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I like this guy. I dont know him that well, but theres a connection and I really like him. The thing is he is super popular and extremley good looking. ALL the girls like him, and he usually dates just "hot" girls with zero personality. I'm not exactly pretty...or even attractive at that but I have an awesome personality. He is awesome and deserves way better than the girls he dates. Is there any way I can get him to have the same feelings as me? Will being his friend help?
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well first of all you need to change the feelings you have for yourself. maybe i dont know how you look but eveery one is attractive. i think just try to talk to him and being his friend will help. but dont get to exited you really dont know how he will react about you guys being frinds.
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First, you need to become better friends with him. If you still like him, then continue getting to know him and hang out as friends. Eventually you'll get comfortable enough with him that you will be able to tell him how you feel about him, and hopefully he'll feel the same because he'll know you better! Good luck!
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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Well i can really help you with this question. The fact that he's popular is not a reason for him to not like you.First off you have to get him to notice you.And yes being his friend will definatly help. I mean talk to him and like get to know what he likes and then maybe you guys could get together and have FUN!!(hang out or something)Then to show him that you have feelings for him, smile at him and hopefully he'll smile back.. if he doesnt then don't give up.. just try it again sometime. then when you get close to him look him in the eye and that will definatly get his attention..the good news is if he looks into yours, he hearts you.. well maybe a step below but thts still !!!GREAT 4 YOU!!!.. then u have to get close to him literally.. FLIRT** and then its happily ever after.. hopefully he'll ask you out.. !!!AND REMEMBER DONT BE SHY!!!
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Build a friendship. talk to him during classes(without getting into trouble) if you can sense that you're annoying him then don't talk to him for a little while. if you have study hall with him then that's a great way to build a relationship. Ask for homework help from him (hopefully he's smart)
modelkate11
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Well first ya shouldn*t call yourself unattractive, but i do it too so i shouldn*t say that either. Ok well i think you should just make small talk with him and become his really good friend, he*ll eventually see that you are an amazing person and will go for you. If might take a while but i don*t believe a guy and a girl can be BEST friends without fallin for eachother!! hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea
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ok well you always have to start being very good friends with a guy before you tell him that you like him,cuase he has to get to know you first,and even though you might not be that pretty he might still like you,you never know,tell him before its too late!!
with much love alma
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yes being his friend will definately help because he will get to know you and see your awesome personality. unfortunately, a lot of guys (and girls) dont see past looks..they want the looks and its funny how the people with the lamest personalities get the great guys. im like the "girl with the good personality but the horrible looks." some people have looks..and some just dont..im one of those who dont ..and its hard sometimes because im just a "great friend" to guys ..they dont see me as something more. well dont worry because if this guy doesnt see how much of a great person you are and how you would make an awesome gf, its his loss sweetie..there will be guys who really like you for who you are, and those are the guys you desserve :)
if there was some way to MAKE a guy get the same feelings as you, nobody in this world would be lonely..sweetie, reality is he has to get to know you and start to like you back on his own. just be yourself and if he likes you, he made the right choice ..if he doesnt..its his loss and you have to keep in mind there are guys out there who are really going to like you..you just have to wait for him..im waiting for that guy for me..and a lot of girls are waiting..so its not only you waiting
i hope this helped
-melissa-
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I think if you be his friend...rather than hitting on him...he will actualy get to know you better and see your great personality...*
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