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Never had a bf
Hey everyone!!! I am 15 years old and I have never had a bf. I dont think that I am ugly, nor i am not antisocial. Is something wrong with me? After all, i am already a sophmore....
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There's nothing wrong with you at all!
I'm 15 myself and I've never really had a boyfriend. Unless having them for a week and in that time never seeing them counts. I don't really think it does, but.. anyways.
Everybody meets their special someone at one time or another. Some early, some, later. Just think: while other girls are sitting going through guy after guy after guy and they're all turning up to be jerks or something, you're taking your time, having fun, and seeing what types of guys fit you best. Plus, you can notice the signs of a bad boyfriend from the experience of your other friends so you know what to do and what not to do.
Just keep having a good time with your friends and enjoy yourself ; you don't NEED a boyfriend. You can have a great time with or without one, and just keep meeting people and talking to guys and flirt. And hopefully, one'll soon become interested and you won't need to go through all those jerky boyfriends like your friends probably had to. :]
I hope I helped.
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dont wory bout it
everyone meets that special someone at different times
(and when i say special, i mean 1st boyfriend)
ive nvr really had a bf either
just keep doing wat your doing
and maybe insdead of getting asked out
you sould ask someone out
you nvr kno
its all your decision
so do w e you feel
hope this helps
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hey, nothing is wrong with you at all. infact sometimes i wish i could be like you. i give you lots of props. by not having a boyfriend your avoiding stupid boyfriend fights and heartaches. youll find that special guy someday. dont worry =].
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Lots of people your age haven't had their first boyfriend yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time for something like this to happen. Some get their first boyfriend when they're 12; others when they're 16 and some even only have their first boyfriend when they're 18-30. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first boyfriend, yet. You're only 15, hun. You have tons of time for boyfriends, believe me. But, I promise you in time, you'll find that special guy. You just have to give it some time. For now, enjoy being a teenage girl and having fun with your friends; you only live once.
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NOTHING is wrong with you.
Just give yourself time.
You probaly just dont wanna go out with some guy.
so wait for the special one
HOPED I HELPED
♥ Flaggal
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Nahh. I'm in your exacti situation.
The boys will grow up soon and realize what they are missing. :)
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No there is nothing wrong with you at all. Many people begin to get their first propa boyfriends around 15/16/17. My first proper boyfriend came when i was 15. So this could be your year. Just keep being social and try new things and hanging out with new people to find new friends. This could help you find the right guy for you. There is someone out there for you just be patient and you'll find him. Hope it helps
xox Porsche
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ive only really gone out with two guys, ive had a few hookups but they didnt go anywhere. And really my only serious realationship was with one guy. Yeah guys like me, but im soo picky on who i go out with, maybe you're heads just tellin you to find the right guy, before you go out with anyone. I still right now dont feel like going out with anyone, even with some guys liking me, Dont worry, you'll find someone eventually i promise, try hanging out with different guyss=] hope i helped
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I didn't have my first boyfriend untill I was almost fifteen.
There's nothing wrong with it, you just probably don't want to waste your time/love on someone who doesn't deserve it, or someone you don't have feelings with.
Afterall, one bad relationship can mess up your view on dating all together.
just keep waiting for the right guy.
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Hmm Im in the same situation as you. So, youre not alone. Theres NOTHING wrong with you. :] Im 15 and I, too have never had a boyfriend. And Im not scary looking or antisocial. Im positive its that you havent found the right guy yet. A lot of dating in high school is simply trial and error. You go on a date with someone, you find out if you liked them and why and if you didnt like the person, you just try to avoid that in the NEXT person you date. Its pretty pointless to me - I used to care about not having a boyfriend, but I realized its silly. Youre still young - theres plenty of time to have boyfriends. I know it feels like youre missing out, but youre really not. MOST relationships in high school are NOT like the movies at all. Theyre not perfect and cute and they definitely do not last forever (try a few months.) And the guys at 15 are mostly stilll immature. So, that plays a part in it too. Try not to focus on it too much. Ive heard its like waiting for water to boil. If you wait for it and wait for it and watch it closely it wont boil as fast, but the minute you leave the room and do something else, it boils! I guess what Im trying to say with that analogy is that love comes when you least expect it - and you'll find a guy thats RIGHT. And it'll totalllyyy be worth the wait.
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I'm sure you're not ugly at all. My best friend is a junior and she has never had a boyfriend either. I'm not really sure what goes through guys minds sometimes, but trust me, not having a boyfriend doesn't mean anything. It tends to be a lot better to be single and just have some fun. Then you can flirt and whatnot and not have to worry about anything. If something does happen to arise, then you have the option to go for it, or keep looking. It depends on the guy i suppose. Of course, my advice is coming from my personal perspective, being a flirt, but yeah. I say you just take things as they come. Having some boy troubles currently myself, i dont' think i'm the right person to tell you how to get a boyfriend, nor do i think i really know. My best advice would be to just be yourself and let things happen. My advice may suck, but its all i got.
Good luck!
<3 Elle
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No. It's totally normal, don't worry about it. If being single really bugs you, try acting a little more confident and flirtatious towards guys, and sooner or later you'll get a boyfriend :)
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First there is nothing wrong with never having a boyfriend before.The way i look at it your doing just fine,your waiting for that guy that fullfills you and makes you happy and is actually worth dating.Some girls at this age look for a boyfriend just to brag about it,and thats not the point.Having a boyfriend means that you found that special guy that gives you butterflies in your stomach when you're together.You are that type of girl and you shouldnt think that there is something with you because there isnt.In fact i can relate i had my first boyfriend just a few months ago,and i can tell you that even though it didnt work out its such a great feeling being with that special guy that you actually love.So keep on you're doing great,HE WILL COME:)
Hope i helped
-Sujayne
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nothing weird about it i had my 1st bf at 16 lol and i wastn ugly at that time or anything guys are soo inmature and not all of them wants commitment don't worry you'll have one soon trust me just stop thinking about it a lot! its not big deal you'll have one but stop worrying about it =)
diane
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