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why does it hurt that bad
sooooo ok my boyfriend was eating me out and it feels good when he puts his tounge like in the hole and stuff haha but he was suckin on my clit n it made me like twitch at 1st n i couldnt stand it so i told him to stop then later he was doing it again and told me to hold out and if i did i would orgasm so i held out for 15 minutes and had to hold onto the bedposts it felt so weird and not so much in a good way. and i never orgasmed? but the next day my clit hurt so bad when he would touch it and it was red and swollen? is that normal?????
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is it normal? NO. is it the reaction to his action? Yes
see sex is not suppose to hurt and yes even though you might feel the rush you still should be careful and practice not just "prevention" but even more important safe sex. For what i can see it seems like your clitoris is very sore, irritated and it seems likes he might have done a little kickey on your clit. just be carefull and let hime know that that was not a good feeling and you would not like to add that dessert to your menu. I hope this helps
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Well yes, being hurt and swollen because somebody hurt you and rubbed a delicate part of your body until it swelled up is pretty much normal!
Next time don't give in to your boyfriends pressure. You know what feels good for you. Just because an approach worked with some other girl doesn't mean it will work for you.
Tell him firmly, next time he wants to give you pleasure, he needs to do more listening, and less talking. And even more importantly, stand up for yourself on what works and what doesn't.
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