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okay this is really hard to explain but i'll try...my best friend ryan (shes a girl) moved and she went out with this guy hunter...hunter imed me one day (after him and my friend broke up) and we talked and stuff and he was so sweet and i thought i liked him but i had a boyfriend and i told him i did so ya...my boyfriend was like a really good friend 2 but i didnt think it was fair to date him when i really liked hunter you know so i broke up with him and on aim i was talking to hunter that same day.and i said guess what and he goes what and i was like i broke up with andrew and he goes you kno whats coming next...will you go out with me! i really wanted to say yes but i wanted to ask my friend first to make sure she was like over him and i said hunter asked me out...do you care if i say yes and she ignored me and started cussing hunter out and then so hunter imed me and said...maybe we should wait,i still like you,and im not taking it back i love you,you just broke up with your boyfriend though,so lets wait. and all that was fine with me....well two days later my friend ryan came and stayed at my house for like a week and then 1st night she was there,hunter and me were texting and he called me and we talked for lk 4 hours (it was the first time we has talked on the phone) anyways and then the next day me and ryan went with my uncle to look at his new house and hunter texted me and i said im out of texts so i cant talk now and so i said he could text ryans phone...so he did and he was like can you hand tayler the phone for a sec...so she did and i gave it back to her (i was like in the car talking to my uncle and i didnt want to like be texting him) and then she handed it to me again and it said "will you go out with me" and again i handed her the phone and just thought i will talk to him about it later...then he texted ryans phone again and said " i really like you...but i guess you dont like me" so then i felt horrible so i texted him back and said "no no i do like you its just i dont want you to hurt me" and he said "i would never hurt you,i love you too much" so then i said "are you sure this is what you want" and he said "i wouldnt want it anyother way" so i said yes...and he was a good boyfriend for like a week and then we would be like talking online and he would say i gtg baby i will call you tonight...then he wouldnt call and then we would fight and all this stuff...and it happened like 3 times...then he texted me and was like "baby im sorry i've been a bitch and im such a dumass for treating you like this and im lucky that you stuck around this long please forgive me...things will change i will be the boyfriend you deserve which is better that what i have been" and then he was better (we still hadnt met in person.but we did see lots of pictures) then he broke up with me said he wanted to be friends and then we would talk ever day texting...but he wouldnt talk to me on the phone and he would always ask me for pictures then the fourth of july he texted me and said "we dont need to be friends" i was like okay whatever..after this im not giving you anymore chances and he goes i dont care your ugly and and i go your not excactly the hottest guy i have dated eitehr and he goes oh ya thats why u wanted me soo bad and i was like it wasnt you i wanted hun it was a boyfriend but its fine cause im over it and he didnt text me back for like three days and when he did he re-wrote what i had written him the "it wasnt you i wanted hun it was a boyfriend but thats okay im over it" and then he wrote oh thats nice you played me..and he was like look im sorry ok can we jsut start over i understand if you dont want to be friends i jsut feel guitly sayin all that shit to you and im sorry and then we talked and i was like well i dont know if i can be friends with you...you hurt me and he said and you hurt me and im sorry and i was like well i only said it cause you were being rude and acted like you hated me and even though i liked you i wasnt gonna be like oh baby im sorry i love you...and he was like i jsut said it cause i had nothing to say and said he had to go and asked me to get on aim the next morning so i did and we worked everything out and then we talked on the phone every so often and then this whole thing happened where he said sorry i cant call you and i sent a message to christina (a girl thats friends with me and hunter) and it said if he calls you three way me and i accidently sent it to hunter and he was like yeah he got really mad at was like you thought i would to you blah blah blah and said i hate you get out of my life then the next morning he texted me and said sorry i was jsut upset cause i thought you lied to me and i for some reason forgave him and we talked and we "friends" and then he said i like you and i was like ok..and he would say i love you and i want to meet in person and all this"well he said that one night and the next morning he said i dont like you anymore theres no other girl theres jsut no girl at all...and then we just talked as "friends" and then he was on the phone with christina and asked her to three way me so she did but i didnt really talk directly to him cause he was only on the phone for like 5 minutes cause then he had to go and i stayed on the phone and chrisitna said hunter told me to tell you he likes someone..but he wont say who and i was like okay so later that night hunter texted me and i asked him who he liked and he was like i dont want to tell anyone and i was like okay well if you get ready to tell someone you can trust me and he was like ok and he said i like justins girlfriend,ariel (justins his best friend)and then he said i gotta go i will be back on later (he has been texting me from his sn) then his friend justin was like hey and i go hi and he was like whats wrong and i said stuff with hunter and he goes like what? and i said its jsut hard liking someone that doesnt like you back and justin said do you know who he likes and i said no and he goes if you do please tell me i wont tell him i sware and i said im sorry but im not gonna do that to him and he said this is hunter on justins sn i jsut wanted to see if i could trust you and i can so thanks and i dont like ariel i like you and it turns out him and justin were together the whole time and i was like ok no big deal i couldnt be mad cause he liked me again and then i didnt talk to him for 3 days and he texted me and said i dont like you i like someone else sorry and i got on aim and i was like who do you like and he said well i like you but u live really far away but if you move here i would love to go out with you (we live like 20 minutes away,and my parents are looking at houses out there) and so i was like so theres no other girl and he goes no there is her names courtnei and i like her alot and i was like oh and then i found out he has asked her out and she liked him and he liked her the only thing keeping them from going out was that she had a boyfriend when i started typing this i just wanted to see what you thought but unfortunately since its so long since the beginning of this i jsut found out in his friends away message that him and courtnei are going out and i dont know what to do i mean i want to just tell him off and be like im sicking of you treating me liked this and i could careless if we ever speak again and stand up to him but that would screw everything up with us for good and a big part of me still wants him..i dont know why cause i have had guys that treat me 10x better and since we broke up two guys have asked me out but i have said no for him...i was waiting for him and then he jsut moves on like im nothing and i feel like just...i dont know im just really upset and dont know what to do everyone tells me oh my gosh taylor just move on but i cant its i dont know theres something about him that i cant let go of...what that is i dont know cause i mean hes hott but not that hott hes nice sometimes and i just i dont know should i tell him that i like him that i love him that i want him that i hate him or as hard as it may be jsut not talk to him and see if he comes back to me or even notices im not there for him...or if he cares anyways please please help me... *** broken hearted
laycee
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wow...tht was long....umm...well hun..your friends are right...hunter is using you..hes been using you!...i know you still may like him and everything..but just get to know a different guy..and mayb just mayb youll start liking him..because you and hunter..have one screwd up relation ship...it reminds me of me and my ex....god he was an ass hole...well...yeah..but i cant relly think of what else to say
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Wow this sounds like an awkward relationship. Guys are very confusing. What I would do is try talking to him and ask why he has all those wierd moments and if he ever flips out on you again don't take it. If he comes crawling back to you after if he flips out just telll him he's not worth the agravation and your not going to be friends with him. It will be hard but trust me I know how it feels.
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Sounds like this guy can't make his mind at all and he likes to mess with you. If i were you, i would have nothing to do with him. You deserve better instead of this guy who's willing to say all that crap over and over again. Then he'll apologize?? Usually when people mess up and apologize, they try to get BETTER. But this guy keeps doing the same crap to you. I know this is hard, but try to get over this guy and go out with anybody else!!! He doesn't deserve you and you could get soo much better. Hope i helped!!!
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thats soo long lol.
okay well your best bet is to just forget the jerk. He obviously cant REALLY like you if he just goes from girl to girl, then back to you when it doesnt work out. There are SOOO many guys in this world that you dont even need to waste time on guys like him. Good luck hun<3
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wow....
I read through that whole thing,my eyes are burning,but thats ok.
I say forget him,for a while!He treats you so badly and keeps hooking up and breaking up with you and testing you then going out with other people.
Also the fact that you haven't seen eachother much,if at all,in real life.
Its very true,long distant relationships never last...though 20 mins isn't far...
Hn...wait a while...see what happens.See if he matures any,and if he does,he may come back to you and treat you much better.
Hope I've helped in some way
~Long Lost
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from what it looks like, he still cares about you, but hes just using you to fall back on when he doenst have anything at the moment. im in the same situation right now and i know its hard to let go of them but believe me there are so many other people out there who will treat you wayy better than that, and personally its gay that hes always running back to you when he says he hates you... it shows how immature he is. so its going to take time, and you should look for other people than end up with a broken heart. just think yeah its going to be hard but in the end its going to be worth it. ohh and btw i hope your friend was over him when you said yes, because friends are around way longer than guys and will be the ones who dont stab you in the heart unlike guys so just remember that... and hope i helped
xo erica
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hey ya know that if you actually gave those other guys that asked you out a chance you may have found what you need to move on, hes got you in a trance hes hurt you from what i count in there like five times and you just frogive him as soon as he says sorry. you signed your name, Broken Hearted, i suppose you want to fix that heart, the only way to do that is to move on, your lovesick find a better person theres a better guy for you, someone who doesnt toy with you. thats what that guy is doing hes toying with you hes just doing this to prove that he has you in the palm of his hand, dont be controlled by this guy. you may say that theres something inside him that makes you unable to move on, but it's the doubt inside you that makes you unable to move on. so get rid of the doubt and you can get rid of him, you have the strength to do it, you just gotta believe it. im sorry this was long but your question was like 5 times longer hope i helped, if you have any further questions about his subject or your questioning my advice just ask at my advice caloumn.
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I think you need to find someone who really likes you. Who knows how many girls this...oh forgive me I don't want to hunt his name down lets call him text boy...has on the string. Maybe he is chatting up so many he can't keep it straight who he is talking to. Whatever the case, he needs to do some growing up.
You need a guy who you can see all the time and who gives you all his attention. Forget text boy, just ignore him, block him whatever it takes and move on. :)
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