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fingered?


Question Posted Wednesday January 24 2007, 6:34 pm

I was wearing panties and sweatpants. My boyfriend was like fingering me but i had on my sweatpants. Is that still considered being fingered? I'm really not sure considering I was wearing pants.

Also I'm a bit sore right now. What's going on? (he did it about 10 minutes ago)


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Additional info, added Wednesday January 24 2007, 6:50 pm:
he didn't go down my pants but he was pressing hard on the vagina area and i did feel him somewhat finger me but of course it couldnt go all the way because i had pants on..

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queenhearts answered Wednesday January 24 2007, 8:41 pm:
It's just fooling around.

It's only fingering when his fingers are inside you without clothes protecting you.

Since you were wearing layers of clothing, it's added pressure and if you haven't been close to fingering before.. then it will be a bit sore.

If he was pressing too hard and you didn't like it, tell him to be gentle next time.

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LoveNJstyle answered Wednesday January 24 2007, 7:21 pm:
It probably hurt because of the layers of clothing going into that area. I think that's just considered fooling around. It could go either way but i think it's not technically fingering. If you're not sure, just don't tell anyone about it (how sexual things should be kept...just between the people involved) and you won't have to worry about people thinking you did something that you didn't actually do. <3

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Bestfriendswithimforever answered Wednesday January 24 2007, 7:20 pm:
Well, It is not fingering because fingering isnt unless his fingers actually enter your vagina....BUT you probably feel sore, because that was added pressure, in a sexual way. It was probably the fact that he was touching you in an area that doesnt get touched like that often. Make sure he doesnt do it to hard, you dont want real physical pain....just the sexual pain...ifyou must have any pain at all.

Really hope i helped

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orphans answered Wednesday January 24 2007, 6:58 pm:
if he was rubbing you through your pants = not fingering. fingering is like actually when his finger goes inside..

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illdomybest answered Wednesday January 24 2007, 6:58 pm:
i would still consider it fingering because he was still touching you in that area. your probably sore because he was pressing hard or if your just not use to it could be a cause to.

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JesusFreak2006 answered Wednesday January 24 2007, 6:47 pm:
it does depend on how he did it..did he do it through the sweatpants if he did no...or did he put his hands down ur pants then yes....he might of popped your cherry and thats why your sore

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BooYouWhore answered Wednesday January 24 2007, 6:41 pm:
it depends really on how it was done. If it was like, through your pants and stuff, then not really. You might be sore because of the layers and stuff. Of course, i don't know exactly what happened, but my best guess is that no not really and that you're probably just sore from force. Because the layers and stuff would probably make it more difficult to accomplish.
<3 Elle

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