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Im 18 years old..born & raised in northern va. I love to have fun with my girls, and ofcourse love to shop. Im a goody goody and damn proud of it! Feel free to ask me any questions, thats what this website is for : )

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how can i get a guys attention?
ive seen this guy before but i know he doesnt know me..i know he doesnt know i exist! i wanna change that :) lets say i see him somewhere..what do i do? i want him to notice me ..i want him to think WOW that girls hott..i dont really wanna go up to him because i will be like 'hi i dont know you but my name is kristen' ha that will sound like stupid..

any suggestions?

try to get to know any 1 of his friends, or if you already have 1 of the same friends or acquantainces...talk to them. try to show up at a party or some place where your acquantance and him both are, and then somehow you guys will end up being introduced but then dont act like you pressed over him, just casually say hi, im kristin and then go off and say hi next time u see him....*

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Does anyone have any websites that offer free website hosting? I just want something simple. Thanks.

xox Lance

freeimagehosting.net

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how do i get rid of negative and suicidal thoughts?? im always righting depressing poems and wanting to die.. what can i do to stop myself?

focus on the good things in your life. you gotta realize millions of ppl around the world would break a leg for your life, literally. as depressing your life may seem, theres got to be something in your life that can keep you going. talk to your family, your close friends and let them know you're feeling down, spending time with positive and loving ppl can realy make a BIG difference.

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okay...i have this really weird and dorky cousin--she's a 1st class hmmm freakkk...
it's her senior year and i don't know how to break it down to her that she is a complete physco that won't get off my flamin' back...
plus she thinks she gives good advice....
how can i break this down to her gently without hurting her feelings?

love baniaZ

ACTUALLY, ur cousin is freakin awesome! you should be thankful for sucha tight cousin , you should love her till the day you die, EVEN BEYOND THAT!!! Go give her all your money, all your earrings and everything else you got sucka!
well you got your answer, now, tu mein ik gal dus, TU HAI KOUN? (love u baniaz!!!!)

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ok i write poems and stuff at school and i put al of them in this folder one day someone got a hold of it and now im a laughing stock kinda well i put the name of the guy i like and i know he odesnt like me but someone told me to put them in the artest of the month and i won now there posted at the office and everyone is telling me i love your poems and im not s kid like that i not int anything but now the teachers expect so unch that i cant give what do i do i dont know and im convusted
sighed
im not perfect hopefully u help

okay if you won the contest and your teachers like your poems, then that means you probably have real good talent, so you should take advantage of that! lol, and dont even worry about the whole crush thing, if you wrote just his first name, he might not even know. If you did write his entire name, its not THAT big of deal, EVERYONE has crushes, and EVERYONE moves on. Don't act embaressed cause you shouldnt be , be proud of yourself for being such a good writer and forget about the loser guy...it's his loss ( :

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not that i have done any of this stuff but i was just thinking about it. what are the like guidlines for being a virgin?
if you are like on top of someone humping them but you still have your clothes on are you a virgin and what about like online sex and phone sex?

thanks a bunch!
xoxo

as far as my knowledge goes, Im pretty sure you lose your "virginity" when this body part called the hymen is broken, but that can happen in many other ways that dont include sexual activity.

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omgosh you look like my cousin haha are youu arabian of some sort? i was just wonderring lol

lol im pakistani

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I'm 13,female and into goths.How can I get this gou to like/notice me if we only go to school and ride the bus together(not alot of time to mingle).I'm really shyand don't know the first thing about guys and flirting or dating.Need help ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!=/

go up to him and let him know you like his clothes or something. he will notice you and get to know you if you just talk to him. simple ( :

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Is there a website for people in high school to get help with homework?

sparknotes.com

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Do you think that giving your best friend a gift card is too impersonal?
Because the thing is even though we are really close I have no clue what to give her. Then any time I ask what she wants she just says, 'Whatever you know what I like.' And infact I do know what she likes but she seems to already have everything.
So is a gift card really something you could give a best friend?

♥ Thanks.

no its really not, give her a gift card to a store you know she loves and then add a card & write some stuff in it to make it somewhat personal..giftcards are really an awesome gift. whether its to abercrombie or to starbucks ( :

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What are some good ways to let me boyfriend down gently? I'm not into him as much as I used to be and we're just not working out. He never calls me and he never really talks to me. We've been one of those couples that looks so cute from the outside but there's nothing on the inside. I just need a way to break up with him without the old "we're better off as friends" excuse or something cheesy like that. He's a nice guy and he's really cool but he's not the dude for me. Thanks :)

Tell him you think its best you guys breakup at the time because you have alot of other stuff going on in your life, and tell you no matter what you still want to stay friends ... i think you should just tell him you dont feel the same anymore though, honesty is the best policy lol take care

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okay well... i have a wonderful boyfriend, but im SUCH a flirt! i cant help it i really try, but i always catch myself doing it. my ex flirts with me like seriously all the time. sometimes i just wanna like kiss him, even thou i dont him. same with another friend i have i really like flirtin with him, and love hangin out wit them. but i never forget my boyfriend (who i love sooo much!!!), and were really serious too. is this normal? i feel really bad.. but i cant help it. thank you soo much!

maybe your not ready to have a real relationship yet, so if you think you might do something that may hurt your boyfriend, its better to break up with him rather than have him hate you later on you know?

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Okay,well im trying to find the best place to get my bellybutton pierced. I live in the Fairfax/Manssas,VA area If any of you live around here and know a good place could you please tell me! Also if the place has a website could you give it to me i want to look at the body jewerly and figure out about how much it will cost before i go. Thanks!!

fusion @ springfield mall, not sure if thats still open. There comes a time...thats near fairfax highschool.

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My parents have been telling me Santa Claus is real..I mean I am trying to believe but my parents have given off to MANY clues. I asked my mom the other day and she gave me the whole pep talk. Is Santa Claus real or is it his "helpers" who live w/ me?

yes he is very much real ( :

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Okay.. I have contacts and you kno how the doctor says that your supposed to look away when you put them it. I dont i look directly at the pupil and put it right on the pupil. will that do anything to you eye?

I;ll rate five

we'll i use to wear contacts and i would look directly too and didnt really do anything to my eyes, except my eyesight did get weaker..lol so just listen to the doc

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http://www.livejournal.com/users/xd0nthatex_fake/

whats the question

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I was searching through some xangas and I came across this girl that I'm not too fond of. I stopped to look at all the pictures she had thinking it might be pretty funny. I found multiple pictures of this girl, with my boyfriend on his bed. Nothing sexual, I think, but the fact I'M not even allowed in his room let alone his BED kinda ticked me off. Am I wrong to be upset that he had a girl that EVERYONE knows is basically a slut on his bed with him?

no you are not wrong to get upset...how did she end up on his bed when you're not even allowed in his room

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What style of sunglasses are in style right now? I've googled and nothing came up. Are big square frames or aviators better for a petite brunetter? Black or white? Thanks so much!!

aviators and big frames

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Male 13

This is kind of long so if you dont have time to read it it is okay

For the past 6 months i have been asking questions about my best friend and how i like her and what not.

Now a little backround info i have known HER for five years we are best friends. Now for the first three years i knew her i just couldnt be around her enough i had a major crush. Then i finally started letting go or hideing my feelings from myself. What ever it was it worked i really thought i was over her. But then about 6 months to a year ago i started liking her again.

i think this happend because she almost got a boy friend. so i have gotten through all the Drama over her so far her almost having a boy friend, her moving her being pushy ext...

But the thing with her her has always been she would say she didnt need a boyfriend and she would talk to me about all of this.

All of asudden she wants a boyfriend (which of course made me upset) But on top of that instead of talking to me about it she talks to this other girl she barley knows. i mean i could understand if she wanted to talk to a girl not a guy but shes never had trouble talking to me before.

the question is what should i do ( i know thats a pretty general question but i am having trouble finding the right words for my question)
I mean she tells me i can talk to her about anything but i have trouble talking to her about her.

SO bassically i just need advice for the whole situation

Well if she can come to you for help, she prob thinks of you as a brother or something

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Alrighty ive got two major questions that are REALLY preoccupying my life right now.

First: Is it sooo wrong to be a gold digga??? huh...u kno, its not like im tryin to get with a broke nigga! 18 years, 18 years, 18 years...

okay, SECOND: Why are you sooo freakin amazing, like where the HELL do you get all this knowledge and hottness from? Masha'allah, u have been truly blessed alhamdul'ilah.

Well, plz let me know, while i shake it like a polaroid picture, thank you...

Hey well I got my hottness from my brotha(actually sister) from another motha...who happens to be egyptian...so my egyptian blood makes me HOTT and I SPIT HOT FIREY ADVICE...cause of all the HOOKAH I be doin.
Yallah. Nimshi. Khallas. BEGED.
ps< also what makes me hot...my mom has two heads*

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