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14/f i have trouble with cutting my self and i really dont kno what to do!!! any advice would be nice!
I'm glad you had the courage to ask for help , because some people don't have that sort of luck, but i'm glad that you did. I have a friend who used to cut herself , and we found out, and now so whenever she have a feeling or problem that would be leading to her cutting herself she expresses it to us and that helps her to deal w/ her problem a bit more... she said to us once that she didnt know what she wood do w/ out us, and that scared me because what if we werent there once and it went to far? So I'm giving you the suggestion to confront your problems that lead to you cutting yourself and express how you feel, like my friend she needed some help w/ that so maybe you should see your guidance counselor or even a friend you trust . Get this problem solved before there's a time when it goes to far, everyone will benefit, think about you family and friends that love you?
~ hope i helped.... i'm sry if i didnt
This seems to constantly occur for me. I was hoping someone could help me. There's this guy who shall remain nameless and just recently I realized that I have liked him for awhile. Lets just say he's been on my mind a lot. Everytime I like a guy, one of my friends always has a crush on him too but I never say anything, I always remain silent on guys I like. I have a hard time. This time I think I blew it because there have been times where I would think that we both liked each other a lot and neither of us would say anything. It just sucks because I was finally going to tell him how I feel and one of my friends revealed that she had liked him for awhile. Now they are going to an event together and I don't know what to do?
well it's hard 2 no what u shood do.... do u think this guy was the one?...if so then that's really hard 2 say what u shood do, maybe u shood tlk 2 this friend that's goin 2 the event w/ him... r u really good friends w/ this friend?... if so then dont let this guy become stuck in the middle of ur friendship, if he's just some crush......but once again if u do think he is the one but u still wanna keep this friend a good friend, then maybe u shood stay low wen or if they "breakup" to make ur move, but make sure u ask ur friends permission first 2 avoid that big drama...,,,, this is just a suggestion so if u dont like it then im sry i coodnt help...
hope i helped
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Ok on wed I went to chruch and we had a lesson about sex bracelets but I didn't no any thing about them and I want to know as much as I can so I can tell my church about it I really want to know and if you know any thing about them tell me please.
they are colorfull rubber bracelets....they sell them at claires which u can prob tell alot from and my friend has a bunch and that's all i no
hope i helped
o by the way i dont think that they r inaporpreate but that is cause my friend has a bunch but if u find out they r then i wood appreciate it lots
thanks bye
Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.
What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged?
im sry if u dont like my answer but im only tryin 2 help......i do think 14 is very young 2 get engaged....i no ur really in love w/ him and yes was ur anwser but all im sayin is that u shood at least wait until ur 18 and he's 20....because if u really love him and vice versa he'll wait 2....and i dont think it will work out now cause eventually....both of u will get hit w/ the fact that u'll be waking up next 2 the same person everyday......and if ur parents r'nt ok w/ u getting married then think of the finacial problem......the only possible jobs wood or cood be babysittin......store employees.....waitresses and waitors....and other stuff ......and if that's the case, the issue of phsyical activity will come up and sooner then u think u'll have a baby which will prevent u from presueing ur education ....which will led 2 a very bad job for both of u cause u wont even have college degrees.....plus w/ one person workin and the other taking care of the baby 1 will be so overwelmed that u'll divorce...........but i dont no u and ur situation so im not the best source 4 advice......but all im sayin is a lot can happen if u get married now(statistics show bad things)....and that i think u shood wait if u guys are really that serious.........if u decide 2 not go through w/ it then he'll understand if he loves u that much 2 propose.............these r only suggestions.......hope i helped and sry this was really long........
Does anybody out there know of any good food recipe sites? I love to cook, but I need a lil help. lol If u know of any, pleeez help me Thanx!!
-Janine-*
i love 2 cook also.......i no some good websites on recipes.......www.allrecipes.com/.......or u could try.....www.foodnetwork.com/.....on food network they have this little sign w/ like u can pick the kind of food like beverage or breakfast and then they have wat ethnicity u want it 2 be and then they have how quick u want it 2 be.......but i personally like allrecipes.com/.............hope i helped!
From personal experience, what is the best self tanner out there? Not toooo drastic and def. not streaky or fake orange looking, and I know there's some decent ones out there because some people who have said they've used them look natural. I don't want to use a tanning bed and the mystic tans look HORRIBLE and orange, but i want to be a little bit tanner for the homecoming which is coming up in 2 weeks. Any suggestions?
self tanning aint really the way 2 go....the only good way is the old fashion way....get some rays..........self tanning looks bad and fake ALWAYS..........and i think it may cause sum health problems....hope i helped!
Well, my boyfriend and me have been going out for 3 weeks. And all the sudden today he breaks up with me!
Well, it was his friend since he was too chicken to do it on his own. I didn't believe his friend, so I called his house, and he said he was "God D*mn serious" but my boyfriend was laughing in the background and they were all laughing. And he just said the other day how much he liked me.
I cried for about an hour after that. If he's joking, though, I'm going to kill him. It scared me so bad. And I'm so confused. They won't tell me why, either. They just keep confusing me more everytime I talk to his friend.
They won't let me talk to my boyfriend either. They just keep saying "SHUT UP! GOD! HE HATES YOU AND HE BROKE UP WITH YOU. GET OVER IT!" but they keep laughing!
Do you think they're just joking or he really is breaking up with me they just think it's funny? Help!
Sorry this was so long. I rate!!
huny i have already answered ur question and thanks for the fab. rate........first of all it was just a suggestion....and if u didnt want all kinds of answers then u shoodnt ask 4 help....sry i was 2 brutall but mayb next time u shood ask ur mom if ya want sumtin different...........and if it aint like that at all....then wat is it like?
For me my love life sucks. I have the most amazing friends, but i still wish I had someone to actually love.
My problem is that i dont know how to really get a guys attention. I am always told to be myself, and thats what guyslove the most. But, I do just that, and I seem to not be getting any feedback. Do I need to take my 'flirting level' up a bit? pleeease help me!!
u shouldnt have 2 bring up ur flirtin level .......my friend has the same problem u have kinda....like of course she has the most aswomest friends ever cause 1 of them is me ...lol......she really thinks this guy a year older then her is way hot and so does like the hole group w/ hang w/....but really it's very doubtfull any of us will have a chance cause he's a year older plus there is this girl that looks like his best friend which kood me he likes her or ves virsa.....but bak 2 ur problem....u shoodnt flirt on a higher level 2 much cause then u'll be labeled a slut and that woodnt be good...a guy 4 u will like u 4 u , ALL of u.....is there any1 else who u like and flirts w/ u bak?.....cause if there is and u like him just the same u shood go 4 him deffently cause then u'll no he likes u 4 real and not cause u'd be acting slutish(sry 4 being rude)....hope i helped.....not real confident in my answer but there is 1 thing i can bak up......guys r idiots!.....it's a very well known fact....lol
ok i met this one girl like in jan and she went out wit this kid and she still likes him but he told me he doesnt like her anymore and i kinda otld her he doesnt and shes like oh its ok and he wants to go to homeocming wit me but shes my frind and if she finds out she mite be mad since i help her wit her problems and me and her arent the bestest of friends we dont really hang out but i see her in school and we talk and outside of school she ngs out wit some of my old friends so i ssay hi but if she sees me wit that kid at homecoming she mite get mad wat do i do i kinda like him too
i think that u shood ask the girl her permission 2 go out w/ this kid......or if u cant do that then try 2 hook this girl up w/ anotha guy and then ask her.........or tell the kid 2 tell the girl that he's asked u out and that u had doubts because of her friendship w/ the girl and that he wood appreciate it gratefully if she told u it was ok...or u cood cut the middle man out and tell her that urself........hope i helped!...(im sry if it's 2 complicated)
hey! i asked this one guy out(13,f) and he said no but he still wants to be friends. we hang out all the time and he TOTALLY flirts with me and i do the same! he has to know how i fell, he would be a complete dork not to, but i think he feels the same, but he said no?! how do figure out what he's thinkn'?
gosh sounds like he mite be just afraid....like most guys r.........if u really wanna no how he feels then i suggest 2 comfront him aggressivly.....not like slapping him around but...like look kinda annoyed and u mite wanna actually say"i cant figure u out" .....if he's givin all the signals and ur POSITIVE he flirts w/ u seriously, then u mite wanna try my suggestion if u cant handle being just friends...........or u can just confront him as his friend and try not 2 look desprete....
I can't make up my mind what I want to study. I am a 21 yr old male. I was going to go to school to learn about video editing because I have an interest in that, but now my friend and I had an idea to go to this design school and get certificates for interior design and start our own business. I can't decide because I am interested in both. Which of the two sounds like a better idea. And if anyone is a video person or an interior designer I would like to know how the salaries of these two occupations compare.
well i cant help u w/ the salaries question cause im neither....but u shood look that up on google or another asking website......and if the salary answers dont help u w/ the problem then u cood do eniemeanieminemo and w/ ever the 1 lands on then u cood accept that or(this is wat usually happens 2 me) think about wat was chosen and may choose the other 1.....i no it sounds cheesy but it works 4 me.........or u cood just follow ur hart the best u can or ask 4 sum help from sum people who know u cause they mite think of the thing that's best 4 u.......hope i helped!
Hey..okay well my problem is that i really really like this guy...he is really hot,got a good personailty hes really fun to be around...but I heard that he only goes out with punk girls which im not..and im not just about to change who i am for a guy but i really like this one!!..i mean i talk to him and hang around with him...but i dont kno what to do!!!
So my question(s) is: 1.what is your idea of being punk?
2.if he just goes for punk girls....how do i try to get him to notice me without trying to be too punk?
3.do you think there will ever be a chance if i keep trying?
Thanxs girls...luvs you lots
i think it's a really good idea for u not 2 change urself 4 this guy.....first of all....this info about him only dating punk girls mite be false and u shood probably ask a reliable source.....maybe even him.......and second of all punk isnt nesicarily a style but a personality....if u really wanna change then u can change ur style but i dont think it will help.....if he really likes u then it wont matter if ur punk or not, he'll like u 4 u...and i think u shood try 2 confront him about ur feelings or if ur shy then drop as many hints as possible even if u seem VERY obvious....hope i helped!
Hi. I'm in the seventh grade and am terrified about what I might get as a result on my reprot card. I never got off the honor role in my life of being in school. I get all A's and 1 B, and other times just all A's. I'm not trying to boast or brag or anything. I got 3 zeros in science, 1 D, and maybe I think 3 A's. My grade's shouldn't be going down like this because I know I can do better than that. The 1st quarter ends on October 20. Is there anyway I can improve my grade to an A by then. If so, please respond to this question. Thanx!
well it just seems 2 me that science mite not be ur best subject and mayb u shood ask 4 help(like a tooter),4 next marking period......but 4 this 1 u shood probably ask ur science teacher if there is any extra credit u cood do ,and maybe that can bring ur grade up.........