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I dont know what to do
Their are these two guys and their constantly fighting over me and their really good friends with me and my friends and also good friends with each other and it's always justc been a joke to me and my friends how they act around me but now it's gone to far they got into a fight over me and ever since they havn't been friends and I feel so bad that I caused it. They got suspended because of the fight but when they got back both of them tryed even harder to get me and started flirting way more with me and I dont know what to do because I like both of them more than friends and I know they wont be okay with me dating both of them.
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Hmm..that's a tuffy! Surely if you like them both the same, you can't choose. I doubt you want to break the others' heart as you don't know how they'll react. It could be that one hits the other because you're going out with him and nothing will be sorted. Why don't you put your foot down and say "I'm not picking between you two, if you want to fight, carry on but I'm not interested in either of you if you're doing". You're not a prize to be won, hun, you're a real human being and they shouldn't treat you like meat!
Good luck!
x Steph x
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I don't want to sound mean--but maybe these guys aren't good enough for you. English class is something you may want to focus on, because I had to read that about 80 times to figure out what you were trying to say.
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Dear I dont know what to do,
My advise to you is to not date either one of them. if you like them both as friends and you chose one.. You're not going to win because you hurt someone regardless. If you tell these boys that it's immature to fight over a girl and ruin a friendship.. you'd be doing both of them a favor. Boys are very possessive, and getting suspended from school and still wanting to win you over is taking it a little too over board to me. So, tell them how you feel. And don't hang around these boys until they can start acting old enough to learn how to behave.
Hope I Helped(:
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It is not your fault they want you god made you the way he wanted you to be so if they want to fight over you then thats there fault if they were real friends then they would't let no girl come between them
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hey there isnt alot you can do. Since you like both of the guys you have to choose one, because deep down you have to like one more then the other. When picking between the two guys that you have feelings for, you should list things that you like of each guy (which one makes you more comturable. And once you have chosen the guy, you should try and be friends with the other one and make sure that he knows why your not choosing him, cuz then if you and the other guy break up, youll always have the guy you rejected to go back too... BUT then again the guy you rejected might not take you back for choosing the other guy.. So then again if you dont want to have to choose between them you can always reject the both of them...If you reject the both of them just make sure they know that you only want to be friends. I hope that helps>> For more info email me!!!
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Even though you think you like them both more then a friend, deep down you like one more then another. ;) You have to figure that out though. To make it easier, make a list of things you like about them. It might sound cheesy or stupid, but sometimes it comes to that point where you have to do it. Write down qualities, personality traits.. thing like that. Not to sound mean, but they are being very immature and stupid about this. They are acting like it's some kind of competition to see who will get you first. They both like you and that's fine, but having them fighting and trying to kill each other had gotten out of hand. You need to talk to them. Like seriously. They need you to tell them that they need to stop and that whatever they are doing is not right. You don't like it and you want them to stop. Tell them that if you do go out with one, that they shouldn't be mad or anything because it's really up to you. For now try to make them be friends. If they don't want to be, there isn't anything else I could say. It's really their problem and they will learn to grow up.
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