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age gap!?!
hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
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Personally, I do think that's a little wrong. I think that this type of relationship is bad -- not only are you both very young, but there's also a huge age gap here. What do your parents and his parents think about the relationship? You're not having sex, are you -- not only is it morally wrong, but it's also statutory rape in most states and countries. I think that you and your guy need to rethink the relationship.
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uh hey i know this sounda weird but its fine but usally girls like older guys not younger but im male and im 12 well 13 aug 19 but i mean yea i dont see anything wrong with it.
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well i dont know...if your comfortable with him then i guess its fine but since your asking i guess you cant be completely not worried about it....im 15 and i know im lookin at guys who are 15 up to like 17....i would think that since he is only 12 he would be really immature...but it all comes down to how you both feel with each other...i mean age is only a number
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~alli
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Well, boys around that age tend to be immature and people around you age tend to be more mature. I don't think there is anything wrong with that but make sure your not being used just so that he can brag to his friends. I have experience with those boys because I was held back and almost all the kids in my classes are 12 including the boys.
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~passionate
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Age is just a number if you really like him it shouldn't matter. Don't worry about what others might,would,could,should or can thik. If you like him then stay with him...good luck.
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Okay so there is quite an age gap but if you really love him then age shouldnt matter. If hes comfortable with it too then there is no problem. The point is that you care about each other and thats all that should matter but if you really think its a problem than talk to him about it. Go with what you feel inside.
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*AbsoluteCuti170*
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Okay you have nothing to worry about....Age is nothing....I have an ex and he was 16 and I was 12. There is nothing wrong with it.
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well.. it seems sort of rong.. but i dont want to hurt your feelings .. but i have to give advice. Yeah it is kinda rong.. sorry to say. But you can still go out with him if you want.. i mean when your olllldderrr like in your 20s it wont really madder. But you could be friends for a while then date. Or if he likes you and you like him date now!
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Sam!!
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no .. theres nothign wrong with that at all.. it doesn't matter the age.. all that matters is that you and him love eachother.. hope i helped
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Well it shouldn't matter about the age gap its about the feelings not the age. It might look a little wierd but if you guys really love eachother then mothing can get in the way of that not even the age gap!
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You shouldnt be worried about the age gap. Its only 3 years.<3Brittany
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I think that if both of you guys were 5 or 10 years older that it would be fine but at ya'll age there are a lot of differences that will come up and that it will cause problems with you guys but you can do what you want.
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~Nikki~
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well...rigt now the 3 year age gap is a big deal because yall are at diffent stages of your life, you have different priorities and all that stuff. also since guys mature slower than girls, it might be a problem. but whatever you decide to do, good luck!
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Well first of all, guys mature a lot slower than girls do. Atleast that is the conclusion I have come to. If he treats you the way you feel you should be treated, and makes you happy..there is absolutely no reason you would need to break up. Especially if he is almost 13, or you just turned 15. If you really like him, and he really likes you, I think you should stay together!
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I dont think itz a problem i know alot of people who do that!! Who carez what others say about your relationship becuase hes younger!! If you really love him then stay with him!! I hope i helped!!*~*MUAH*~*
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Seeing as boys mature much slower... i think it would be hard to date a younger guy at that age. Especailly when he's 12. I mean he's still in MS and you are in HS. Two completly different lifestyles and priorities at your age. For him its about having fun and goofing off and for you its abotu working hard to get good grades and start thinking abotu your furture. I think it's a bad idea but who am i to say because i'm 16 dating a 19 year old.
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sounds kinda weird but i guess its okay.. ♥ Dez
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I think you should be worried about the age gap... It's a pretty big one. A 15 year old shouldn't be interested in someone 3 years younger than her. A 12 year old and a 15 year old are in two completely different places in their lives. If you really want to be together... wait a few years.
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thats not right...thats 2 completely different stages in life. guys at 12 are just hitting puberty and 15 year old girls are like full blown women compared to them. if you both are willing to take the complications (he cant go to clubs for a while, cant see R movies with you...)
then stay that way. <3
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I dont think you should worry about that. You love him no matter how old he is and thats the important thing. Dont listen to what other people say if they think its wrong or weird just do whatever you feel is right.
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Hey no its not a problem if you love him then i dont see what the problem is. Who cares what people say or whateva! I think that theres nothing wrong with it.
roxie
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No, you shouldn't be worried about age gaps. However this boy is only 12. He is still a little kid. My bother is 12. Believe me, boys his age are not mature enough for to handle relationships. They laugh when they hear the word boob. The only reason he is dating you is for the title and to feel cool. Little boys are not looking for a girlfriend to love.
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I THINK THT'S A LITTLE WEIRD! BUT IDK DEPENDS ON HOW MUCH U GUYS LIKE EAHOTHER. good luck~
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I do not think that its wrong at all. The only thing that might be an issue is that he might start to be attracted to girls his age and you might start to be attracted to guys your age. But if you REALLY love eachtoer than nothing can come between you two!
SO no worries!
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i dont think it is wrong its normal dont care what people say its what u think
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seems like he could be more of a brother that a boyfriend. jeeze...i mean what has a 12 yearold got on a 15 yearold. yea i do think thats wrong...maybe in a couple years.
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ummm if you really luv him to bits then i think you shoulnt worrie
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Well, alot of people say age is just a number. But when you're young, it can be something you should be really looking out for. In my opinion (And keep in mind this is just my opinion) at the age of 12, he's young to be dating a girl. 12 year old boys are stupid, immature and.... well really stupid and immature. You, being the age of 15 may be wanting to have a relationship, someone you can sort of settle down with and be with for a long time. A boy at the age of 12 is just going to want to date a 15 year old to show off to his friends and be like DUDE LOOK AT MY HOT ASS GIRLFRIEND SHE'S 15 MANNNN! He's only 12, I think he's going to want to date PLENTY of girls and not just be tied down to one girl. I do think that it's wrong for you to be dating a guy that is younger than you by that much, especially since you're going to be what? A freshman or a sophmore in highschool and he's only going into 7th grade?
You really need to think about whether this is something you want. What I think or anyone else thinks isn't something that should make up your mind on whether or not it's "right" to be with him. If you like him and he likes you, then date him! No one's stopping you. No one CAN stop you but you.
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yeah, I don't really think thats going to work. It's not a good idea to date people 2 years or more differeance than you. People might make fun of you and you're a teenager and he's a preteen. Theres this girl that I know and strangely she is 15 and her boyfriend is 12....and well no offense, but I think you could find someone your age if you really wanted to. Maybe when you're much much older it would be okay...but not now, i mean, hes only 12...
Is there any chance that this is Mar Wood? If its not sorry...hope I helped...
--Johanna
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I dont think thats wrong at all.. especially since your a girl dating a younger guy. I'm not saying it'd be wrong if it was a guy dating a younger girl, but most guys do that just to get some ass. good luck with your boyfriend
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umm..no offense but i really think that is just not right. you need to find someone who is your age...! im not tyring to be mean hon but really..i think nyou should break it off and find someone at your school or just someone who is your age. hope i helped..*!
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I think that might be a LITTLE too far.. Boys are immature enough at 15, let alone 12! But if it doesn't bother you then don't listen to anybody else. [=
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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