Question Posted Thursday October 27 2005, 11:08 am
hey i have a boyfriend and he cheated on me 4 time i been with him for like a year and a half but i love him to death and the poeple he cheated on me with was my best friends and they dont talk to me anymore and yea they write whore and slut on my locker in school and they wanna jump me cause i am mad at them cause i though they were my friends but they are not anymore now they are getiing all my other friend not to like me and i think that is not good cause now i walk through school with no one to talk to i just wanna leave this LIBERTY HIGH SCHOOL... it sucks....PLEASE HELP ME WHAT SHOULD I DO..<33
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? AskmeNess7 answered Saturday October 29 2005, 1:11 am: First of all, if your boyfriend cheated on you four times it does not matter how much you love him break it off before it gets any further, Ive been there and im still dealing with the pain and if you keep holding on the pains going to be worst. I was in a 3 year relationship and its going to take longer for me to get over him then when I was with him. Second off, these girls obviously arent your friends, first they go behind your back and mess around with your boyfriend then they try to turn it around on you to make you feel guilty. Dont stoop down to their level, and dont let them intimate you. If your other friends turn on you then they are not real friends either. I say you stopp talking to all of them, who ever turned there back on you especially your friends and ur boyfriend. Show them that you dont care and you dont need them. Friends are by choice you dont need them remember that,and keep your head up always. [ AskmeNess7's advice column | Ask AskmeNess7 A Question ]
gamerz1991 answered Friday October 28 2005, 5:09 pm: thats sad =( talk with a school consular they will maybe punish your enemish friends...or just talk with em to stop doing that...life is rough =(
Miss_Jvl_2005 answered Friday October 28 2005, 1:31 pm: ok i hate to say this but your boyfriend doesnt care to much about you if he cheated on you 4 times especially with your friends!!Thats crazy if i was you i would get rid of the boyfriend i know its goin to be hard but he has done u so wrong and then i would make new friends and hopefully they'll stick by you and help u out some...hope this helped
your friend,
Jess [ Miss_Jvl_2005's advice column | Ask Miss_Jvl_2005 A Question ]
AlwAySz_h3r3_4_yOu answered Thursday October 27 2005, 4:06 pm: I would say, first. Break up with that bastard! If he has cheated on you 4 TIMES! that's way too much. and try talking to your "friends" after you break up with him. No one should treat you that way. Good Luck. <3 Allie x0x [ AlwAySz_h3r3_4_yOu's advice column | Ask AlwAySz_h3r3_4_yOu A Question ]
aquababe answered Thursday October 27 2005, 2:58 pm: okay, first i need to say:
your friends are assholes.
they cheated with your boyfriend and THEY'RE calling u a slut? as if. your just being loyal to your boyfriend, but honestly hun, he doesnt seem worth it. he's cheated on you 4 times with your friends, but wants you back cuz he knows you'll be waiting and if he ever needs someone you'll be there. which is not good--he needs to just love you for you. not think that your some wife at home while he goes out and has a good time. i would dump this guy, and get someone who cares for you even more. maybe join some club or sport you like and make some friends there. sorry your in such a rough situation, and i hope everything works out. [ aquababe's advice column | Ask aquababe A Question ]
Eva answered Thursday October 27 2005, 2:13 pm: Well,,, if these girls cheated with your boyfriend, that cant have been that good of friends. And if they are able to convince your other friends so easily.. the other friends must not be that good friends either.
I have to ask how much time are you spending with these friends... and are you still with this guy. I hope that you know that no guy is worth losing all your friends over.
If you ask me ... the guy is not worth it. If you want to save the friendships ... you might need to put alot more time and energy into it. Find a friend that you can really count on ... and you need to be the best friend you can be to this friend. This way you have someone to back you up. Girl friends are good back up.. You have to really take care of that. Once others see what a good friend you can be... your friendship possy will grow.
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