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I was searching through some xangas and I came across this girl that I'm not too fond of. I stopped to look at all the pictures she had thinking it might be pretty funny. I found multiple pictures of this girl, with my boyfriend on his bed. Nothing sexual, I think, but the fact I'M not even allowed in his room let alone his BED kinda ticked me off. Am I wrong to be upset that he had a girl that EVERYONE knows is basically a slut on his bed with him?
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not wrong. ur just the jealous tyoe. as am i. id be very mad!!!
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no you are toteli not wrong! i would go up to your bf and just ask him what that was all about. dont make it too big of a scene because you know nothing wasgoing on (or atleast ask). BOTTOM LINE: you have every right to be mad...but i would just ask whats up!
good luck..
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OMG, no you are not wrong to be mad. I would be mad at my boyfriend too! Does he say you aren't allowed in his room, or do his parents or whoever? Talk to him about it. I wouldn't want my boyfriend to be friends with a girl everyone calls a slut, let alone in his room ALONE with her on his BED!
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hell no! you have every right to be mad! but do NOT blow it out of proportion! it wasnt sexual. and do NOT i repeat do NOT bitch at him more then once, dont keep nagging, trust me, You will scare him away! talk to him about and tell him it made a lil mad and that u really didnt appreciate it! dont get too mad! and dont let yourself get stressed out too much!
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No, you are definitely NOT wrong. Omg, why would he do that to you? Try confronting him. If he denies, show him the proof and ask whats up. Its your decision to break up with him, but if I were you, I would. Good luck. And, I am truly sorry.
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i would be really, really mad if i found that. but, im a very jealous person. no, your not wrong to be upset with that. but, the reason she may be allowed on his bed, is because shes not his girlfriend and you are. in my opinion, it still doesnt give her the right to be on his bed with him. do you think he'd be on his bed with a friend of his that was a guy? unless he's bi, i would think not. good luck.
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Hi There,
Well how others may percieve her to be he may not see it that way hence thats why he is allowing her, however if you are concerned for this guy then I think you may want to let hime know without upsetting him. Have a think about it and see what options are available and you wish to go about resolving the issue.
Goodluck
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wow i would be VERY pissed off! how recent are the pictures tho...are you sure it was his room (if you're not allowed up there, it might not be) and thats pretty...interesting. i've been in guy's rooms but pictures?? this girl wants to start a fight with you or something (prolly to get the guy) so just ignore her... don't go down to her level. <3
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You've every right to be pretty hugely pissed off. Perhaps his parents weren't in the house and that's why she was there or some other somewhat reasonable-ish excuse but you need to talk to him and lt his know you're upset.
Did you even know they spent time round his house together? If not you need to ask yourself why he didn't tell you. Oh and also why he's stupid enough to let her take pictures of something he must have known would make you angry and klet her post them on the net. Idiot.
Hope it works out.
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no ma'am. well... if it's him that wont allow you on his ben then no if its his parents then yeh, but it sounds kike its him I woulld be angry to but talk to him about it before you go all Xena on him okay?
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Well sence it was your own boyfriend you should ask him about what happened. Just sit down with in a quite place and talk to him about what you found. As for the girl he was with, try not to say anything to her because you don't want to get into a fight with her, violence is not the answer.
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You have every right to be mad at him. I think you should talk to him about it.
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yes be mad. you should really talk to him about it and be very mad.
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I think you have the right to mad. You are his girlfriend and your not allowed in his room that is offensive. You should tell and ask him why she is allowed in your room and your not. If she is trying to get you need to get her. He may try to deny it but you know you have hgim caught. Even though he might not have done anything that is still wrong and talking to him is the best way to go.
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no you are not wrong to get upset...how did she end up on his bed when you're not even allowed in his room
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Uh, this is some GIRL on YOUR BOYFRIEND'S bed. You most definitely have a right to be mad about that simply because it's a girl on your boyfriend's bed. You have a right to be a lot more mad if you're "not allowed" in his room. Talk to him, and then if something else happens, end it. You deserve better!
♥ Melissa
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I would be!! Especially if you're not allowed and you're supposed to be his girlfriend! However don't jump to any conclusions or get too cross without talking it through with him as there might be a good explanation for it. (not sure what but give the guy a chance!!) If he can understand how you feel and has a good explanation then that's great but if he comes up with some lame excuse and you begin to doubt whether you can trust him then you may want to rethink the relationship. Good luck
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