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sex. is he mad
it was my 2nd time having sex with my boyfriend and the first time he was on top and it was a quick one so i didnt really know what was going on ahah i just kinda sat there. but this time i was on top and then it felt like it was in my stomach and it really hurt so i tried to go for a while but then i just had to stop so i got off and lay next to him and he was like are you ok? n i was like yea. n he was like welllll ummm im not fininshed yet. so i was like fine get on top then. and he tried but he couldnt get his dick back in so we just didnt do anything. is he mad at me for that haha?? im not a guy so i dont know how he would feel
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he shouldnt be mad if you guys are close enough to be having sex than you muct be close enough to talk about this explain what happened maybe next time your alone and he will understand.. i have the same problem and honestly if you stay away from being on top than you shouldnt have the same problem too many times..
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He might be.
You ought to talk about it.
If he mad, he needs to be gently told that sometimes, he's going to have to suck it up, especially while you are still learning about one another’s bodies... For some reason some men have it their heads that they ALWAYS deserve to orgasm every time things get even a bit hot and heavy. Much of our culture and media supports this sort of idea, that women ‘owe it’ to guys to make sure they get off every time or sexual activities have no point. There are all sorts of derogatory words for a woman who don’t conform with that… but most women don't suffer under the delusion that they are going to have an orgasm every time they engage in sexual activities, and although it might be a very nice goal to keep in mind for both sexes, men should be gently told to give on this idea that they always get to get off. Life don’t work that way. Our bodies don’t work that way. For time to time, cuddling is a very good conclusion, all by itself.
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