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SORRY SO LONG BUT PLEASE READ♥
okay.. me and my ex b/f(eric) broke up a month ago.. and i have a new b/f(rj) now.. and he has a new g/f(rachel).. me and eric were going out for 3 years till we broke up.. so of course, im not quite over him.. i dunno what to do.. i tried talking to eric.. but it just aint working..he doesnt even wanna be my friend.. and im just going through a really rough time right now.. and imm always depressed.. can you give me some advice on how to get over him.. thanks
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u have a new boyfriend thats getting over him if u ask me
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Um....dont worry about him
everytime you see him be his friend but nothing more
NOTHING MORE!
signed-WULA
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i say you go out with friends to the mall or somthing and try to find someone else maby put away the memories for awhile till you no its ok and that your over him.
hope i helpd !
x0o natalie
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OMG, I had the same exact problem as you when I first broke up with my ex. Its been almost a year and I'm still not fully over him, (Like, I get jealous and stuff when he is with other girls).
Its really natural. It was REALLY hard for me at first. You'll probably experience withdrawls, lol. Sad but true. I didn't know if I was going to get through with it. The best thing to do is to just wait it out, go out with other people, and whatnot. You WILL get over him, trust me. You'll probably realize that he wasn't even good enough for you, anyways. And remember, usually people break up a lot so its not like you're weird or anything, its just you weren't meant to be.
Another good thing is having your friends help you through it. Friends are the best antidote for heartbreak! <3
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let him go, sweetie. involve yourself in rj's activities, make him pastries. he loves pastries. try to make him a delicious pleated cherry pie. no man can resist the deliciousness of pie. then sit back and empower yourself with his expressions of sheer pleasure.
-hitler
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People think that when theres a break up, going out with some1 else soon after will help them get over their ex. The truth is, you have to first deal with your feelings from 1 relationship, before moving on to another, and it doesnt sound like you have, and thats really not fair to your new bf.
Well first of all, if you expect to get over your ex, STOP TRYING TO TALK TO HIM!! Stop looking at him, stop talking about him, and stop thinking about him. It really does help!!
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you were together for a year..that's going to take some time to get over. make sure you really like your current boyfriend and he's not just a rebound..because that wouldn't be fair to him, but if you like and stuff..then that's great. just keep busy and don't worry about being friends with eric..if he doesn't want to be friends, then if you tried to be..it just wouldn't be any fun. eventually you might end up being friends again anyway..but don't waste your time trying to make a friendship work when you should first be trying to get over him.
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