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Ok, so I like this guy. But, the thing is, I dont see the point of liking anyone is, if they dont like you back, or they do and you totally think they dont. I've liked guys, but, I dont see what the point of liking them is, if they dont end up liking you back! It doesnt make sense, because I just get hurt, from liking them so much and them not liking me back. I know, your probably going to say, i have a while until I get a boyfriend etc. but, I just hate having to like guys...it just...brings me down. I told myself to stop liking someone that I liked for 4 a long ass time, and I mean a long time, I started crushing on him when I was like 12. But, I've been telling myself to just stop liking him, so i dont talk about him with friends or anything. Now, theres a new guy, he goes to a different school, I met him somewheres, and i got his email. But, im scared to talk to email him and stuff because I know he probably doesnt like me....ugh....any feedback on this?
thanks.
-Confused (link)
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What are you just gonna give up on your feelings just cuz youve had some bad history? ill tell you this when trying is all you can do, then thats all you should do, dont give up. lets youll give up on this guy before you even get to know him, wont it haunt your thoughts just wondering, "what if tried?" just dont give up, and maybe youll find the right guy. in fact im sure you will.
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Sorry this is so long! Okay, I'm 13 and i'm a female. So I've had this boyfriend for about 3 and a half months now and I really like him. We're both in the school play & at first I was so happy that I would get to see him so often. But, after a while, it seems like he is always hanging on me. Like, the first 10 times it was cute, but now it's just kinda like, "i need my space." My friend told him and he said he was gonna back off a little, but I'm still not sure, and when I am with him, just me & him it seems like all he wants to do is makeout. Also, there's this other really sweet kid in the pla who I flirt with all the time and he definitely flirts back. Like, he's my "best friend" and all.. but I'm not sure what to do! Help? (link)
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First id like to say thats it's bad that you flirt with another guy while you have a bf, i did to my girlfriend(completely by accident) and she got really and at me, so just a piece of adice about that, but as far as your current bf goes, my advice is to break up with him, if he's always around and you dont appriciate that, and all he wants to do is make out, thats not very romantic at all. so the sweet guy you metioned is smelling like a basket of roses compared to the guy your dating now. Thats my advice. hope i helped.
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i was reading this thing that said most guys like to have the girl make the first move -- guys, is this true??
and when do you kno when to make the first move?? i usually dont do it, i wait for the guy
but like, say your sitting in the movies...and your holding hands or something...when do you kno when the "right time" is to kiss him? (link)
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follow the long winding trail that your heart sets out for you and you will find out when. but in my opinion you shouldnt plan a kiss, a kiss should come naturally, so my advice is when it seems like the perfect time go for it.
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13/m. me and my girlfried have been going out for about a year. But we have never really done anything like even go to the movies!!!! So yah. This is all because she wont tell her parents about us. Im not at all a bad kid. Im pretty good looking, good grades, never got suspended, nice, ect. I'm getting a little tired of this b/c i want to be able to do stuff with her. should i dump her and move on? or should I stay with her? Why wont she tell them? I no its not b/c her parents think she is too young, and she has like a really good relationship with her parents. What should i do? Stay? or go? Please help!!!! I RATE HIGH!!! (link)
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you have to dump her, you should never date someone who is ashamed of you, so she likes you shes just worried that other people wont, and thats no way to have a good relationship, so dup her and tell her y.
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I am kind of sad because all of my friends have a b/f and I dont...... I know it sounds child like but it has been this way for a year now... I mean I am not the best looking but I still want someone.... idk what I should do..... btw 15/female (link)
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stop looking, because youve spent all your time looking, just stop and wait to be found, i know im not the best looking guy in the world either and i was found, and shes quite a catch. so keep your chin up, and be found.
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i just broke up with someone and want them back, i was wondering what guys would find more attractive. i girl that plays hard to get and pretend im over him then tell him when im ready i still like him or tell him i like him and i regret it and stuff. thanks (link)
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dont play hard to get cuz after a relationship guys will take that seriously and might get over you, so just tell him that you regret doing that and you want him back
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what do you do wen your goin out wif a guy.. and your best guy friend who you really like and have always wanted to go out with him asks you out... i mean i rilly like the guy im going out with and i really like my best friend?? me and my b/f lets call him jon have been goin out for a couple weeks now and my best frind lets call him bob juz asked me out today?! i have always wanted to go out with bob but he never asked and now that im going out with jon , bob decides to ask me out! i dont want answers tht say well its up to you..i need advice..thnx!! i rate high!!!!!
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if your relationship with the jon is going well then dont go out with bob because bob might brake your heart, when you could have had jon and be happy. but if it isnt going well for with jon then go for bob
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ok, well my ex girlfriend and i just got done breaking up with each other cause we aggreed on it and stuff on saturday night, well today i was hangin with this girl and i really like her (ive only known her for 2 days, but theres somthin about her) and i dont know if i should go into a relationship with her, or if i should still think about it, cause really i dunno
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i say go for it, theres nothin stoppin you why dont you, dont even worry about just getting out of a relationship, cuz this may be a great opertunity and if you dont take it now it may not be there anymore
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Well, what should I say to a guy while on the phone with him to make him like me?
Also, what are some things that guys say to you that means they like you, but we dont notice?
I'll rate 5's. (link)
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im a guy so ill give you a few tips, if a guy asks you who you like then 95% of the time he likes you, also if he keeps diging into your personal life by asking you questions, then 60% of the time he likes you 40% says he just wants to be friends. if you ask a guy who he likes and he says it's a secret he likes you now im not a girl so i dont know what to say but i hope i helped
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Why are boys so... i dont even know what word to use.. i mean they tell you they love you just to get in your pants! and they are sooo confusing, they bring so much pain but i still want them! ... grrr, am i making any sense? all i truley want is this...
i want a boy---
who can wrestle with me
and let me win.
who i can talk to about anything.
who laughs at my jokes.
a boy who puts my cold hands
in his warm hoodie pockets.
who lets me use his sweatshirt
for a pillow.
who buys me 25 cent rings,
and sticky hands.
who says i love you & means it.
who will kiss me in the rain,
in the sunshine, and in the snow.
who calls unexpectedly.
who will have many inside jokes
with me and remember each one.
a boy who notices girl's haircuts.
who realizes that girls say things
but dont always mean them.
who i can go swimming with
on hot days.
who can tell me his problems
and let me help.
who will listen to me talk--
about the new nail polish i got.
who will bring me seashells
from the beach.
who will let me beat him up
when i get angry.
who writes love letters to me,
but doesn't send them.
who draws pictures and slips them
gently into my locker slot.
who saves his genuine, big smiles for me.
a boy with deep eyes,
that can see through faces into depths.
who wears baseball hats and
lets me wear his too.
who gives me his t-shirt to change into
and not expect to get it back.
who knows my favorite color, song,
car, vegetable, perfume and
the color of my toothbrush.
a boy who will shake my dad's handand look my mother in the eye.
who will call me by my full name--
first, middle and last.
a boy who will kiss me and
tell me i'm beautiful.
a boy who will let me cry to him.
who will squeeze my hips just right.
who suprises me and compliments
my manicure and plays with my hair.
who knows when i have a math test
or when i fail one.
a boy who smells like
he just stepped out of the shower.
who tells me i have a nice laugh,
and a smile that lights up the room.
a boy who's simply mine to hold."
that is exactly what i want!
why cant i get that? (link)
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dont give up, and please it's offensive to me bad-mouthing my gender but i dont care as long as you know that there are decent guys out there, even ones with all the qualifications that you put out, which by the way was very bg list, so just keep trying and maybe one of those guys will find you, see youve spent your time looking just wait to be found
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I've been going out with this guy for a month. I've never kissed or been kissed by a guy. I wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me. But I guess i'm kinda nervous. He thinks I don't like him, But I really do! We've said I love you to eachother a few times and Idk. I really wanna kiss him but i'm scared i might mess up or something. Can anyone give me tips? I know it sounds stupid lol i'm 14.. and yeah i'm going out with a 12 year old. He's made out with a ton of people and I feel really stupid. Please help! (link)
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ive said this before and ill say it again, as soon as you stop making a big deal of kissing then it wont be a big deal you wont be nervous
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im not concited. but i am well liked at my school. everyone thinks im...
exsperienced such in the kissing section. well ... im not... when you come from my elementry u are like a goodie good. not that i am but what ever. so anyways i havnt had my first kiss cause im not a hoe and im saving it.
is that soo wrong. and if i do kiss someone. would it all just come soo much more naturally? (link)
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for one thing kissing does not make you a hoe, when your screwin like evry guy you meet, then your a hoe, but kissing isnt. dont sweat about kissing, if you stop making a big deal about it, then you wont be nervous. hope i helped
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hey does anyone know anything u can do at homecoming? bc i dont know how 2 dance dirty very well how do i move my arms and stuff and just everything? thanks (link)
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heres a question for you, why do you thik homecoming is about dancing like a slut?
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my friend likes me a lot.. and he told me he did and he told my friends he did.. and sometimes all he does is tell me how much he cares about me.. but then out of nowhere he stops calling me and ignores me and then a few days later hell call me again.. why does he do this? (link)
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there are two things that could be going on, one, he could just be really busy and struggels to find time to call you, or hes just a low down dirty dog, that just plays with you emotions for his twisted amusment.
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okay this is really hard to explain but i'll try...my best friend ryan (shes a girl) moved and she went out with this guy hunter...hunter imed me one day (after him and my friend broke up) and we talked and stuff and he was so sweet and i thought i liked him but i had a boyfriend and i told him i did so ya...my boyfriend was like a really good friend 2 but i didnt think it was fair to date him when i really liked hunter you know so i broke up with him and on aim i was talking to hunter that same day.and i said guess what and he goes what and i was like i broke up with andrew and he goes you kno whats coming next...will you go out with me! i really wanted to say yes but i wanted to ask my friend first to make sure she was like over him and i said hunter asked me out...do you care if i say yes and she ignored me and started cussing hunter out and then so hunter imed me and said...maybe we should wait,i still like you,and im not taking it back i love you,you just broke up with your boyfriend though,so lets wait. and all that was fine with me....well two days later my friend ryan came and stayed at my house for like a week and then 1st night she was there,hunter and me were texting and he called me and we talked for lk 4 hours (it was the first time we has talked on the phone) anyways and then the next day me and ryan went with my uncle to look at his new house and hunter texted me and i said im out of texts so i cant talk now and so i said he could text ryans phone...so he did and he was like can you hand tayler the phone for a sec...so she did and i gave it back to her (i was like in the car talking to my uncle and i didnt want to like be texting him) and then she handed it to me again and it said "will you go out with me" and again i handed her the phone and just thought i will talk to him about it later...then he texted ryans phone again and said " i really like you...but i guess you dont like me" so then i felt horrible so i texted him back and said "no no i do like you its just i dont want you to hurt me" and he said "i would never hurt you,i love you too much" so then i said "are you sure this is what you want" and he said "i wouldnt want it anyother way" so i said yes...and he was a good boyfriend for like a week and then we would be like talking online and he would say i gtg baby i will call you tonight...then he wouldnt call and then we would fight and all this stuff...and it happened like 3 times...then he texted me and was like "baby im sorry i've been a bitch and im such a dumass for treating you like this and im lucky that you stuck around this long please forgive me...things will change i will be the boyfriend you deserve which is better that what i have been" and then he was better (we still hadnt met in person.but we did see lots of pictures) then he broke up with me said he wanted to be friends and then we would talk ever day texting...but he wouldnt talk to me on the phone and he would always ask me for pictures then the fourth of july he texted me and said "we dont need to be friends" i was like okay whatever..after this im not giving you anymore chances and he goes i dont care your ugly and and i go your not excactly the hottest guy i have dated eitehr and he goes oh ya thats why u wanted me soo bad and i was like it wasnt you i wanted hun it was a boyfriend but its fine cause im over it and he didnt text me back for like three days and when he did he re-wrote what i had written him the "it wasnt you i wanted hun it was a boyfriend but thats okay im over it" and then he wrote oh thats nice you played me..and he was like look im sorry ok can we jsut start over i understand if you dont want to be friends i jsut feel guitly sayin all that shit to you and im sorry and then we talked and i was like well i dont know if i can be friends with you...you hurt me and he said and you hurt me and im sorry and i was like well i only said it cause you were being rude and acted like you hated me and even though i liked you i wasnt gonna be like oh baby im sorry i love you...and he was like i jsut said it cause i had nothing to say and said he had to go and asked me to get on aim the next morning so i did and we worked everything out and then we talked on the phone every so often and then this whole thing happened where he said sorry i cant call you and i sent a message to christina (a girl thats friends with me and hunter) and it said if he calls you three way me and i accidently sent it to hunter and he was like yeah he got really mad at was like you thought i would to you blah blah blah and said i hate you get out of my life then the next morning he texted me and said sorry i was jsut upset cause i thought you lied to me and i for some reason forgave him and we talked and we "friends" and then he said i like you and i was like ok..and he would say i love you and i want to meet in person and all this"well he said that one night and the next morning he said i dont like you anymore theres no other girl theres jsut no girl at all...and then we just talked as "friends" and then he was on the phone with christina and asked her to three way me so she did but i didnt really talk directly to him cause he was only on the phone for like 5 minutes cause then he had to go and i stayed on the phone and chrisitna said hunter told me to tell you he likes someone..but he wont say who and i was like okay so later that night hunter texted me and i asked him who he liked and he was like i dont want to tell anyone and i was like okay well if you get ready to tell someone you can trust me and he was like ok and he said i like justins girlfriend,ariel (justins his best friend)and then he said i gotta go i will be back on later (he has been texting me from his sn) then his friend justin was like hey and i go hi and he was like whats wrong and i said stuff with hunter and he goes like what? and i said its jsut hard liking someone that doesnt like you back and justin said do you know who he likes and i said no and he goes if you do please tell me i wont tell him i sware and i said im sorry but im not gonna do that to him and he said this is hunter on justins sn i jsut wanted to see if i could trust you and i can so thanks and i dont like ariel i like you and it turns out him and justin were together the whole time and i was like ok no big deal i couldnt be mad cause he liked me again and then i didnt talk to him for 3 days and he texted me and said i dont like you i like someone else sorry and i got on aim and i was like who do you like and he said well i like you but u live really far away but if you move here i would love to go out with you (we live like 20 minutes away,and my parents are looking at houses out there) and so i was like so theres no other girl and he goes no there is her names courtnei and i like her alot and i was like oh and then i found out he has asked her out and she liked him and he liked her the only thing keeping them from going out was that she had a boyfriend when i started typing this i just wanted to see what you thought but unfortunately since its so long since the beginning of this i jsut found out in his friends away message that him and courtnei are going out and i dont know what to do i mean i want to just tell him off and be like im sicking of you treating me liked this and i could careless if we ever speak again and stand up to him but that would screw everything up with us for good and a big part of me still wants him..i dont know why cause i have had guys that treat me 10x better and since we broke up two guys have asked me out but i have said no for him...i was waiting for him and then he jsut moves on like im nothing and i feel like just...i dont know im just really upset and dont know what to do everyone tells me oh my gosh taylor just move on but i cant its i dont know theres something about him that i cant let go of...what that is i dont know cause i mean hes hott but not that hott hes nice sometimes and i just i dont know should i tell him that i like him that i love him that i want him that i hate him or as hard as it may be jsut not talk to him and see if he comes back to me or even notices im not there for him...or if he cares anyways please please help me... *** broken hearted
laycee (link)
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hey ya know that if you actually gave those other guys that asked you out a chance you may have found what you need to move on, hes got you in a trance hes hurt you from what i count in there like five times and you just frogive him as soon as he says sorry. you signed your name, Broken Hearted, i suppose you want to fix that heart, the only way to do that is to move on, your lovesick find a better person theres a better guy for you, someone who doesnt toy with you. thats what that guy is doing hes toying with you hes just doing this to prove that he has you in the palm of his hand, dont be controlled by this guy. you may say that theres something inside him that makes you unable to move on, but it's the doubt inside you that makes you unable to move on. so get rid of the doubt and you can get rid of him, you have the strength to do it, you just gotta believe it. im sorry this was long but your question was like 5 times longer hope i helped, if you have any further questions about his subject or your questioning my advice just ask at my advice caloumn.
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have you ever had a girl you really liked but she didnt know? and you knew she didnt like you like that? what should i do (link)
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you should give up really i know it may osund discouraging but the longer you think about her the less you notice if any other girls like you so right now there could be a girl that likes you but you dont know cuz your too preocupied with the girl who doesnt like you, so move on and you may find something better
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wherever i go, i call my boyfriend before i go and tell him or he makes me feel bad
whatever i do, i call my boyfriend and tell him before i do it or he makes me feel bad
when we fight, i am given all the blame
if i want to hang out with friends, i can, but he makes me feel bad
if he is stressed out, i am feeling bad because hes telling me what i try is not enough and i should always put him before me
hes needy, and he knows it!
if im happy spending time away from him and im w/ friends, he feels bad and makes me feel bad
but he says nothings ever his fault, he cant help it if he feels bad
i am the one who has to do EVERYTHING!, because he used to do things for me in the beginning of our relaitonship but now if i dont do it, he makes me feel bad.
im always made to feel bad. (link)
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this should be very easy for you, anyone who makes you feel this bad you dont wanna be associated with just dump him if he cant take your feelings in to account then hes not worth it, hope i helped
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how should a normal healthy teen relationship be? how much should you see eachother? what kinda things should u do, where should u go? what are some bad things to do w/ your boyfriend? is fooling around a bad idea? ive been w/ my bf for 11 months.... but i feel too tied down, like im married.... (link)
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you should do whatever you feel is ok it shouldnt matter what other people say is right or wrong if you think that it's ok, then it's ok
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Hey guys. Well there's this guy that I like and the only problem is that it's my best friend's bro. He's younger than I am (I'm a 8th grader and he's in 7th) and I'm pretty sure he likes me too. Everytime one of my other friends asks him he denies it but he always flirts with me when I go to her house. I REALLY like him but of course I can't tell my friend or else she'd freak! PLEASE HELP!!!! I'll rate 5's!!! (link)
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hey being older than him isnt a very big problem and as soon as you stop thinking that it is thats when it wont be a problem anymore, and your friend isnt really your friend if she is gonna stand in the way of someone you like, hope i helped
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i have this friend and she is going out with this guy that i happen to like...she doesnt know that i like him and i know that if she finds out she would be soooo mad because i guess at one point he told some of his friends that he liked me...so i dont know what to do, do i tell him? do i tell her?
*melissa 15 (link)
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you can tell her and if she is truely your friend then she will not freak out or anything but no matter what you do do not tell him, as that will f up your friendship with her for a long time, trust me. hope i helped.
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