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Last Update: November 11, 2005
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Their are these two guys and their constantly fighting over me and their really good friends with me and my friends and also good friends with each other and it's always justc been a joke to me and my friends how they act around me but now it's gone to far they got into a fight over me and ever since they havn't been friends and I feel so bad that I caused it. They got suspended because of the fight but when they got back both of them tryed even harder to get me and started flirting way more with me and I dont know what to do because I like both of them more than friends and I know they wont be okay with me dating both of them. (link)
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Dear I dont know what to do,
My advise to you is to not date either one of them. if you like them both as friends and you chose one.. You're not going to win because you hurt someone regardless. If you tell these boys that it's immature to fight over a girl and ruin a friendship.. you'd be doing both of them a favor. Boys are very possessive, and getting suspended from school and still wanting to win you over is taking it a little too over board to me. So, tell them how you feel. And don't hang around these boys until they can start acting old enough to learn how to behave.
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im 13 and a female. everyday me and my bf go to our school library and hang there and we are usually kissing and making out but i dont really want to all i want to do is talk to him and some friends, snuggle close with him, and maybe a odd kiss a day if im in the mood. he love to snuggle with me too but he takes it too far and i really need to be answered tonight cuz tomorrow i might be biking to his house tomorrow and we will be alone and im sorta afraid of what he will do. is that wrong? what should i do? sry its so long.
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Okay, your thirteen? Wow.. alright first of all, you have to think about what your getting yourself into. If your thirteen now, what do you think your gonna start doing then your say.. 17? I say SLOOWWW down, you have all your life to be boycrazy. enjoy being young and hang out with your friends. Tell your boyfriend just that. Say I like you but we need to start hanging out with our friends too.
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My friend broke up with his gf a week ago well actually she broke up with him and she is also my friend, he is like my best friend and i can tell him anything even tho we dont hang out, and same with her im really close with her too, i like really wnat to tell him that im starting to like him again but i dont know if i should cause i know he DOESNT like me and he liked my friend like crazy and she broke up with him so he might still like her or one of the 100 girls who like him, so many girls are always flirtting with him that i just feel like im not good enough for him,i dunno i get a tingly feeling just thinking about him... but yea do u think i should tell him I serioulsy need to know whether or not to, i want to be like your one my best friends right? and I can tell you anything? and then be like I think im starting to like you again... but then im thinking its probably way to soon and i should just wait or get over him completeing because hes not good with any of his ex's... but yea any advice? (link)
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My adive to you is tell him. Yes, you might be thinking it will ruin the friendship.. but you never know. Maybe he wants you too but was just too afraid to tell you. If he is one of your best friends, you are already there for him longer than any girlfriend will be. So think about it. Are romantic feelings worth it? Do you think if you two do happen to become boyfriend/girlfriend and break up, he won't want to be your friend anymore? I guess it depends on how close you are. And I know you dont want to keep your feelings bottled up. So tell him, you have nothing to lose, and if he really cares about you, he will be really nice and sweet about it regardless about how he feels about you.
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ok well there is this guy at my school who really likes me and I really like him too. However, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and lately I have been questioning my feelings about him and me. But when I think of breaking up with him i get really upset to the point where my eyes tear up. And this weekend I went over to my friends house on Saturday and he laid on the bed next to me and had his arms around me and he also held my hand....and then I went back over Sunday and he was constantly holding my hand and I don't think we let go for more than about 10 minutes, he would put his arm around me when he was behind me and then later on that night before i left he kissed me. And I kind of enjoyed this but I don't know how to tell my boyfriend. And I want to take a break from him but he said he doesn't do breaks and he doesn't give his ex-girlfriends another chance so this is the only chance I have with him, and I'm afraid that I'm going to regret my decision. What do I do? (link)
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Well, if you already cheated on your boyfriend... you have to tell him, regardless of you break up with him. I don't think anyone wants to date a liar, thats probably the worst quality. But, if you are feeling really guilty about what you did to your boyfriend, and you have found you really love him.. then stop what your doing with the other guy, he probably isnt worth it in the long run if you think you'll never get the special thing you have now back.
On the other hand, if you and your boyfriend are experiencing fights and arent getting along, i suggest you play around. If your young and not happy, why be with someone who makes you unhappy? Life is too short
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