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im a girl, im 18 and in a commited relationship. Im online frequently, on my home computer. Go ahead and ask me questions if you need advice im here for you. im always here to help.
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i like this 8th grader but im only 6th and i dont know what to say to him so i can get with him ps: im kind of chuby im a girl and im13 (link)
You could be straight out and honest or you could try becoming friends and see how that goes or if you want to be discreate I used to slip love notes into the guys locker and saw how long it took him to figure it out..hope I helped
- sleepiesheep


so when i turn 14 in january i wont to get a saturday job but not sure what jobs are for 14 year olds has anyone got any ideas ? (link)
babysitting a paper route some fast food places the only thing with this is most business' will not hire workers under the age of 15 due to the child labour laws but thats when you maybe get a baby sitting job that is every saturday or something like that. that way when you do go to apply for a part timejob you have someexperiences to put on your resume
Hope i helped
-sleepiesheep


For Halloween I want me and my boyfriend to like have matching costumes. I was thinking Jack and Sally from nightmare before christmas (his favourite film).
But is there any others we could go as? :] (link)
Jack and Jill
Ice cream and a cone
stripper/hooker/prostitute and a pimp
a banana and a banana peel
micheal jack and a little boy
both go as gansters/thugs from the same gang
moon and the sun
a cop and a robber
a house maid and the rich boss
a computer and the mouse
a kid and a mother
twins
one go as a nerd and the other go as a drop out

thats all i can think about... i dont even know what imgunna be yet..
Hope i helped
-sleepiesheep


it was my 2nd time having sex with my boyfriend and the first time he was on top and it was a quick one so i didnt really know what was going on ahah i just kinda sat there. but this time i was on top and then it felt like it was in my stomach and it really hurt so i tried to go for a while but then i just had to stop so i got off and lay next to him and he was like are you ok? n i was like yea. n he was like welllll ummm im not fininshed yet. so i was like fine get on top then. and he tried but he couldnt get his dick back in so we just didnt do anything. is he mad at me for that haha?? im not a guy so i dont know how he would feel (link)
he shouldnt be mad if you guys are close enough to be having sex than you muct be close enough to talk about this explain what happened maybe next time your alone and he will understand.. i have the same problem and honestly if you stay away from being on top than you shouldnt have the same problem too many times..
hope i helped
-sleepiesheep


I've always gotten cold sores but this time, my cold sore has taken over my entire bottom lip and is spreading down my chin! I usually use Zicam but it isn't helping now!

How do I clear this up?! (link)
gosee a doctor about it their usually caused by a type of herpes and it may have formed into a worse type..if possible.. but it sounds kinda bad.. no offence.. so in my advicei would go and atleast see why its spreading and why it has taken over so much skin.
Hope i helped
-sleepiesheep


Okay, I want to get on some kind of antidepressants... But I want to do it behind my parents back.

I just don't want to tell my mother because she's going to ask me why I'm depressed, and I don't really know how to tell her. It's mostly because of her and Daddy... And a lot of other, screwed up shit.
But, it's becoming harder and harder to hide my depression, and I really need some help. So, if I can get on them, without my parents knowledge... That'd be fantastic.

I doubt this is possible, but if it is... please tell me how.

I'm so desperate.
15/f/AUSTRALIA (link)
i know you dont want to have to explain this to your parents... im in the exact same predictament talk to your doctor one on one and explain your situation..
hope i helped and if you need someone to talk to just send me an email or a message on here im always around to help.
-sleepiesheep


i need to lose 10 pounds by summer. i weigh 125 and measure 5'5 . what can i do? (link)
you do not need to lose weight im sorry to say it but 125 is a perfectly normal weight to be at i can only wish i weighed that much you can always try to jog once a day or walk to work or school instead of taking the bus that might help shape your stomach a bit more.
-Sleepiesheep


I'm not sure if this is in the right category. Anyway, does anyone know some sort of cream, like jergens natural glow, or something that would make me look somewhat darker than my actual color white is ghost white, btw. I'm looking for something that's not messy, that isn't like a self tanner and more like a lotion. is it even real? haha. I appreciate anyone's help! (link)
you could try a tanning lotion called sea and ski i use it in the winter to keep up my summer tan and sometimes in the summer too it helps me so hopefully it helps you.
-Sleepiesheep


I am curious to know what is the position most couples do when they have sex for the first time (with each other)? Anyone know of any good sexual positions for the times after that?? I was just curious, because this came up in discussion earlier today and want to know some other opinions... =]
Thanks.
I rate high for good answers!!!
-MM- (link)
Its not always about positions you need to know what your comfortable with as well as your partner you need to be able to sit down and talk about it before you begin having sex always remmeber to use a condom and only have sex when your ready to do so.
-Sleepiesheep


I currently walked out of my work place. My manager has made me feel belittled, disrespected, stupid, useless and a whole bunch of other things that aren't right. There isn't enough room for me to list everything, but I hope the point is still the same.
The icing on the cake came when I was clocked out and on lunch break outside of the business establishment talking with a friend about how I disliked my job. This was a private conversation. Come to find out, my manager was eaves dropping on us. I came back from break and she confronted me with "I heard what you said and I don't appreciate it." After that, she gives a huge list of tasks to do that can't be done within one day, let alone one weekend. I was wrote up later for "gossiping". Was I right for walking out on this job? (link)
from what you have said i think your manager is just a meany and yes you were right as long as you arent "desperate" for money or anything but you can find another job where you feel more respected and listened to as a person instead of an employee so stick it to the boss and im proud of you for standing up for yourself.
-sleepiesheep


please help me...
ok i have been on and off with this guy austin for almost six years..i love him i do..but he doesnt treat me like i know i should be treated..sometimes he even just makes me feel shitty about myself sometimes though..he makes me feel reall good...we have been through more good times and bad times..than anyone i know...also..his family is my family..they adore me..and i feel the same about them...it that makes it harder....and everytime we break up..it never fails..i go back to him.. because i cant stand the sight of him and someone else...
but theres this justin guy that has just recently come into my life..and we have become extremely close over the last 5 or 6 months..give or take a few...but he makes me feel so good...hes so sweet..hes so good to me.he treats me like way too good i feel like..he makes me feel reall good about myself...and makes me happy...but yet so does austin..sometimes...but anyway...justin has me on this pedestle..and i dont feel like i belong there..or deserve to be there...he looks at me like no one has..ever looked at me...but i cant shake this thing that i have for austin..and i hate seeing him with anyone else...im just so confused..i dont want to hurt anyone..but i also dont want to hurt myself anymore...i really really love them both..and cant picture myself without either one...
please write me back asap. (link)
well i cant tell you how to feel but if i was in the situation i would proberly pick Justin but you need to find out how u feel about them. Maybe try spending alone time with both see what you like what you dont like how they make you feel take everything in then sit down and think and compare those two seperate times. Hopefully that will help you decide who you would rather be with. Hope i helped.
~sleepiesheep


Yeah 13/f here. I need some advice here. I really like this guy. I really have no idea if he likes me back, its really hard to tell since hes always fooling around with girls n guys. Some stuff about him: Hes a class clown and he:
- Sometimes looks at me
- Teases me
- Steals my stuff
Although, he could just be glancing at someone else, and he could just be teasing me because well... boys are boys right? and he steals other ppls stuff too, other girls mainly, so ... any help? I just need maybe some tips to find out if he does or if YOU think he does/doesn't, or maybe to get him to ask me (I am seriously too shy to ask him T.T) to the dance???
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THANKS FOR YOUR HELP =)
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well im sorry to say but boys at your age are still very immature but from my experience i think he may like you. Maybe just try giving him a little bit more attention or if you can put your shyness aside invite him to the dance but make it sound more like a group thing instead of a "date". Hope i helped and have fun at your dance.
~sleepiesheep


what do you get a guy for valentines day???? i need to get something for this guy i really like and have been spending a lot of time with. i don't want it to be like "just a present" but something that's like "duh boy i like you." lol. but cliche things like teddys and chocolate and roses seem more female-aimed. i don't know! and i also don't have an infinite amount of money...so...ya. any ideas? (link)
you could always try making him a nice dinner at home and inviting him over if you add a couple candles and light music it could be really romantic or you could always go to a good movie

hope i helped
~sleepiesheep


17 female.
i really like this guy. i don't get to see him very much :( because he is always busy with sports and school so if i ever do it's on the weekends. well i hung out with him last weekend and he came to my house and i was with him for like two hours before he had hockey. i was hoping he would text me this weekend, and he did today. at like 5 he texted me and was like, what are you doing tonight. well i assumed he was trying to hang out but i was like well i'm just getting of work then i dont know. and then i was like what are you doing and he was like just hanging out at my house and i was oh thats fun and he was like so what are you doing tonight, anything? and i was like i dont know i want to watch the hockey game and then later i was like come over and watch this movie with me and he was like haha lame. because he doesnt like the movie and i was like your mean! and he was like no im not i don't like that movie! so then i was like your really not going to come see me? and he was like i dont know, do you want me to? and i was like yes and he was like i'll try and i was like alright well let me know if your going to and he was like okay well i'm at my friends house right now but i'll try to, are you going to be home? and i was like um yeah i think so my friend wanted me to come over but i'm not going to tonight (i made that up so i wouldn't seem like a complete nerd) and he was just like oh alright and that was it. well he never did end up texting me or coming over or anything which really upset me. i really wanted to see him, and i feel like a loser now because i sat at home waiting for him (even though i had nothing else to do) while he was out with his friends. i don't know any of them, they go to a different school but i feel like he stood up in a way. we didn't have definite plans but he texted me and acted like he wanted to hang out and so now i have to wait another WEEK to possibly see him. i'm so upset. this really hurt me. am i wrong for being mad and sad about this? (link)
iv been there done that cmon girl if you dont feel special to him and like he wants to spend time to u and wants to be with you than personally, i would dump him....sry i bet hes a sweet guy but i would...but its up to you and its your decision but i think theres someone out there that would make you feel special.

hope i helped


for the past few weeks I have been eating great, exercising a TON and losing weight! But whenever I hang out at my friend's house, I eat a crazy amount of food! How can I control myself when I'm around all of that sugary junkfood? (link)
Maybe only bring out one bag of chips or only one snack to eat and dont keep opening junk food to eat just have one snack it always worked for me and if that doesnt work tell ur friend to lock up her junk food away from u

hope i helped
-sleepiesheep


i have a bad habit of sitting and shaking my legs. sometimes i dont even notice im doing it. a few of my friends told me that it actually burns up to 100 calories a day. is that true?? (link)
hey. im not actually sure how many calories it burns but i do know that i do it too and i know it does burn calories off ur legs. hope i helped.

*sleepiesheep*


Hello all,
I was wondering if anyone has an opinion on a laptop that I am considering buying from Staples.
It is a...
Compaq presario with AMD turion64
-1 GB ram
-80 GB hd
-15.4 in. widescreen
-8x dvd R/Rw superMulti dual-layer drive
-5 in 1 memory card reader
-quickplay
All for $600 after rebates.

I plan on mostly using it for school (Im 16) and leisure. nothing too serious.
I would greatly appreciate any comments that you have!
Thanks! (link)
Ok now i have a Dell laptop but my best friend has a Compaq and that sounds like i nice laptop if its most for school and stuff maybe if you go into a computer shop or talk to your computer teacher(s) at your school for professional answers

*sleepiesheep*


i usually listen to hardcore/screamo songs ..but after awhile i'm getting kind of sick of them. i'm starting to listen to bands like augustana more, so if you recommend any songs that are i guess 'soft rock' or whatever, could you let me know? specific songs would be great, or just bands. thanks! (link)
i suggest maybe try Billy Talent i find him really good and he sings songs like:
Red Flag
Devil In A Midnight Mass
Fallen Leaves
Perfect World
Where Is The Line?
Surrender

hope this helped!

*sleepiesheep*


So I know its illegal to have sex with someone over 28 if you are a minor... no big deal, we both are very strict about the wait till you aare married thing and i will not let my guard down. my quaetion is, is it still illegal if we date and i am a minor and he is 18 but we do not have sex or anything? (link)
yeah i had the same problem and i heard that anyone over 19 dateing a minor is illegal but after u turn 18 or 19 its legal

*sleepisheep*


I have this ex boyfriend. We dated on and off for more than a year.

Recently, I caught him in some lies and minor cheating stuff. I don't really trust him, but I consider him a very close friend.

We talk about once a week, and eveyrtime we do he nags about wanting to get back together. I don't want to right now, but its not because I don't trust him.

I mean, he's a great guy, but I want to be single right now.

So I need some more reasons, even if they are made up, to keep him off.

And if I happened to havea thing with one o fhis friends, how could i break it to him without hurting him?


He's really sensative. (link)
hey well to tell you tha truth i wouldnt lie you explained you didnt enjoy being lied to so why make him go through what he put you through? also maybe ask him to meet you somewhere public like a coffee shop or the park so you guys could just talk maybe just explain that you just want to be single and when you feel like you would like a boyfriend than you wont forget about him and for now you would like to still remain friends or something if you try to talk to him and explain things i think he will understand
hope i helped

*sleepiesheep*




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