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im not racist
ok i only date aboriginal maori or ti or amercains so i only date darker boyz like my bf is aboriginal but when white boyz ask me out and i say no they say im racist cause there never seen me whith a white man im not racist i just dont find them very hot i like them as friends thats it and how can i be racist if my dads family is white and my mothers family is black thats not racist a
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that is kinda of racist
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Thinking that people from a different race aren't attractive isn't racist. I personally don't find black women attractive, but I don't hate them and make fun of them for being black. In reality, its no different than not being attracted to blones, people with blue eyes, whatever. Its just a preference.
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I dont feel that just because you have found yourself to be attracted to certain people makes you racist. These guys who call you that are just hurt because they have been turned down. Being a racist comes from having preconceived notions of people based solely on their race.
Now if the reason you dont want to date white boys is based on a feeling that the boys you do like to date are superior to white boys based on their race, then yes that is prejudice.
If this is not the case then I would not worry so much about the statements made by angry boys who are trying to lash out at you because they dont like rejection.
Eva J
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Hey i can completely understand you on this.. alot of people think i`m racist against my own race cuz i don`t like wite guys as well for the same reason as you i`m not attracted to em.. i find some white guys i like as friends but thats about it and nothing more.. i`d just do what i do and ignore who says your racist don`t worry about it and live happy with your boyfriend.. drop some ?`s anytime.. ♥ Dez
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I think your racist and thats not fair leave the past alone
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no, that's not racist. it's just what you like. of course they are going to say something mean like that..you rejected them and the need an excuse better than "she doesn't like me" to keep themselves feeling cool. haha. but don't be afraid to date a white guy if you meet one (i'm talking later on cause you have a bf) that you like. what if he's everything you want except for his skin?
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Hi There,
I do believe your not racist everybody has different tastes in guys and I can totally unterstand what you mean, some people just can't accept being rejected so the best thing they can do is come out with this so make you feel upset. At the end of the day you know deep down that you are not racist and thats all that matteres just don't let narrow minded people get to you just be yourself and you don't need to prove anything to anyone.
Takecare
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Ignore people like that.
They are just trying to guilt you into going out with them. Date who you like for whatever reason you like. You are certainly not racist. :)
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It's who you're attracted to, it doesn't make you racist. Doesn't make you shallow either, you're just not proud and foolish enough to state that you don't care at all about looks. You know what you want, that's a good thing.
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nah its not racist, kinda shallow though that your judging wether or not you want to go out with someone just on looks
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