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did i let him get the best of me?
17 female.
i really like this guy. i don't get to see him very much :( because he is always busy with sports and school so if i ever do it's on the weekends. well i hung out with him last weekend and he came to my house and i was with him for like two hours before he had hockey. i was hoping he would text me this weekend, and he did today. at like 5 he texted me and was like, what are you doing tonight. well i assumed he was trying to hang out but i was like well i'm just getting of work then i dont know. and then i was like what are you doing and he was like just hanging out at my house and i was oh thats fun and he was like so what are you doing tonight, anything? and i was like i dont know i want to watch the hockey game and then later i was like come over and watch this movie with me and he was like haha lame. because he doesnt like the movie and i was like your mean! and he was like no im not i don't like that movie! so then i was like your really not going to come see me? and he was like i dont know, do you want me to? and i was like yes and he was like i'll try and i was like alright well let me know if your going to and he was like okay well i'm at my friends house right now but i'll try to, are you going to be home? and i was like um yeah i think so my friend wanted me to come over but i'm not going to tonight (i made that up so i wouldn't seem like a complete nerd) and he was just like oh alright and that was it. well he never did end up texting me or coming over or anything which really upset me. i really wanted to see him, and i feel like a loser now because i sat at home waiting for him (even though i had nothing else to do) while he was out with his friends. i don't know any of them, they go to a different school but i feel like he stood up in a way. we didn't have definite plans but he texted me and acted like he wanted to hang out and so now i have to wait another WEEK to possibly see him. i'm so upset. this really hurt me. am i wrong for being mad and sad about this?
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iv been there done that cmon girl if you dont feel special to him and like he wants to spend time to u and wants to be with you than personally, i would dump him....sry i bet hes a sweet guy but i would...but its up to you and its your decision but i think theres someone out there that would make you feel special.
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ill be honest, he doesn't sound too into you. if he really liked you, he'd be more than excited to come see you, and if he knew he couldn't, he would let you know that and not make you wait around. if he's not putting forth any effort, you shouldnt be puttin in extra effort to see him, he has to want to too. what do yall do when you're together? if yall have sex or anything of that nature, chances are he's just using you for that and doesn't have any real feelings for you, because he just got out of a relationship. dating someone for over 2 years and then going straight on to genuinely like somebody new is not likely. back off for awhile & make him want to talk to you and see you. give him the space that he needs, and if he wants to be with you after that, he'll come back when the time is right. good luck girl!
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