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i'll make this short and simple.

16f never been kissed (i know pathetic loser)
likes boy
wants to make first move
but scared of being rejected
what if i mess up? what if he moves his head away? i have braces will it be harder to kiss? should i eat chocolate before hand so i taste good?

please help a sista out. i'll give you 5's. (link)
just eat a mint b4 and kiss a guy who likes u or like a boyfrend


hey people i love to write songs, poems, and stories, well i want to right more songs but i have righters jam..i cant think of wat to right..so can anyone give me ideas, some lines...show me some of your own work (i promise i wont steel your songs)(i wouldnt want any 1 steeling my hard work so i wont steel yours) anyways plz help me thanks... (link)
rite about your relationships and brake ups and if u r up to it your emotions


How can I get money? Cuz I'm tired of going to a thrift store to get things, especially when things don't fit my small size. I don't have much shirts to wear. I need a new backpack (had it for 3 years) I need money for school things...But my mom doesnt have money to give to me. I'm only 14, a few months away from 15. What can I do? I'm not the only child, so money can't be given to me easily. None of my friends will help me.. (link)
babysit and get a job wen u turn 15


hey i have a boyfriend and he cheated on me 4 time i been with him for like a year and a half but i love him to death and the poeple he cheated on me with was my best friends and they dont talk to me anymore and yea they write whore and slut on my locker in school and they wanna jump me cause i am mad at them cause i though they were my friends but they are not anymore now they are getiing all my other friend not to like me and i think that is not good cause now i walk through school with no one to talk to i just wanna leave this LIBERTY HIGH SCHOOL... it sucks....PLEASE HELP ME WHAT SHOULD I DO.. (link)
eat cheese *(lol)


my boyfriend says everything to me that i am his everything to me and that he loves me and no body else and how much he cares hor me! and he is in love with me. But there his his ex.. his first love and he swears that he dont like her that way any more and he is not going to break up with me for her and he promises on our relationship! i dont know what to believe though i told him i believed him and then i told him that i dodnt believe and that i was confused and i didnt know how to react! but i mean he tells me everything they say to each other and when she calls! (link)
eat some cheese


My English teacher once told me, 'Don't marry someone you love, marry someone who completes you.'

Does anyone have any idea what that could mean, in a way? Like, how can someone complete you? (link)
its a complicated way of saying oppisites attract


ok i only date aboriginal maori or ti or amercains so i only date darker boyz like my bf is aboriginal but when white boyz ask me out and i say no they say im racist cause there never seen me whith a white man im not racist i just dont find them very hot i like them as friends thats it and how can i be racist if my dads family is white and my mothers family is black thats not racist a (link)
that is kinda of racist


I had this "so called friend" today. I was drinking my soda and she purposelly hit the bottle so it spilled. Everywhere. And she laughed. LAUGHED! And it was on my arm, shirt, jeans, chair, floor, and not to mention IN MY HAIR! I was so MAD!Anyway after that I go "what was that for" & she says "i wanted to see what would happen" GRRRR!In that class there are only 3 of us and the third is good friends with her. How should I talk to her tomorrow, or should I talk to her at all? I WANT HONEST OPINIONS!ALL 5s (link)
I would be mad at her do the same thing to her or a prank


a bit long i say ok well im 14/m and i have asked this question what do girls look for in guys well i looked at the answers and i was most of them but im not the brightest star in the sky so i have a two part question 1 why are girls so materalistic about guys appearance and 2 do most girls want all of the other things for the being cute part? well i need help so read it please i beg of you! (link)
im a guy but just go up to them and grab there boobs some times u get slaped and other times they think you are brave to do that to a girl you dont know


so i do about 50 cruches each night and in the morning when i wake up my stomach seems flatter but throughout the day it gets bigger again.. it gets so annyoing.. it still gets bigger even if i do 100 crunches each night.. whats wrong? (link)
it gets bigger no matter wat thats just the way it is but chuches do help


okay.. me and my ex b/f(eric) broke up a month ago.. and i have a new b/f(rj) now.. and he has a new g/f(rachel).. me and eric were going out for 3 years till we broke up.. so of course, im not quite over him.. i dunno what to do.. i tried talking to eric.. but it just aint working..he doesnt even wanna be my friend.. and im just going through a really rough time right now.. and imm always depressed.. can you give me some advice on how to get over him.. thanks (link)
u have a new boyfriend thats getting over him if u ask me


ok so i like this guy and for once a guy is taller than me hes 6 foot and im 5'8 so im thrilled anyways i have 2 classes with him and one of the classes i have lunch in and he eats with me and ill still his seat or he'll give me his cookies bc he knos i like them and he always gets to english before me on purpose bc he knows it bugs me only problem hes kinda shy and so am i thats why i think he might like me but i dunno i want him to ask me out does he like me as just a friend or is this flirting? should i give up or not? im not the kind of person to make a first move so i want him to someone please help! i just want to know what is going on if what im doing is right if i need to flirt more or whatever so yea help me somebody please! thanx bunches! (link)
flurting im a guy i no


What is your favorite perfume? What perfumes do guys like best? (link)
dudes dont like perfume


First off i'm 14 f, and there is this guy in my IPC class(15m), and i think that i like him, and lately he has been talking to me and flirting with me ALOT. Like today for instance he was talking to his friends and i was talking to my friends, and he goes man i wish the beautiful little lady in the abercrombie shirt would turn around and join our conversation... and his friend snapped him with a rubberband and he was like owww... and looked at me and started talking to me about it like i was his best friend... He is really nice to me and stuff, and i want to know if theese are signs of him flirting with me or something?!?!
Please Help
xo (link)
he likes u


There is this one guy that me and him are pretty good friends. He's a year younger than me, so he just moved up to the jr/sr high school. I see him a lot now and talk to him a lot more than before. And I'm not sure why but it seems like he likes me. And the problem with that is he has a girlfriend. Earlier this week me and some other people were hanging out at a school basketball game and during his girlfriends game he came and sat in front of me to talk to me. And a lot of hims when he'd turn around he'd like put his arm or hand on my knee or leg. The other day his g.f got hurt in gym and had to leave school, he came and sat with my friends and I during lunch. And then last night at the football game (which his girlfriend was at...but they weren't hanging out that much.) it was like 50 or below degrees and I was freezing so he offered me his hoodie. And he walked to the near-by gas station with us to get coffee and stuff. So I'm just wondering do you think he likes me? Please no stupid anwsers I just want to know what other people think. Thanks (link)
he likes u


I have a big problem with thinking i am FAT! I'm 5'5 and i weigh 119.5! So I dont eat alot. My boyfriend worries about me an tells me if i dont go to start eating right then he was gonna tell someone. I went to the doctor to get my physical for cross country an he pushed on my tummy an asked me if i ever ate an i said sometimes an he said do you have an appitite an im like not really an he said that he could tell that i hardley ever ate by pressing on my stomach! I wanna eat but i get too full soo easy! what should i do? (link)
ur not fat u can eat


well im 16 and im a gurl and im still a virgin in every way but what i want to know is ,is ok to masterbate and when you have sex for the first time does it hurt also when you masterbate does it feel different when you acually have sex or does the pleasure feel the same please help iam i disuging or normal
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ur normal i like u


Girls can answer, but this is a question I want guys to answer even more (since you know, its about how a guy would react). If you know any guys on this site, could you refer them to this question.

Okay then, last year I noticed this really really hot guy in my school, and told my friends about him and such, and I decided he was the hottest guy in the school and it became this sort of joke but not really a joke between us, just a thing to talk about. Well, one of my friends talks to him a bit now, and the other day (oh yeah, I never had talked to him, he doesnt even know I exist, hes a senior I'm a sophmore but my older sister DID tell him I thought he was the hottest guy in school) my friend was standing with him and said "TIA! This is Josh" ANd I flipped bc she wasnt introducing but making obvious something was up. So I didnt know what to do and so I just walked over and told him he was the hottest guy in the whole school. Do you think I might have freaked him out or flattered him or anything? Because I definatly didnt want to do that it was just a more spur-of-the-moment thing and I cant believe I said it.

Of course, if he wasnt freaked out (aka if it would freak you guys out) then would you think now that I know him it would be okay to sort of try to become friends with him. I dont want a relationship or anything, just friendship. Or would that be ... awkward?

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE HELP. Really, I mean...this means so much. Usually I'm so shy and this was actually a huge milestone for me. Even if he would be freaked out, I still have a gained alot out of it and would never, ever take it away. Oh yeah, in case you were also wondering, we got a picture together to, like I said "Can I get a picture together" he said "yeah" and when I told him that he said "I do now!" (I had said "did you know you're the hottest guy in the school) Well, thats about it. Thanks guys! (link)
just be his friend im a boy and boys like all girls to be there friends so just be his friend


Warning this is going to be long. OK well I really need advice. Im 13-f and I have a boyfriend that I dont really like anymore but hes like crazy over me and I like these two other guys one is in my science class and hes really funny and he flirts somtimes and then the guy in my student council class is really nice and funny too. So what I want to know is how can I break up with my boyfriend if im really sensitive and who to pick of who I really like more so please help and please no mean coments like this doesnt make any sense or learn how to spell if I spelled anything wrong so someone please give me a serious answer!!! Thanx! (link)
tell him you heard he ws spreading rumors about u and u think you should just be friends


Lately I have been having thoughts of suicide. Like I used to have it once a month or once every two months, but now it's almost everyday. I even think about how I would do it, how it would feel, what I would say in my suicide note(I have even written one out), I think how my funeral would be and all, I like thinking about it. It gives me a thrill. I know this sounds sick and weird, but it's how I feel. Then there is another part of me that wants to live, that's trying so hard to fight back, but this other side of me is taking over so fast and Im afraid it will lead me somewhere I dont really want to do. I am seeing a therapist now, have told her everything, but Im just so scared it could be any day now. Just tonight my boyfriend was over and while he lay sleeping on the couch I got up and went into the kitchen and grabbed a bottle of pills, I think I would have done it but then I thought about him and reached into the drawer and cut myself to relieve myself from the anxiety and tension. After I cut I didn't want to commit suicide anymore and I felt better. Could someone try to explain what they thin kI might have? I am so depressed and so scared. (link)
dont commit suicide u have a boy friend and cutting yourself wuold hurt wouldnt it. i think u sound pretty cool

P.S. get rid of the fucking pills




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