I'm a wild and crazy 14 year old, I've had a lot of rough spots with guys, friends, family, etc. important things in life like that. I'm outgoing and bold, if something needs to be said I will say it without hesitation!
E-mail: babyBgoddess@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Portage, Michigan
Age: 14
Member Since: March 25, 2005
Answers: 43
Last Update: November 14, 2005
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Hey guys. I am always pessimistic and does any1 know what i could do to make me optimistic. (link)
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Try saying everynight before you go to bed one good thing from your day when that becomes easy keep adding on.
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My boyfriend's brother's funeral was today and after it was all over with he wanted to go to Astroworld (an amusment park). I thought it was totally unappropriate because I thought he should have been with his family. But, I went anyways, for him. His brother had committed suicide and my bf never had any room in his life for suicide. Still though, it was his brother, ya know? Do you guys think that it was weird that he wanted to go there after his brother's funeral? (link)
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No peole grieve in differnt ways instead of crying your boyfriend wanted to go somewhere fun to try to take his mind off of it, nothing unusual.
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Occasionally I'll just catch a 'glimpse' of a girls chest when I'm talking to her, sometimes they notice, sometimes they don't. Do you think its rude or offensive? I don't do it on purpose, but I do realize when I do it. If most would rather that not happen then I'd try to stop. So what do you think? (link)
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You sound like a normal typical guy, except you fell bad about it. If it really bothers you go talk to someone about it maybe your a nympho or got a breast phetish, all I can tell ya is to try not to and if it starts to control your life, which i doubt it will, go talk to someone.
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i'm a guy and was wondering something. as the question implys, i would like to know whether most people put feelings or morality first, and why. my example is pre-marital sex. there must be at least 20 questions on that topic before this one...some say 'do it if you feel ready' while others say 'no because you'll regret it and it's not meant to be that way'. both seem good reasons for or against it. is it both? should you really put your feelings and that of another first, or should you stick to your moral values, reguardless of what others or society has to say about pre-marital sex. thanks, will rate. (link)
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If you dont want to dont dude as a girl I know I hate it when all guys talk about is sex, most females do we respect a guy who can just sit and hang out and not try anything, if your a christian hey right on if you just dont believe in it even better but dont let anyone pressure you into something you dont want to do, I've made that mistake many times dont do what I did you'll regret it.
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Please only answer this question if you're not mean or a smart aleck, and you're mature. Thanks!
Anyway, I have a friend that I've known for many years. Her parents are going through a divorce. I know she's hurt, and I want to be there for her, but here's the catch.
I've noticed that we're growing apart. She hasn't talked to me for a long time, except for the few times we've talked on AIM, and I started all of those conversations. She hasn't tried talking to me at all, and we haven't talked about the situation, even though she knows that I know about it (She wasn't the one who told me about it). It's been weeks since I've been aware of this.
At first I wanted to give her time, which I have, since I haven't said anything to her about the situation. Now, I'm fed up.
I'm sick of us not talking. She has made no attempt to talk to me, even casually. Like I said, all AIM conversations were started by me. I want to help her, but I can't if she won't say anything to me about it. I just wouldn't feel right starting up a conversation about it because I'm unsure if she is ready to talk about it.
What also irritates me is the fact that we've been friends for so long, and yet she (like I've said) hasn't tried asking for my advice or anything. I feel like I'm not a good friend; like she doesn't feel that she can open up to me because she's embarrassed (or for whatever reason), even though I don't know if that's the case. What I'm saying is that she should know that she can come to me, talk to me and ask for advice, and not be embarrassed.
It makes me sad that I can't be there for my friend, and that she's not talking to me. What should I do? Please help. Thanks so much! (link)
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Give her time I've known my friends for years but when my parents got divored its not that i didnt stil love them its just that i neede time to myself to cool dowm and I DEFINAETLY did not want to talk about it to anyone. Its not that shes embarresed or anything she just wants to put it behind her not talk about it if she can help it sounds to me like you guys are very close, shell come aroudw when shes ready all you have to do is sit and be patient.
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My dad has a girlfriend and I don't like her she's tells him what I do and then I get introuble she also treats me like a 3 year old what do I do and my dad is planning to marry her and he's already purposed and that was like in two months that he's been dating her (link)
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For 1 were you doing somethig that you shouldnt have been doing and thats why you got in trouble. For 2 it sounds like you and your dad need to talk, and, no offense he might need some counseling if it was literally two months. And 3 try to communicate with them about your fellings most of the time it works.
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I was searching through some xangas and I came across this girl that I'm not too fond of. I stopped to look at all the pictures she had thinking it might be pretty funny. I found multiple pictures of this girl, with my boyfriend on his bed. Nothing sexual, I think, but the fact I'M not even allowed in his room let alone his BED kinda ticked me off. Am I wrong to be upset that he had a girl that EVERYONE knows is basically a slut on his bed with him?
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no ma'am. well... if it's him that wont allow you on his ben then no if its his parents then yeh, but it sounds kike its him I woulld be angry to but talk to him about it before you go all Xena on him okay?
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ok, so the the 5th day of sckool my friend said that on friday eric (the kid i like) said he liked me a little, and was going to ask me out! & then my other friend said eric said he wanted to meet me after sckool where no one was because he had to ask me something, but then he said never mind, & then he told me he liked my friend britt, but wed. he told me he doesnt like her anymore and likes someone new.. im so confused, and i dont know what to do, advice needed urgently.. thank you 13/f (link)
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Girl he is such a waste of time he needs to figure out what he wants before you can, dont fret other, BETTER, guys will come your way, dont settle for that you can do better.
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I'm very shy but I want to be more outgoing, i'm popular but I think I would be more popular if I was more outgoing, What should I do? (link)
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I used to be the most queit person you could possibly meet, now I say hi to random people walking down the road. I think its a confidence problem, nothing wrong with that it happens to everyone, just dont be scared to say whats on your mind, some people wnt like what you say but then some people will, the important thing is to be yourself as you were meant to be and so yeah just dont hide what your really thinking.
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Hey everyone, first off if your answerign this, dont give me some stupid answer or some unhelpful information cuz i really need some help. I have a really big problem with cussing. I really cant help it sometimes, its really hard and i cannot stop cursing. It feels real bad when i do it but sometimes it feels like it comes natural. wat can i do? i really dont know how to stop (link)
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I have the same problem, its called habit, whats helping me is I have one of my friends hit me, a friend who is always with me, when I swear, but most people really dont lkike the sound of that. Start a swear jar evrytime you swear, and be honest, put a dollar or so in the jar.
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Some of my friends are smoking (cigarettes). I'm really worried but I don't think they'll listen to me if I ask them to stop. Should I stop hanging out with them or what? I'm afraid of being pressured by them. (link)
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It sounds like you feel to strongly about this to be pressured into it. If theyre your real friends theyll quit smoking around you at least because they know you hate it, if they dont theyre not worth your time.
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guys are always whispering to each others "those are so fake" everytime i walk by them.. they all think im hot.. but are they just saying my boobs are fake cause they really do think that or just because they want me to prove to them that they are real?? (link)
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Either way girl, its wrong that is actually sexual harrasment if it makes you uncomfortable talk to someone about it. Its probably either being a holes or they really do think that theyd love ti if you proved it to them but thats not their intent.
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my school is having a fall festival, and every class either has to sing a song, or do a play. we have 5 girls in my class so a song is out of the question, because the boys are just too good to sing with us. anyway, if anyone knows a good play we can do, can you please tell me were i can find a script or something for it? thanks alot! (link)
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Try Urinetown.
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What song can I sing to audition for my schools musical? I do not have a very good voice, so I am only looking to be in the chorus (I have been in it the past, so yes, it is possible to be in the chorus even if you don't have an amazing voice). I am a 16 year old female, who cannot sing very high at all. I would like something that is easy & will sound good on my voice. I would like something from a Broadway show, or Disney. (preferably A MUSICAL PLAY). THANK YOU! (link)
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A might King from the Lion King for sure, not very high at all
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ok there's this boy and i really really like him but he likes this other girl we'll call Sue and Sue has a boyfriend but he (the guy i like) keeps flirting with her and sitting next to her talking to her etc. but when me and him are alone (not just the two of us but like me and him and other friends and sue not being there) i swear he's flirting with me and of course i flirt back cause i really like him. But i dunno how to see if he likes me or how to get his mind of Sue and on to me. I just don't know what to and i don't wanna just ask him out cause tha'd be kinda weird and plus i'm not like that so can someone please help me get his attention more on me than on her? thanks.... (link)
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Simple advice here, get him alone and SPEAK girl if you really like this boy talk to him see how he feels I know its hard trust me I've been there but youll feel really good afterwards especially if he feels the same.
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There are these girls on my soccer team and their really popular and i'm a lot like them but I only started on this soccer team this year but it seems like they just wanna keep the clique their in and dont wanna let anyone else in although if they got to know me I think we could be really good friends what can I do to make them see that? (link)
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Girl, it sounds like their preps, plastics, snobs, maybe their not, strike up a conversation one day or compliment them on a game well played if they dont warm up to you, you dont want to be like them because if they're so unwelcoming to not try you as a friend they're not worth your time.
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Here is my problem my dad and I are kind of a like but that isn't always a good thing. We are always arguing about some thing or another. We try to be nice to each other but that doesn't last long. Does anyone else have this kind of problem with your parents? If so what is your advice. (link)
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I have the same problem with my mom, stepdad, and father. The problem is stubborness in mine, I dont know about yours. but what I do is go to my room to calm down and if that doesnt work for you I would talk to your family tell them you love them, but that the arguing at home is not good for you and you want to move in with another relative to smooth things out for you and them.
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My friend broke up with his gf a week ago well actually she broke up with him and she is also my friend, he is like my best friend and i can tell him anything even tho we dont hang out, and same with her im really close with her too, i like really wnat to tell him that im starting to like him again but i dont know if i should cause i know he DOESNT like me and he liked my friend like crazy and she broke up with him so he might still like her or one of the 100 girls who like him, so many girls are always flirtting with him that i just feel like im not good enough for him,i dunno i get a tingly feeling just thinking about him... but yea do u think i should tell him I serioulsy need to know whether or not to, i want to be like your one my best friends right? and I can tell you anything? and then be like I think im starting to like you again... but then im thinking its probably way to soon and i should just wait or get over him completeing because hes not good with any of his ex's... but yea any advice? (link)
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It sounds like you got a problem, but it can be solved he just broke up with her and it sounds to m like hes taking it pretty hard now would definately not be a good time to tell him that, and maybe later on he'll see what a great frind you'e been and start to like you to, just be patient, like my neighbor always says dont chase the butterfly wait for it to land on your shoulder.
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ok, There is this guy that I am like in love with. But the thing is, is that he is my Ex Boyfriend. I swear we get along so good now. We talk laugh and everything. He even looks 'sorta' like Billie Joe Armstrong (I Guess you can see why.) But the problem is, is that I am sorta confused with him. Ok for the second part. I have this friend Amber and me, her and Kody (my ex) hangs out all the time. He acts like he is in LOVE with me (odd isnt it?) but anyway when he jokes he calls my friend a bit*h, Who*e, and so on. But he never calls me that. he is always so nice to me. So does he like me. He always stares at me and stuff and smiles at me and everything! Sooo?? All 5s! (link)
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Sounds like your ex is still head over heals girlie. If you love him go for it. Love is a beautiful thing to share.
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My name is stephanie, and I bhave beeen dating my boyfriend for a month now.But here's the twist! My BF(Chris)asked me to hsve sex with him after a band dance. I told him no, b/c I'm not ready to sexualy active just yet! Unexpectingly he said ok I'll respect that b/c I love. I figured that excuse would by me time, and it did! But now he wants more reasons as to why I can't have sex with him. But see what gets me is is that he's telling me he wants to have sex, but when I say no he's ok with what I decide, but he asks repeating , but never makes any kind of action leading to sex. I'm confused! WHY IS HE GIVING ME MIXED SIGNALS?
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What it sounds like to me is that he really loves you. He's telling you that he wants to have sex but if you don't want to he's fine with that,right? but what i think is on his mind is he's going to tell you he loves you, so that you fall in love with him, and eventually cave to his desires, tell him if he really loves you, he'll quit asking.
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