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my guy


Question Posted Sunday September 19 2004, 4:33 pm

hey! i asked this one guy out(13,f) and he said no but he still wants to be friends. we hang out all the time and he TOTALLY flirts with me and i do the same! he has to know how i fell, he would be a complete dork not to, but i think he feels the same, but he said no?! how do figure out what he's thinkn'?

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liddylflirtx3 answered Monday September 20 2004, 4:29 pm:
Maybe this guy just isn't ready, and wants to get to know you better - that's why he's flirting. Also, guys are totally immature and he might just be playing with your head!

Keep things low, and wait until he makes some moves that signals that he wants to take your friendly relationship to a whole new level. Until then, go to football games at the highschool or to the movies (this is what I tell everyone)!

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russianspy1234 answered Monday September 20 2004, 12:32 am:
sorry he doesnt like you that way. some guys are jsut flirtacious like that with friends. asking a friend out once is dangerous enough, asking them out a second time is a really bad idea.

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aNgeLxfOrEvEr answered Sunday September 19 2004, 6:29 pm:
He's probably just not ready for a relationship. But it's great that you guys are friends! You should tell him how you feel. He should understand since you guys are friends. Hope I helped you! -casey <33

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chatter231 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 4:53 pm:
gosh sounds like he mite be just afraid....like most guys r.........if u really wanna no how he feels then i suggest 2 comfront him aggressivly.....not like slapping him around but...like look kinda annoyed and u mite wanna actually say"i cant figure u out" .....if he's givin all the signals and ur POSITIVE he flirts w/ u seriously, then u mite wanna try my suggestion if u cant handle being just friends...........or u can just confront him as his friend and try not 2 look desprete....

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judith16 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 4:52 pm:
Ok. for starters you have to remember hes only 13 (right?) and 13 yr old boys arent usually interested untill later on in life...maybe 15 or 16...also I have a guy friend buts he was afriad to commit also because he knew if we broke up there goes OUR FRIENDSHIP!!!! YIKES!!!

so we waited a lil' while and he finally decieded to go for it...we are now going strong for 2 yrs!!!

hope all goes well!

judith (the lil' helper)

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advicegiver789 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 4:51 pm:
this is a common problem with alot of answers he may be still suffering from a previous brake up, or he could be holding back because hes scared of comittment or he might just flirt out of instinct alot of guys do it but dont let it get to u theres plenty of guys out there

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