My friend broke up with his gf a week ago well actually she broke up with him and she is also my friend, he is like my best friend and i can tell him anything even tho we dont hang out, and same with her im really close with her too, i like really wnat to tell him that im starting to like him again but i dont know if i should cause i know he DOESNT like me and he liked my friend like crazy and she broke up with him so he might still like her or one of the 100 girls who like him, so many girls are always flirtting with him that i just feel like im not good enough for him,i dunno i get a tingly feeling just thinking about him... but yea do u think i should tell him I serioulsy need to know whether or not to, i want to be like your one my best friends right? and I can tell you anything? and then be like I think im starting to like you again... but then im thinking its probably way to soon and i should just wait or get over him completeing because hes not good with any of his ex's... but yea any advice?
santawillrule answered Friday November 11 2005, 11:25 am: I'm in the same sort of situation. only, he doesnt have a girlfriend, although everybody likes him. i dont know who the boy i like likes. he seems to have the whole school liking him, and so i have no idea who he likes, but im too scared to tell him i like him. well anyways here is my advice :)
talk to him. you might want to wait a while to talk to him about your feelings, if he just broke up with his gf. i think its a good idea that you do talk to him though. if i where you i'd talk to your friends ex ( the girl ) and ask her if she's ok with it. friends are really important, and you dont want to lose one. i hope i helped! [ santawillrule's advice column | Ask santawillrule A Question ]
MichaelaJP721 answered Friday November 11 2005, 10:47 am: My adive to you is tell him. Yes, you might be thinking it will ruin the friendship.. but you never know. Maybe he wants you too but was just too afraid to tell you. If he is one of your best friends, you are already there for him longer than any girlfriend will be. So think about it. Are romantic feelings worth it? Do you think if you two do happen to become boyfriend/girlfriend and break up, he won't want to be your friend anymore? I guess it depends on how close you are. And I know you dont want to keep your feelings bottled up. So tell him, you have nothing to lose, and if he really cares about you, he will be really nice and sweet about it regardless about how he feels about you.
happy-helper answered Friday November 11 2005, 10:36 am: With all due respect, if you know that he "DOESNT" like you, then surely you don't want to risk getting your heart broken? I just don't want you to get hurt where you can avoid it, rejection hurts. I think you should look around the fish tank, see if you can find your Nemo!
x Steph x [ happy-helper's advice column | Ask happy-helper A Question ]
babyB answered Friday November 11 2005, 10:11 am: It sounds like you got a problem, but it can be solved he just broke up with her and it sounds to m like hes taking it pretty hard now would definately not be a good time to tell him that, and maybe later on he'll see what a great frind you'e been and start to like you to, just be patient, like my neighbor always says dont chase the butterfly wait for it to land on your shoulder. [ babyB's advice column | Ask babyB A Question ]
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