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HEY EVERYONE!!! well i really like to help people and everyone says i give good advice so yea.. im here to help u with anything.SO DONT BE SCARED TO ASK!!!
Well heres some things about me..
I am a 14 year old girl and i love to shop..!!I guess you could say i'm a prep...WHICH IS A GOOD THING LOL!!!!
I have like a bajillion friends and i love them all. I have brownish blonde hair and hazel eyes.**HOTT RIGHT!! LOL**

I get along with like everybody and thts why they love me soooo much.oh and im really easy to talk to i dont judge people everyone is the same in my eyes...

Well im here to help so give me a shout out!! thnks
Website: **AbsoluteCuti170**
E-mail: x2sweetgurlx@netscape.net
Gender: Female
Location: **Europe<3**
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: AbsoluteCuti170
Member Since: July 30, 2005
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Last Update: August 15, 2005
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I play the sims 2. do you know anywhere for good free custom clothing, make up and hair for the sims 2?

I rate high (link)
well i have that game to and where i go for the clothing and stuff is the sims offficial site.. like go to google and then just look up the sims 2 and then when you get to the site you are going to have to register your game but its free and then you can choose sims you want to dowmload.. after you download them go to the sims bosy shop.. it should have been installed with your game.. and then you click on the clothing you want and export it and then u import it, its all pretty easy.. HOPE I HELPED AND HEARTS!!!
*AbsoluteCuti170*


Okay, I'm 14 years old -female- and I need some advice. I got a job at this restuarant for the summer and theres this guy there that I like(16). He's just all over a really cool guy. He's really nice, and has a great personality, plus he's good looking, but I can't tell if he likes me back, and i don't know if I should give him my # or ask him to a movie or somethin. I do have this feeling that he likes me because of a few insidents such as: three days ago he was helpin me out with dishes (cuz it makes it alot easier to have 1 person loading and the other unloading) and I had gotten some tips from the servers(cuz im a hostess)and he said to me,"You have some money stickin out of your back pocket." I was just like "oh" and pushed it in some so it wouldn't fall out and then he said to me," It's Kinda sexy." I was shocked I didn't know what to say. So I picked up one of the buckets to wash it out and then I said," I see where your lookin." and he just laughed a little and said yeah. Plus he askes me about five times a day: Wazzup? or How's it goin? ( since I bus tables a lot and go in and out of the kitchen). I don't know what to do. I've had guys like me but I've never gone out with anyone, and I don't know how to act. Help me please. I need to know what to do, summers almost gone and my job will be over and i won't see him anymore.I need to let him know that i like him. I need help, badly.
Thanks a bunch,
Lioness (link)
omg thats soo cute.. well youve gotta flirt with him.. thats the biggest way to let him know you like him.. and i mean just hang out with him.. once you get to know him you can tell him that you like him.. dont let him get away.. you might not have another chance.. I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT GREAT WITH YOU TWO!! and HEARTS
good luck, if you need anymore help drop one in my inbox.. BYE!!
*AbsoluteCuti170*


yeah i tried looking for sims cheats online but i cant find any. the only ones i know is that you do control-shift-c, and then type in rosebud for $1,000, and also the exclamation point and semicolon thing for more money. anyone know of a site with a lot of them, or can just write them down for me? ive tried lookin for them a lot on different websites but it hasnt worked for me. will rate!
hearts (link)
heres a site with quite a bit of cheat codes.. HOPE I HELPED!!! have fun with your game BYE!! and write again..HEARTS!!
http://planetthesims.gamespy.com/thesims/cheatscodes/


Im going into 7th grade and never had a bf!
Everyone tells me im pretty and I've been popular and everything at my school. Im even a model!
But I dont brag or anything
But anyways theres this boy I like and I really want to get closer to him. Once he tried to kiss me but my mom walked into the house and he stopped. And now were kinda like friends. Is there anything I can do to get him to like me again? (link)
hey, well it seems like you really like him.. well all you gotta do is flirt like crazy to get his attention again Just smile at him and if he likes you he'll smile back and then you can get closer to him by inviting him to go to a movie with you or if your parents dont let you date then invite him to come to your house for a movie.. then you can sit near him even cuddle..aww. well anywayz i really hope i helped and hope you get a boyfriend soon..!! write again.. XOXO
*AbsoluteCuti170*


Well i have a friend lets call him peter well he has been my friend since like 2nd grade and me and him are really good friends and i think that im starting to like him as more than just a friend and i think he might like me too... but im not so sure.. how can i tell if he likes me?
please help fastt...
i rate high..
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well seems like you know him pretty well, and thata a plus.. well first off you'll be able to tell if he likes you if he stares at you some guys that sre shyer only look at the girl they like when theyre not lookin but if you ever catch him looking at you then look back at him and smile then youre basically telling him that you are interested.. then you've got to flirt thats the best way to get his attention. and if he flirts back then he is totally interested in you.!!YAY 4 YOU!! i really hope i helped and i hope that everything works out great for you. oh and maybe when you totally feel like youve got the courage to tell him that you like him, go for it. thnks for writing.. tell me how it works out BYE!!
*AbsoluteCuti170*
XOXO


okay i got my period for the first time this week(on wed night) and today (thursday) is my first full day w/it and i got tampons. i want to go swimming tomorrow and i have the slim fit tampons. i know i'll be fine but on saturday my family and a few friends are going to an amusement park and i want to ride the water rides. can i do this while wearing a tampon? like the ones where you get on a tube and ride down a tunnel? i'll rate high!!! (link)
yea you can totally do anything and everything if you have a tampon.. remember to bring a few jst to change it like every 4 hours, you dont want to leak.. well i hope you have a blast at the amusement park. thnks for writing.XOXO
**AbsoluteCuti170**


im gonna have a presentation in front of class.. im kinda shy and i was wondering what i can do to overcume my shyness and not be so afraid (link)
well i'll just tell you what i do .. the first thing is that i would practice in front of the mirror. then when i feel like i am ready i would go and practice in front of family and friends. well that should help..thnks for writing.
**XOXO**
*AbsoluteCuti170*
write again if you have any more problems**


hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
xxXxxX (link)
Okay so there is quite an age gap but if you really love him then age shouldnt matter. If hes comfortable with it too then there is no problem. The point is that you care about each other and thats all that should matter but if you really think its a problem than talk to him about it. Go with what you feel inside.
**Hope i helped**
XOXO
*AbsoluteCuti170*


I like this guy. I dont know him that well, but theres a connection and I really like him. The thing is he is super popular and extremley good looking. ALL the girls like him, and he usually dates just "hot" girls with zero personality. I'm not exactly pretty...or even attractive at that but I have an awesome personality. He is awesome and deserves way better than the girls he dates. Is there any way I can get him to have the same feelings as me? Will being his friend help? (link)
Well i can really help you with this question. The fact that he's popular is not a reason for him to not like you.First off you have to get him to notice you.And yes being his friend will definatly help. I mean talk to him and like get to know what he likes and then maybe you guys could get together and have FUN!!(hang out or something)Then to show him that you have feelings for him, smile at him and hopefully he'll smile back.. if he doesnt then don't give up.. just try it again sometime. then when you get close to him look him in the eye and that will definatly get his attention..the good news is if he looks into yours, he hearts you.. well maybe a step below but thts still !!!GREAT 4 YOU!!!.. then u have to get close to him literally.. FLIRT** and then its happily ever after.. hopefully he'll ask you out.. !!!AND REMEMBER DONT BE SHY!!!
**XOXO**
*AbsoluteCuti170*
if you have anymore questions i.m. me at x2sweetgurlx or AbsoluteCuti170
thnks BYE!!!


ok well i have this friend right? but one night i was talking to her and she started being mean to me and it hurt my feelings a lot like she didnt wanna talk to me, she was jus soo mean and like she says sorry but i dont believe her because she writes (lol) after everything sooo i dont think she means it and now i dont wanan talk to her and i dont know what to do? should i end our friendship or what?? please help!!!

i rate relly high for good advice

Tanja- Bosnia (link)
Talk to your friend and tell her how you feel.. This has to come from your heart so think about what to say.. If shes still mad at you there is nothing you can do to change other peoples feelings. But you tried your best so thats what counts..And dont end your friendship over a little fight.
*Hope I Helped*

**AbsoluteCuti170**


Hey guys. Well there's this guy that I like and the only problem is that it's my best friend's bro. He's younger than I am (I'm a 8th grader and he's in 7th) and I'm pretty sure he likes me too. Everytime one of my other friends asks him he denies it but he always flirts with me when I go to her house. I REALLY like him but of course I can't tell my friend or else she'd freak! PLEASE HELP!!!! I'll rate 5's!!! (link)
I'll be glad to help you. I'l give you some advice which will definatly help him notice you even more.. First off smile at him and yea if he likes you he'll smile back trust me.. then you could like look him in the eyes and hell look into youra and it'll feel like the perfect moment..(lol)Then u kinda gotta flirt, get close to him and you know just be around him.. he'll like that.. like when youre at your friends ask him if you guys can all watch a scary movie and if you get scared you'll have no excuse to not get near him.. and dont be scared if he likes you, he'll like that youre near him.. then if he responds in a good way you've got it in the bag and hopefully he'll ask you out or he'll at the least tell you he has feelings for you..
**Hope i helped, tell me how it works out**
*XOXO*
if you need to talk instant message me @ x2sweetgurlx or AbsoluteCuti170

****Thnks 4 writin****
HEARTS BYE!!
-AbsoluteCuti170-


okay im 14,female, i have braces,and i still suck my thumb, i need mucho help! like BAD i need tips. every time i try to stop i just can't its addicting. none of my friends know i do it. please HELP =) thanks ♥♥♥ (link)
well you shouldnt be embarassed about it.. well i saw this thing at the store and it was like for people to stop biting their nails and for people that suck their thumb... its like a really nasty liquid that when it touches your mouth it gives off an awful taste but its not poisonouse or anything.. so dont worry.. i think you should try to buy something like that..
**oh and go online and try to find items like that..**
***HOPE I HELPED< WRITE BACK***
**^^AbsoluteCuti170^^**


16-female-cali

so i was going out with this kid named chris last summer he was a grade older then me and we went out for a few months and then he cheated on me so i broke up with him but we still hung out like once or twice after we broke up and he really wanted to go back out but i didnt want to.. even tho i still really liked him alot and and a few months later he told me he liked me agin but i told him i didnt wanna go out even tho.. again i still really liked him i just couldent go out with a guy who cheated on me cause i thgouht he would do it again so now its a year later and we both have new people that we are dating but i still think about him all the time and sometimes we still talk... so my question is ..is it bad that i still think about him all the time even tho i have a boyfrined and yeah ..and any other comments please tell me ..i will rate (link)
Well it seems like you really really like this guy and im not sure what to tell you but i will try my best..Well if he cheated on you to tell you the truth i dont think you should consider getting back with him. I mean there are plenty of other guys out there that will treat you like you deserve and like something special not just a girl that they go out with. .. But if you feel like you could really really trust your ex.. consider your options but then again think of your current boyfriends feelings. His heart isnt a thing to play around with either. A guy like him might not come around again..My advice and what i think is that you shouldnt get back with your ex.. he doesnt deserve you..
**XOXO**
**AbsoluteCuti170**


How should i atempt making lots of friends next year i know you do something right making friends cuz you have been to lots of different schools and made lots of friends everytime so teach me how to! hehe i dont know why im laughing (link)
well be yourself thats the most important thing to making the right friends.. next have the courage to talk to new people.. well i know youre not gonna have much trouble makin friends because youre such a nice person
!!!!!!!!!!!!!thnks for writing!!!!!!!!!!!!!
**XOXO**
**AbsoluteCuti170**


I have a guy friend and I think I like him... as more than a friend. What should I do? I don't know how to react around him.

Please! (link)
well if you like him go for it.. i know that its not easy so im not gonna ask you to tell him right away.first off just get to know each other better. when you see him just talk.. and then if youre comfortable around him smile and if he smiles back yay for you it means hes interested in you.. then like look into his eyes and he'll look into yours hopefully!! you'll get butterflies in your stomach trust me you'll just be sooooooooo ooooo ooo happy..then get close to him and just be around him.. he'll like tht if he likes you.. you can say something like .. i like your cologne or i like your shirt or whatever just compliment him. if he doesnt move away when youre near him then he really really likes you.. so try these hints and yea they are meant to wrk.. they worked for me.. and plus when a guy is around the girl he likes hes happy i guess i mena arent you happy when youre around him..
**Well hope that i helped and that everything works out for you..**
%%^^Write back if it does$$^^
XOXO:)
**AbsoluteCuti170**


oh i just got a new top that is white and i have baby black jeans. will it look nice together? (link)
yea totally tht would look hott!! thnks for writing!! white and black look great together!!


I have liked this guy for four years and in the beginning we were friends but one thing led to another and he found out i liked him and stopped talking to me. Two years passed and we didnt talk we couldnt even look at eachother in the face and i felt miserable because i didnt understand why he stopped talking to me. This past year i turned sixteen and invited him to my sweet 16 party . I told myself that if he came i should still wait for him but if he didnt forget him but he came to the party and we had a pretty good time together. Ever since the party i can't stop thinking about him and no matter what i feel like theres not going to be any other guy for me. To me he's not like any other guy he is so sweet and nice.... please help me with this problem... should i give up or talk to him or what?? please answer (link)
it seems like you really like this guy.. and im guessing he might be shy because he stopped talkin to you... definatly dont give up on him he seems perfect for you because he is nice and sweet which is great. and the fact that you cant stop thinking about him uis great.. well flirt with him for a while and jst like smile and if he smiles back then thts great..like then that means show that youre interested by looking into his eyes and you'll know if hes looking into yours because you'll get a happy feeling in your stomach something like butterflies. well try being closer to him like sitting near him or touching his hand or even giving him a hug..if he responds positivly(like not moving away when youre near him) then he totally adores you!YAY FOR YOU!!!
hope i helped write again if you need anymore help***
XOXO
**AbsoluteCuti170**


Well out of nowhere me and my ex bf got into a conversation..and he told me he missed me and he wanted to hang out..but i saw in his profile tht he loved some girl. So then i showed that to him and hes like "oh thats been there forever you know that" and he took it out. When i went on away message he put it back into his profile. Today he hasn't even talked to me once. It was so weird. What is going on?? (link)
well so confused.. guys are like tht.. they like one grl one minute and then another grl the nxt.DOn't take him seriously he seems like a player or something.. i would try finding another guy to hang out with .. you'll get over him i mean to tell you the truth guys arent everything... And anywayz theres someone better out there that deserves you and that will treat you like a princess
**hope you find someone better and get over your ex**
XOXO
**AbsoluteCuti170**


Ok sometimes i dream things that actually happend. Like onetime i dreamt that iwas in a yard talkin to 2 grls and there were ducks.... then on the 4th of July we went to my Aunts house and we went to the neighbors house to talk and they had ducks and there was 2 girls and it exactly like my dream. I always dream stuff like that nothin important just things that happen. Does this happen to a lot of ppl or just me? And if its just me does that mean im phsycic or something? PLz help i rate high! (link)
alright!! this is a good question!! to tell you the truth this happens to me a lot to and all the things that happen are not alwayz good for me.. This is normal but i dont know how to explain it.I alwayz used to think that i was kinda phsycis or something but i never knew when the things would happen.. I think that you have a gift and you should treasure it.. Dont be creeped out by it or nything. Sometimes i guess it could come in handy. And when this does happen again write it down so you'll alwayz remember it thats what i do..
**Hope i helped**
you're not the only one this happens to so dont be creeped out by itXOXOXO
**AbsoluteCuti170**


about a month ago my boyfriend and I slept together. recently, i've noticed a ton of crazy things. my boobs are really soft and they hurt alot; my stomach randomly gets sharp pains in it or tingly type things, i have really bad headaches, i sleep more than usual and i kinda pee alot. i think i'm pregnant. my friend is buying me a test so i'll know tomorrow for sure. but is a month long enough that it will actually detect anything? please help. i'm 15 and im kinda lost at this whole situation. (link)
wow!! well you definatly need to take the pregnency test because those are all symptoms of being pregnant.. and if you are pregnat tell your parents.. they need to know and they will help you out.. no matter what happens they will still love you!!But if they are the type that take it the wrong way then go to a teen clinic and get help..and if you arent pregnant please take care of yourself next time.. 15 is such a young age to have a child.. and if you are pregnant make sure the guy knows and let him know that he is for sure the father and that he needs to have some resposibility..dont let him off the hook..a month is definatly long enough to detect the pregnancy hormone..make sure you prepare yourself for the arrival of this child and love it with all your heart.. tht makes everything easier.. finish school and go to college so this child can have a future a happy and healthy one..
oh and another way to know is if your period stopped then definatly check it out BYE!!
And take care..if you need more advice send me a instant mesaage on the following screenames
AbsoluteCuti170
x2sweetgurlx
**XOXO**




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