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hey everyone! does anyone noe a good way to stop split ends? i have a ceramic and it`s killer to my hair! i rate high! please help

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you have cut your hair even and that should help




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kinda of very weird question ever asked---- seriously is there any way to judge whether a female had sex earlier in her part of life or not? jus by looking at her....? No offense...jus info (link)
Some females put there selves out there so bad that you can tell. some that have had sex and you can't tell, becuz she keep her pride and she carrie herself as a lady




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I have a girlfriend the problem is i'm a girl can some1 help i don't know what 2 do!!!!!! (link)
y didn't you tell your girlfriend that you was a female,instead of getting yourself into somehting that you may nd up getting hurt or you may hurt the other person becuz u either ashmed that you was gay or you was bisexual.My advice to you is to tel before yuo all fall deeply in luv and she may not be gay.til next time take care of yourself and each other


I have a girlfriend the problem is i'm a girl can some1 help i don't know what 2 do!!!!!! (link)
y didn't you tell your girlfriend that you was a female,instead of getting yourself into somehting that you may nd up getting hurt or you may hurt the other person becuz u either ashmed that you was gay or you was bisexual.My advice to you is to tel before yuo all fall deeply in luv and she may not be gay.til next time take care of yourself and each other


were exactly are you? anywere near kansas city? (link)
Ha Ha sorry honey i'm located in Detroit but still keep in touch.






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I have a huuuuge biology test on monday, and im so nervous. It's just so confusing. Im studying so hard but i just know im gunna fail. I have a C- average, so i HAVE to do well. Plus my gramma just died, so thats just another distraction. Im so nervous i feel like im gunna be sick. How can I calm down? What are some good study tips? Pleaseeeee help! (link)
try to focus on some good things you and your grandma experinced and try to calm down.some good advice is to pray and ask god for help because he is the only one that can truly give you some good tips.keep your faith and be sure that you'll pass.







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Their are these two guys and their constantly fighting over me and their really good friends with me and my friends and also good friends with each other and it's always justc been a joke to me and my friends how they act around me but now it's gone to far they got into a fight over me and ever since they havn't been friends and I feel so bad that I caused it. They got suspended because of the fight but when they got back both of them tryed even harder to get me and started flirting way more with me and I dont know what to do because I like both of them more than friends and I know they wont be okay with me dating both of them. (link)
It is not your fault they want you god made you the way he wanted you to be so if they want to fight over you then thats there fault if they were real friends then they would't let no girl come between them
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when you going to put a pic up on your column? lookin forward to seein it. (link)
who are you.anyway i'm lite , skinned ,fat ass ,nice size titties ,flat stomach and a fat ass juicie pussy.What about you and again who are you do you have a pic.and whats your age


I'm 17. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. He's 24, and things couldn't be better. One problem. He's married to another woman. I had NO idea he was married when we got together 4 months ago. Had I known then what I know now, I wouldn't have ever kept up contact with him. So, I know, but he doesn't know I know. And I'm guessing the wife has NO idea about his infedility. I've known this for about two weeks. I taped us "in the act", in case I ever needed proof.



Question is: how should I go about handling this?

Should I bring it up to HIM first?

Should I somehow tell his WIFE? And if you think I should do that, in what form of communication do you think would be best?

Do you think I should just end the relationship suddenly without mentioning it to him, and then stay the hell away, or what?



I would like to know if MY significant other were up to no good. I know it's not so much my business, but I would have trouble living with myself knowing I kept such a drastic secret from a woman who has every right to know. :( (link)
well first of all i'm missloudy.you should tell him that you have found out about his wife and if he didn't luv you enough to tell you about her then it ain't ment to be together.Til next time take care of yourself and each other




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I am a 19 year old female who has dated a lot of immature 18-21 year olds. I joined an online dating site recently, just because I thought it would be fun. Well, now I seem to be drawing myself towards older men, such as 30 year olds. I suppose it's because of their maturity level, financial stability, and experience.

Would this be socially acceptable for me to have a relationship with a 30 year old, or a bit taboo? How would others perceive us? What should I consider before dating an older man? What sort of problems may we encounter in our relationship? Any thoughts would be appreciated. (link)
well you are to yong to dating an man 30 years i also understand that there alot of immature men out in the world so my advice to you is keep yourself safe and do what you think best til next time take care





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My parents are getting divorced because my mum is unhappy.
Anyway I found out that she was cheating on my dad.
I followed her one day down the end of my road where she got into a car with a guy, Mark. I know it was him because I heard her talking about him to her friends and I know its her old boyfirend.
She didnt come home that night.
I feel weird towards her.
I don't know what to do. My dad doesnt know. Should I tell him. I don't want to hurt either of my parents.
Will this affect the divorce porceedings?
Thanks for all help. (link)
Well your still a child so stay out of your parents bizness and keep colm becuz if you don't you'll be the one hurt in the future.







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okay well i have a bf and hes gone for about 2 weeks so i wont be able to see him and i barley get to talk to him. but the thing is wen hes not gone we dont talk (well barley anyway)) and the thing is im started to like this other guy. and i dont want to but then again i do becuz hes not shy unlike my bf and idk what to do im so confused right now. please help me. (link)
Well of you think about it you don't have a bf ecuz if you did he would call you when ever he get a chance. He is probly with another gurl, my advioce to you is to hook up with that other guy you like and if it was ment to be god will put yall together.






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Okay me and my boyfriend were together for about three years, he is 20 and im 18. We were friends for two years before we dated anyways. we broke up because we had respect issues and didnt agree on certain things in the future. he tried getting me back many times...but about three weeks ago he finally gave up. a week ago i saw he had made a myspace...and is now talking to so many girls and gettin their numbers and meeting them up. its really heartbreaking for me because we've only been broken up for about three months max and hes already moved on and talking to all these girls...and im constantly sad now.
how can i move on...not miss him...not be hurt? and i cant stop myself from not going on his myspace cause i get curious of who hes talkin to...help me! i wanna get over him! and plz dont suggest..sleeping with someone else for now cause im not like that. (link)
well first you will have to look father down in your heart and see if he's the right one for you and if he is then god will put him back in your life........My advice to you is he is no good because i believe that he most likely he was dating some of those ladies when yall was together andyou don't want to be a side girl





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ok i sound like a complete fool but its true i have a crush on my teacher this is sick and i need it to stop. Its like everytime i have a lession with him i sit and glare at him its so not correct and i don't know what to do. I know that like other students like him aswell cus he is like hott but hes always picking on me all the time in class and ive seen him look at me but maybe its just to see if i understand and he always lets me off when i don't do the homework and he shouts at everyone else. I don't know what to do hes sooo much older than me. someone help thank you in advance. (link)
Wow! this is deep I've never talk to anyone like you so i don't know where to start.The best thing I could tell you is try to keep your mind focus on your work pray to god and let him know that your in a situation that's really hard to get out of and he'll fix it . until next time take care of yourself




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Okay, so I'm in a bit of a weird situation. I haven't been in this situation since ninth grade, and I'm in college.
So my friend likes this guy...and this guy likes me...
Where I am is, I'm TRYING actively not to like this guy because I don't want my friend to get hurt, but he's talking to me and hanging out with me more and more, and I feel like I'm losing my battle.
We started hanging out because he and I have one HECK of a lot in common - like, it's scary. We all went out once and we ordered the same thing...in unison. Lol...
Yeeeeeeah.
So, um. I guess my question is, what do I do? My friend likes him, and he likes me, and I hate to admit it, but I'm starting to kind of like him, too.
I won't tell her I like him because, for one thing, I teased her ENDLESSLY about liking him, and I'd never hear the end of it. For another thing, that would cause such awkward friendship crap...I have, however, kind of half admitted to him that I'm starting to kinda like him...
So help me out, guys! (link)
even though it may hurt your friend you should give him a chance just to see what type of person he is.try to explain to your friend that he don't want her,and tell her don't beat your ass or call you a bitch and about three days she'll be over him and ya'll will still be together




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ok i only date aboriginal maori or ti or amercains so i only date darker boyz like my bf is aboriginal but when white boyz ask me out and i say no they say im racist cause there never seen me whith a white man im not racist i just dont find them very hot i like them as friends thats it and how can i be racist if my dads family is white and my mothers family is black thats not racist a (link)
I think your racist and thats not fair leave the past alone








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Hey for all the guys out here i have a question.. what would you say as dressing hott to dressing trashy? like give examples of things that you think is hott or just plain trashy in genral well thanks! (link)
I'm thinking about this one i'll hit you back later for my answer







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I had recently asked a question about spotting& using Estrostep..well I have 2 more questions..

1. how long would it take for the Estrostep to affect my periods?

2. how often does spotting occur, is it like 1 day every now& then..or is it a little bit each day, but everyday?

thanks again! :D (link)
wrong question




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