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Hey well as you probably see I am 19 and I'm Christian (JesusFreak) and go ahead ask me something hopefully i can give you an answer thats right and ok with you. Have a good day
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okay i really like this guy but im 15 and he's 17. im not sure if im getting a message or something from him. he's brought me home from school monday and friday (today). and we were talking about serious relationships and how they are hard to find. On out way to my house there was this guy in his car staring at him, and i said "looks like he's checking you out" and he was like nah, i'd much rather a girl check me out. then he was like he was probably checking you out, your the pretty one in this car, or something like that.
i love the conversations we have. like its just, i feel so comfortable around him, around most guys i would have to have all my makeup on or partilly (sp). around him i could care less, and he still talks to me as if everything was still on.
any advicee?
It does seem like he likes you, but becareful of the age difference, he may not want someone so young, yeah its only two years but at that age it is a huge difference... he also might just like the conversation it really depends on the type of guy that is..is he a sensitive guy...if he is then then he just enjoys the conversation...so you have to make sure what type of guy before trying to figure out if he likes you...
a couple days ago in school we got out yearbooks. our whole school goes into a room and signs eachothers yearbooks and stuff, it's fun.
so, me and my boyfriend don't really talk and were not very close and the only thing we have done is hugged so far. we have never kissed not even on the cheek or anything and every other couple does. we are both very shy to eachother.
so anyway, we signed eachothers yearbooks. and what he wrote was 'josh xoxo'. does that mean anything? or does that just mean like love ya? thanks.
I don't think it means to much, he probably couldnt think of anything else to write..its prolly just means exactly what you think it is...however with you guys not kissing and stuff..he's just as nervous as you are, and guys dont read messages all that well so don't be afraid to make the first move
I was outside earlier today and got two mosquito bites on my forehead! They are HUGE! Does anyone know anything that could help them dissappear? Home remedies..anything? THANKS!
I've heard lemon juice actually does real well..its supposedly breaks down the enzymes in the mosquitoes bite and destroys the small amount of poison that makes the bumps...you just sprikle it on the center of the bite...then with your finger nail drag ur finger nail acrosst the bite so it breaks up the poison..do it on both of them...i read it in a natural medicine book so im not sure if it works
Okay im 13/f and today i got suspended for kissing my boyfriend and we wernt even on school property and now we can barely talk the only thing we can do is talk and give hug's but can you give me advice on this please befor tomarro even thoug il lbe home
unfortunately when your caught doing something like that..parents really freak out..the best thing you can do is wait it out...eventually your parents will trust you again..and then you can go back to kissing...i dunno if your parents let you guys hang out or anything but just take it slow...earning the trust of the sschool and your parents back will take time...n plus if the relatinoship lasts that long you know you got a good thing going if you guys can go without the physical part of a relationship
ok so i am 15 going on 16. and i am a freshman i am 1 year older then everyone else.but noone knows that. since i am very childsish and i blend in alot. som everyone is alwys like aww stephanie is so cute. shes such a little girl. but they dont know i am older. this is a huge big deal. and i realllllllyyyy dont want to tell them i am. they already asked me and i told them i was 14 and they are going to think that i lied to them and make a huge big deal. i really dont know what to do! i am going crazy! and the kid i like in my school hes a freshman going on 15. and i am going on 16. i dont want to tell him i'm older becase he asked me once and i said i was 14 and he likes me and so do i! also, i neevr show anyone my id card becase it says my date of birth. do you think they will find out i am 1 year older? how? and i will neevr show my id card! so they wont find out this way. any other way? has the tacher ever asked you how old you are in front of everyone, becase she needed it for a school thing? i am really depressed about this. please dont tell me to tell them the truth please help me!!1 thanks!
Eventually one day their going to find out...you cant hide it forever...the only class I can think of that usually seperates people on a regular basis because of age is physical education because when their doing this standardized national testing you have to followed your age groups average results...what you could do is tell them you've always told them that you were 16 and they must have heard wrong...otherwise you have to tell them the truth...now with the guy it depends on how he feels about older women...some guys thinks its hott to date older girls, some guys dont like it...so it just depends...whichever it is good luck
This isn't for me, but someone I'm kinda sorta concerned of.
She weighs about 180lbs, and wants to lose 20 lbs by the end of June (so she can look prettier). IMO, I think it's pretty unhealthy because a lot of people say that it's unhealthy to lose more than 2-3 lbs per week.
And how does she go about losing that weight, by working off 1000 calories on a good day, and 400 each day... atleast 3 times a week. The 400 cals isn't the problem, but the 1000 calories is quite a lot because that's like... half the amount of the calories that someone should intake.
In addition, she checks up on her weight obsessively. Are any of those things unhealthy :|?
And what is a healthy weight to lose by the end of june
As long she is eating what she needs too its fine...2-3 pounds is an average so its possible to lost more then that and still be fine...I dunno if you ever saw the show the biggest loser but they lost like 15-20 lbs their first week at the fit camp so its perfectly fine..theirs nothing wrong with exercising as long as your eating a well balanced diet
where can i get some uggs? i dont care if they are fake or real!
Nordstrom is the top retailer of UGGs and their the real thing...they can be pricy but anywhere you go, you will have to pay a hefty price...and also if you do go through nordstrom the UGG's are typically on back order but they can call all their stores and see if they can find a pair available...Their website is Nordstrom.com and if you want to order the boots call their customer order line 1-888-282-6060 and they will be able to place an order for you or search all their stores to see if they can find anything in stock...if you do decide to order through Nordstrom lemme know, I can recommend some employees to ask for who will be more then willing to help you out...my aim sn is goateeruffian if you need any more questions
alright im running for Public Relations how can i make posters to catch peoples eyes, i know make them colorfull and such... how else though? like decorations on them and such.
Most poloticians have catchy slogans and one good graphic that catches your eye...simple is better, the average person will just glance for a couple of seconds at the poster, if you have sometihng to complex on a poster it wont register in someones mind...typically people use their names like "I like Ike" or "Honest Abe" Id like to help if you need any help coming up with slogans or graphics.....my sn is goateeruffian on aim
hi im a 16/m and im starting to fall for this freshman girl..shes on my bus and i staretd iming hr last week.we have never talked in person and i want to so bad but i cant bring myself to say hey i feel like im gunna say something stupid i dont know why but i do...so ive imed her alot lately everyday pretty much...so should i continue to i/m her or no talk to her in person then continue...i also have her cell number she gave it to me for when we can hang out...so please help thanks in advance
well first see if she is interested in you before making a move...next time your online don't IM her, wait till she IM's you...if she does IM you its a really good sign..so when she does IM you the next time...tell her to save you a spot on the bus next to her, now the next time you get on the bus find where is she sitting and pretend not to notice, hopefully she will get your attention and tell her to sit by her....that way you can start a conversation....bring up something you talked online about or anything you really want..
I think talking in person is the way to go but its always great to play it safe and find out if the girl is interested in you before investing to much energy into a future relationship...I wouldnt call her especcially if you dont know what to say to her in person..over the phone things could just get more awkward
recently i was diagnosed with a ovarian cyst. my gyno put my on the birth control pill "yaz". he told me to start on the sunday after my period started. what i was wondering, is there a difference between day 1 (starting the first day of your period) starting and sunday starting. because i am also using it for its main purpose, birth control. does it still work the same way no matter which on you choose. thanks
Well this is what I know from my girlfrined taking it, the pills you take during your birthday control are merely placeboes, they don't do anything, the only reason why you take them during your period is because you dont get out of the habit of taking them...and plus birthday controls take about 3 months to stop you from becoming pregnant so don't think as soon as you start it means that you wont get pregnant, it takes a while to go into effect...so yeah it does matter what day you start on becuase it starts to regulate your period and you dont want to take the real pills at the wrong time
Is there an age limit on buying midol?
If so, how old?
I believe their is an age limit, as long as its not prescription, other wise anyone should be able to buy it
Theres this really cute boy a year below me in my school. idk much about him, just that he plays the trombone and sometimes i see him but idk his name or anything. Like, how do i just get him to talk or notice me?
talk to him about band..its something you guys both have in common so use it...talk about how practice went..and build from that..if he does like you he will try to keep the conversation flowing
Okay so i have a boyfriend and he is so sweet and i love him to death like litterally!! But the problem is we are going to different school's and so today i was right behind him and he didn't know and one of my friends went up to him and said "are you and sasha gunna brake up?" and sasha is me and my boyfriend said yes he was gunna dump me in like 2 weeks because of the school thing can anyone help me on what to do in this sichoation ???
Love,
scared and he dont know it
Well I know you probably don't want to hear this but if he has already decided on it there is very little to change his mind...but there are a couple options on what you could do...One: address his concerns without him knowing that you know about him wanting to breakup with you, his reason for breaking up with you was because of seperate schools, talk to him and ask him what you can do to make him feel more comfortable with it. Atleast you know you have two weeks to find a solution, just help him get over the distance and all should fall into place..
Summer is soon, and I am mainly looking at loosing weight in my stomach and thighs ( they have extra fat on them not needed)
Any good exercises that help either or both?
cruches and squats are probably the basic ones that are most effective...they may suck but people use them for a reason...if want to tone hold weights while during cruches and squats so your muscles get more of a work out..if your a girl dont work to hard at crunches cus 6-packs on women aren't that sexy
hey (14/f)
I was choosen by my teacher to compete in a contest, writing an essay about why im proud to be a Canadian. I dont want to do the normal things, like making a point, then relating it to my life blah blah blah. I really want to do something Totally different that realates to the topic. I would mention history or ANYTHING. Ideas anyone??
-Thank you
Alot of celebrities in america are from Canada, you could possibly mention how it makes you proud to be Canadian because they have made a name for themselves around the world just like you would like to do someday..
So here goes the story:
I was throwing this huge ass fifteenth birthday party. Like a house party with a buncha freshman and food and fun:] It was the party of month. or the year. It was kinda a big deal. So on April 28th the actual day of the party before everyone arrived I preped and preped and preped for it. The night was supposed to be amazing. But it turned out anything but.
First my very very good friends came before to hang out and be the first people there. & We took some pictures in my backyard, it was all really fun. We even opened some presents they gave me. :] Then people started to arrive. & Everyone looked so good and amazing. I was already having fun! People were handing me presents complimenting me. But not only that, people were having fun. The dancing was good the food was great. It was all good. But then people randomly started showing up asking if they could come. & I was having such a good time I didnt care. But then my house started getting full of people my orginal plan was a good 135 people. Well that was what came up on the list. It turned out that so many more people were coming it was soo badd. People were showing up and I had to turn them away. Then my really good friends who I really wanted there were coming late. & I couldnt let them in, or thats why my security said. They wouldnt let them in becuase of how packed my party was already. Even if people were leaving they wouldnt let anyone in. I was getting so stressed out that I started to drink. *I kinda dont regret this, but I do? lol* & I ended up hooking up with a guy that I had been talking to. I just let go, and everything went hay wire.
Now my friends are all mad at me. Even if they say they arnt they are, cause its been awkward ever since. Slowly its getting better but I dont know how to make it back to the way it used to be before this stupid party. & I want to say sorry to these people but I dont know how to.
& The guy I hooked up with is very awkward how do I make it unawkward?
Sorry this is so long but this has been a while and I havnt done anything and I'm about to explode.
Anything helps really.
Maybe you throw another party but a small one though just for you and your close friends...Plus if they are your really good friends they just want to hang out with you alone anyways..if they say their not mad there is really nothing you can do abuot it until they bring it up other wise do the small little party with just them and let them know how special they are to you...now with the awkwardness of the boy, basically start over with him, because you hooked up with him in an awkward way make so its no longer awkward by starting the relationship over
Is it a sin to masterbate?
Does the Bible state anything about it?
thanks
It basically comes down to opinion
The only story in the bible that some scholars believe that refers to masturbation is in Genesis 39:6-9
I will go ahead and give you a brief summary of it but you can always read it if you want: Well the passage tells about Tamar(girl) and Er(boy)and how they were married, Er become wicked and evil so God killed him. Well under jewish law if a wife is becomed windowed, the brother of the husband must marry his brothers wife and perform the regular duties such as support her and of course sex so their tribe could reproduce.
Er's brother was Onan, Onan married his brother's wife. Well if Onan and Tamar concieved the first born son would still be Er's under jewish law, well at their first sexual encounter he was abouut to orgasm in her, and thats when he pulled our and spilled his "seed" on the ground.
God was angry and killed Onan.
Now their are two interpratations: One is that God killed him because he disobeyed jewish law and wouldnt impregnate Tamar. And the Second is that God killed him because he spilled his semen on the ground which wasnt used for reproduction which is technically masturbation...
Now how you interept that, is purely up to you...the bible doesnt come right out and say masturbation is a sin...but nor does it say smoking is wrong...however it does say your body is your temple so keep it clean..so it's open to intereptation...
However there has been medical studies that do say that boys and men who masturbate or have sex atleast three times a week are half as likely to go to the doctors as those who don't so what I say to that is why would God make us that way if we weren't supposed to masturbate
Why did you choose such a username?
because im a jesus freak....i dont know if you ever heard of dc talk but they sang a song called Jesus Freak...and it talks about christians who stand up and i want to proclaim it to the world that I'm one of those whose stand u
Okay so for the past 3 or 4 days.. i feel like i have to go to the bathroom ALL THE TIME. and i will go to the bathroom..then 5 minutes later i feel like i have to go again.. but i dont. ALSO when i stand up i feel like i have to go. but when i sit down..that feeling just dis appears... could this be something bad?? and what could it be???
that sounds like constapation..but it shouldn't last for 3 or 4 days...its time to go to the doctors because you really shouldnt let it go any longer...i know it would be embarassing to talk about...but you could have an infection or a blockage that stops the stuff from coming out
I don't know what to get my mother for mother's day.I can't buy her anything because she will know
about it.So I will have to make her something.I was thinking of making her a doll of he rself,but I don't know how to make it.Here are somet hings I have but are not being used
1)Axe that was used as a prop for the school play.
2)Broken mug
Can I make a mother's day gift from either of them or do you have any other ideas?
well if you have some paint and glue...you can break the mug even more and create a mosiac with all the pieces....glue it on some wood and paint i love you mom on the broken peices of the mug