best for that..thanks. (link)
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usually anything you can buy at a salon that is color care. There aren't many in grocery stores that are good for your hair, let alone color. It would be best to talk to your hairdresser. I don't pay too much attention since my dad is a hairdresser, but he shows me. There are specifically color care products. Biolage is really good or matrix. Another good place to go for a little bit cheaper things is beauty supplies such as Sally's or Maly's or something along those lines. You can look online or in the phone book for one. I have been getting highlights since I was six, so i know quite a lot about hair color. Best thing to do is to wait to wash it. You can condition it today and tomorrow, but to keep the color richer, wait a few days before washing it. Also, if its a dark color, limitting time in the sun will keep it darker. IF its light, more time in the sun will lighten it. Good luck!
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my boyfriends parents are soo rude. it drives me insane. i just came back from a 3 day vacation with them, and aside from being with my boyfriend, it wasnt too pretty. there was a couple occasions that we went out to eat, and they'd get up from the table and say "alright get up and let's go", even though i was still in the middle of eating. they did the same thing if we were in a store, even if i was looking at stuff to actually buy. also, they talk about people very rudely. when we were leaving, we stopped at a gas station and because the gas price was high, when they got back in the car they were whining about it and said "that b*****d can go to hell" and sayin they hope he goes bankrupt and stuff. AND they cuss SOOO much. like whoah. and the worse stuff possible. my family cusses minimally, and certainly not every word. its quite rare that my family cusses. but with them, every sentence they say contains a cuss word. one time his mom dropped some change or something in the room and she decides to yell "f*** me with a limp d***!". !?!?! that is just unnacceptable to me. first of all, thats not something to shout just because you drop some change, secondly, theyve used language like that ever since ive been around, but you'd think they'd have a little more respect and class than to use that kind of vulgarity around just anyone. and they smoke.. and cigarrette smoke irritates me. it burns my eyes and makes my head hurt yet i swear they each smoke like a pack a day. i just dont know what to do. i cant whine to my boyfriend about his parents. he doesnt smoke but he does cuss, although he tries to tone it down around me because he knows that i DO NOT cuss. i just dont. ive never been in that habit. and dont say talk to his parents because honestly they are quite intimidating to me. i cant tell my mom because she'll stop lettin me hang around them and say i dont need to be around those types of people, but i go to see my boyfriend, NOT them. basically i just want to know how to deal. any ideas? thanks- 16/female. (link)
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the best thing i can tell you is, relationships are rough and the parents are rougher. Have you tried possibly spending time with him somewhere else? at your house? or at the mall or some place away from his parents? I know that you really can't talk to them, but you can try talking to him. Don't necessarily complain about it, but just tell him that you feel a little uncomfortable and ask if he has any suggestions to make you feel more comfortable. He might suggest a change of scenery. Its really tough, but if you're really into it, i say to try to just make it better. YOu can make the parents change, but you can change how much you're around them and whatnot. Good luck!
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I'v always wanted to become an actress. I'v taken acting and modeling classes since I was 6, but I'm only 15. I have 3 years before I can move anywhere. How can I find auditions in the area I live in? I live in Albuquerque, NM. (link)
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look online and in newspapers. Do you guys have backstage west? we have that here in cali and thats what i use. I haven't gone on too many auditions yet considering i'm still busy in high school, but the best thing to do is start with small things. Depending on whether you wanna do film or stage. Stage is easier to break into because there are professional theatres everywhere. As far as film, you just have to see if anything is in your neighborhood or anywhere near. You might have to drive or have someone drive you a ways away to do it. Its really hard until you're out of school and on your own. Also, having been born to parents who act and such, if you have a want, you'll be able to do it. Notice how horrible actors stay afloat because they want it badly enough. SO yeah, basically, just look around and see what you can do. I'm lucky because i've wanted it since i was five and i live about an hour away from Hollywood, so yeah...
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hi, there is sumthing that is really bugging me. there is this boy i really like but the thing is my friend who i have known my whole life had found out 4 me that he doesnt like me back but the thing that makes it all worse is that he doesnt think im pretty and he said he would never go out with me. it seems like im not good enough for him i really want to make him love me back but i dont know what to do to make him like me back? i need help asap im seeing him on friday with friends.
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well, i don't know what i can really say. You can't make anyone love you. THats for sure, I know from experience. It really sucks, but if he doesn't like you for you, then he isn't worth anything. You should try to get over him and find someone else. I know that its hard. I really liked this one guy, but he seemed to only want sex from me, which i wasn't willing to just give, so basically, it took me about a year to get over him, adn that was because i never saw him. The best advice i can give you is either to just try to move on, or talk to him about it, because as much as it sucks, i've also had a lot of backstabbing friends, and she could just be telling you that if she likes him. But since i dont' know everyone involved, thats all that i can come up with. Good luck and i really hope everything works out!
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Hey everyone!!! I am 15 years old and I have never had a bf. I dont think that I am ugly, nor i am not antisocial. Is something wrong with me? After all, i am already a sophmore.... (link)
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I'm sure you're not ugly at all. My best friend is a junior and she has never had a boyfriend either. I'm not really sure what goes through guys minds sometimes, but trust me, not having a boyfriend doesn't mean anything. It tends to be a lot better to be single and just have some fun. Then you can flirt and whatnot and not have to worry about anything. If something does happen to arise, then you have the option to go for it, or keep looking. It depends on the guy i suppose. Of course, my advice is coming from my personal perspective, being a flirt, but yeah. I say you just take things as they come. Having some boy troubles currently myself, i dont' think i'm the right person to tell you how to get a boyfriend, nor do i think i really know. My best advice would be to just be yourself and let things happen. My advice may suck, but its all i got.
Good luck!
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AH! People on this site who ask for help frustrate me. Not all people do this but several do. Advice is where people from all different points of view give the honest answer they think even if it's brutal. Yet when some people do give honest answers, the questioner, who doesn't like the answer, decides to give a 1 for not getting a sugar coated answer. If we all said "Yeah, you're right, this and that" blah blah than those arn't advice...so I guess I'm asking why do people do that and is there any way to clarify to people that advice is not always sugar coated and that giving a 1 because they don't like the answer is just a;skljga;lkjg? (link)
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thank you! I completely agree with that. I've gotten it a few times. I try to give the best advice from a 3rd party perspective with no bias or anything, and if they dont' like what i have to say, then they rate me really low because it wasn't what they wanted to hear. Why don't they just tell us what they want us to say then? Then everything would be just perfect and no one would get any help...i for sure for sure agree with you.
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Okay so I know I look better with longer hair and my boyfriend loves long dark hair (i have dark red hair) and I would love some tips on how to make my hair (already mid chest length..sorry nicest way to explain it) to get down to my lower back as quckly ass possible it used to be that long. Any tips on how to get it to grow faster,be healthier please let me know.
ps-if you are gonna put wait for it..dont bother I know that.
one more further question-I have a dry scalp condition any ideas on how to stop the skin on my head from cracking?
answers asap please (link)
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i'm not sure of how to make your hair grow faster, my dad's a hairdresser, but i'm not really sure. I'd just suggest trimming it every month or so so that it stays healthier to avoid split ends and such.
as far as the dry scalp, i have that too. The best thing for you to do is go to a beauty supply or salon and talk to the professionals there. Try finding moisterizing shampoos or something specifically for dandruff, because thats pretty much what it is. you may have to try a few different things (which is what i'm doing) before you find what works best for you.
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15/f
i have this friend that i admire. she always makes me laugh and shes just amazing and shes always been there for me. ever since this school year started she made so many new friends, and i kinda got jealous so i didnt really pay attention to her because i wanted to see if she would do anything. she still acts really nice to me when the few times i actually do see her. im just kinda sad cause i dont see her as much as i used to and im afraid of being replaced by someone else. am i doing the right thing by not paying attention to her? if not what should i do? (link)
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i don't think ignoring her is the best way to go about it, especially if you want to be her friend. Try talking to her more. Try to plan things for the two of you to do together. YOu don't have to see her all the time to be friends with her. You can also try to make friends with her new friends and then join into their group. I'm sure that she still wants to be your friend, so make an effort to maintain your friendship and everything should go well.
Hope i helped!
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