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Hey there. Ok one of my best friends and I had this HUGE fight... over a dumb guy... my friend's boyfriend and me were arguing and i said something to her boyfriend and her boyfriend told her, so thats how the fight started... and you know when u fight, things come out of your mouth that you don't mean... and of course i started saying stuff i didn't mean and i know she was too... but then she called me a fat whore...(and she knows how self concious i am about myslef) and we started freakin out at eachother... and now its really weird between us... i want to forgive her, but i dont want to, she hurt my feelings so badly... no i mean.. i dunno what to do... Please help me! (link)
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Well when you fight things slip out that you don't mean ... it's just human nature. If you know she didn't mean it you shouldn't be that mad even though I'm sure it hurt you very much. And if you said stuff to her and got her mad and make her feel bad of corse she's going to say stuff back. If I were you I would forgive her because you obviously had to hurt her if she said that about you. You should just forget about the past and love like u've never been hurt. As for her boyfriend ... just ignore him!
And if it helps talk to her about it and get her side of the story!
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Hey guys, this is gonna sound really retarded, but I'll ask anyway. Well it started when my brother asked me if I'd read the harry potter books and I said no, they're really stupid. But then he convinced me to read them, and now I'm on the 5th book. I really like them, it's kind of funny, because I always thought they were stupid. But anyway, I'll get to my question. My best friend likes them too, so we wanna have a harry potter party. I know, we're so stupid! So does anyone know what we can do, other than watch the movies and stuff? We already decided on making shirts. I'm making mine say I love Snape. Haha, don't ask. Is there anything else we can do though? Thank you!! (link)
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Well I like Harry Potter a lot too! One thing you could do is have a harry potter cake and make a bowl full of berttie bots every flavor beans and others like chocolate frogs! Also for cups you could try getting Goblets to drink out of! And maybe you could find some games to play too!
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Does anyone have any tips for how to redecorate your room with very little money? I don't want to paint it or anything, but I want it to look less plain. (link)
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Try adding some bright colors into your room. Maybe add a few lights and a nice bed spread for some extras. Also add some colorful paintings and nice beads to hand in front of your windows and doorway. You can decorate your room however you want but the one word you have to remember is color!
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A lot of my friends smoke. This means that whenever I hang around with them they are smoking and they often offer me cigarettes. I have always said no because I have my priciples but recently I have been smoking with them. I found that it was quite relaxing and I liked it. I really don't want to do it anymore but I enjoy it and as my friends do it, it's tempting. How do I stop before I get too addicted? (link)
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Try not to hang out with your friends for a while, or if you do make sure it's in a public place where a ton of people r around or where you can't. Like at the movies. If one of your friends offers you a cigarette say no it might be hard but it's not worth it. It might be relaxing now but later in your life when your older you won't think so.
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I'm 17/f/Michigan and I'm in cross country. There's this girl who keeps running behind me in every race and every practice, she tries to keep up with me, and when I slow down she slows down etc. How can I stop her? It's really annoying (link)
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Ask her way she is following you. there has to be some reason why this is happening.Maybe she wants to be your friend and is just to shy to say it. Just ask her why she is following you and tell her that it is bothering you and ask her to stop.
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all of my friends are some of the nicest people in the world...but my dad just doesn't seem to like any of them. he always calls them brats or says that i can't hang out with them. they've all met him, and i keep telling him how great they are...but he just doesn't listen. how do i get him to see how amazing ALL my friends are? (link)
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Sometimes parents don't like there childrens friends. Like I have a friend I like her a lot but my parents think shes's a brat. But you should convince him to let you spend more time with them because he barely even knows them. Also asking him way he thinks they are brats wouldn't hurt and take that problam and try to work around it.
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Okay well yesterday was my first day of a new school. I didnt know anyone but I met this guy and we kind of walked together and sat with each other at the schedule place. He's so cute and really cool, i dont have any classes with him...how do i get to know him? I dont have his number or intantmessanger. (link)
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You should get his number and his sn if you want to be his friend or more then that. Just because your not in the same classes doesn't mean you still can't get to know eachother.Try to talk and possibly get together more it will help the friendship get stronger and who knows you might actually be in for more then a friendship!
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Alright so, my Mom is alright. She buys me everything and anything I want. She lets me go anywhere. I want to get my belly button pierced and she's making me wait, but that's about it. Anyway. She nags me like a normal Mom and whatever. But she goes on and on. Like she just doesn't shut up. Sometimes she'll explain to me step by step how to do something, like she'll tell me how to feed the dog. HELLO. I know how to feed a dog, just tell me to actually DO IT. And she talks really slow on purpose, I think she just likes to hear herself talk. She's the most organized person in the world and I'm the most unorganized person in the world so we don't mesh. She yells at me for things all the time that are stupid. I tried explaining to her that it bothers me. But she just gets upset and yells at me even more. I told my Dad and my Grandparents and they all tried talking to her but nothing seems to work. I'm not perfect, and I don't expect her never to yell at me again or anything but she annoys me sooo much. What do I do? (link)
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Try avoiding her for a little while so you can get a little break. Then after that if she ever tries explaining it to you try walking away or just say that you know how to walk a dog. Then hopefully pretty soon she'll get the picture.
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my mom is always saying im ugly. last sunday for church, i let my hair dry into natural curl/waves and she said it was ugly and i should brush it (badddd idea) and wear some makeup because my face looked "bad". i didnt wear earrings & she always says i look bad when i dont wear them. when i do wear makeup for other occasions she says i look like a prostitute. i dont know what to do anymore! i cant always be best dressed and miss cheerful like she was when she was my age. shes always telling me how thin she was and how everyone liked her figure just to rub it in my face that i have no womanly shape. my dad says i look ok because he sees what it does to my self esteem. everytime i get the slightest blemish, shes the first to point it out. i hate it! someone please help me! any advice will help! ill rate 5s... (link)
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Well I think your mom is stuck in the past and just wants you to be just like her when she was your age. It's not about wat ur mom thinks about you or anybody else it's all about what you think about yourself self-confidence thats what you need. But just tell your mom you don't like how she is treating ou and not to critisize how you look. Then see where it goes from there.
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Does anyone have any ideas on what to wear on the first day of school? Specifics would be helpful, such as colors and stores and lengths. Thanks! (link)
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Well you have to wear something that expreses you. If I were you I would wear a top with a color that looks good on you and a cute jean skirt about half way to your knees with some rinestones that match the top. But it's all about you.
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okay this miht be a bit wierd but like wen ever i get my period i feel all wierd like its leaking thru my pants or something at skool and i really worry that it might be leaking! idk what to do? i mean if some one saw that there were blood stains on the back of my pants and especially if it was a guy i liked wat would i do? thats like sooo embarassing!
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Whenever I get my period I feel the same exact way. It won't leak as long as you hange your pad every 4-6 hours. It makes me feel better if I check every once and a while.
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I like this guy, and I think he likes me back, but I'm not sure. He's hinted to me pretty strongly that he likes me, but I'm not sure. What should I do? Should I ask him if he likes me or just wait and see if he asks me out? By the way, I'm a girl and I'm 14. (link)
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I would just make sure that he likes you and wait till he asks you out. Don't ask him just wait if he does he'll let you know!
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ok on friday i was supposed to go to the mall to meet up with a really close friend of mien with my best friend. since my parents are WAY over protective and wont let me if i told them i was goin to see a guy. i told my mom that i was goin shoppin and to the movies like a couple days ago and today she was like yea ok we will wait and see what happens, and since she trusts my friend a lot i know it would be a yes but then today she was talkin about friday about takin us swimmin and i was like i am not goin i am going to my friends house to go to the mall and the movies and she was like NO your not going to the movies or the mall wit your friend.. and i was like ok whay if i go to her house and she was like you can do that but not go to the mall. i mean today i was supposed to go to boardwalk wit her and she wont let me bc she has her party that she paid for to go to.. what i need to know is can someone help me out and make a plan that i could tell my mom or even tell her i am goin some place else bc the mall i guess wont work.. i need to go but i also dont want my mom to find out.. someone please help!! i have been waitin to see my close friend for like 2 weeks now... i have already tryed talkin to them about givin me some freedom and all they told me was ur 14 and at ur age you guys like to "experment" a lot of things. (link)
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Try asking to go to a restraunt or out to eat with your friend or sleep over and go to the mall then!
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I am a 16 year old girl, who loves to act and I love to preform in shows. I have done many shows but my problem is I am not a singer. To be honest, my voice is pretty awful, so I can only really get parts in non-musicals or just be in the chorus for musicals. This is fine with me, but I love singing so much I just wish to improve my voice a little. Now I am not asking for a transformation that will suddedenly land me the lead in a musical...I know that isn't realistic, but I would like to improve my voice. I do NOT want to have a voice teacher...I don't think my parents would spend money on that nor do I want to be that serious. Are there any other ways of improving my voice? Any tricks anyone knows? Also are there any websites that can help you for FREE? Also what would be a good broadway song to sing at an audition?...my voice is on the lower side (I cannot hit high notes). Thanks You! (link)
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Well I LOVE to sing and I always get solos in chorus and stuff what I do is sing to songs I kno and just keep singing those and I practice everyday!
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Hey, you know the neospharen (spelling) stuff people use to prevent scars? Well my acne is actually finally clearing up and i have some scaring (i think) on my cheeks, can I use it after i wash my face and put my medicine on, or will it just make it worse?
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I'm not entirly sure on that lol sorry im not that big of a help ask an adult!
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i have a lot of guy friends and less girl freinds and its been like that for like my whole life and im like not the tomboy type and im like girly as everyone saya. i have girl freinds like a lot but i have more guys. what does taht mean? sometimes i think taht girls dont liek me cuz im like too boyish but everyone says im not? then wat does that mean?
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It just means that you like guys more probably because you grew up like tthat and you feel more comfortable around them. Don't worry everybody is different and nothing is wrong with you!
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ok so i finally got the courage to tell a guy friend of mine that i really him, and it took me forever! He told me that it was good news to hear, and then he's been gone at camp to help little kids and everything... it was all pretty new to us to tell eachother how we felt. And he and my friend just broke up (she cheated on him) and so they're not even friends anymore.. i was jw how to keep him intrested when he comes back? I want him to know i'm still kinda crazy about him.. but i don't know where to start.. and i don't wanna come off psycho! please help! thanks!
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Well once he comes back just talk to him like you normally would nothing changed between you 2. And once you guys talk more once he comes back let things fall into place. If it was ment to happen it will.
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hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
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Well it shouldn't matter about the age gap its about the feelings not the age. It might look a little wierd but if you guys really love eachother then mothing can get in the way of that not even the age gap!
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can you wear a pad while swimming? or is a tampon reccomended.. can you not wear any? (link)
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Well it is better to wear a tampon while swimming but you can still wear a pad but only if you period is light and once you get out make sure to change it right after!
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I asked a question about wisdom teeth not too long ago. Thanks to those that answered (with helpful answers). The operation was today, and all went well (except for the pain i'm experiencing lol). I'm just wondering how long should I be biting on gauzes? Are there certain amount of hours after the extraction? Or it it until my lips don't feel numb anymore? Or what? Thanks a lot! (link)
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Bite on gauze untill your teeth stop bleeding!
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