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my ex boyfriend
ok me and my ex b/f were dating for 17months when he started acting different so i asked him about it. He said that for the last few months he hasnt loved me the way i love him. he said that he only loves me as a friend so we both decided to be friends. the strange thing is that the next day he told me that he feels strange not haven me in his life like that. he asked me if he could still call me at nite and talk to me like we did when we 1st started dating. well he called me that nite and he wants to hang out like we were but not have the tittle as b/g friend. and i asked him what that meant and he wants to still lay together and just hang out with just us two and get to know eachother more then we already know eachother. and i asked him what if one of us starts to kiss the other or sumthing when we lay together and he said that if it happends it happends. he wants was to be close friends but i dont know what he means by that. please help me understand what he wants!!!! Thank you!
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Hey there! It sounds to me like this guy has major needs! he says he doesn't love you bu' he can't cope w/ being alone. He's probably having a hard time trying to understand his own feelings. Jus cross ur fingers, bu' don't get too close, guys usually do know what they want, so hope he's not toying w/ you!
well good luck and hope everything comes clearer soon!
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hun>he wants to be just friends w/benefits. No strings attached, so he can do whatever he wants, w/whoever he wants.
You 2 have been together for 17 mos. thats a long time. He misses it, because it used to be a habit having some1. Now things are different.
Its ok to be friends, but dont let things happen!!! Its not that easy to be friends right away, after youve been lovers for that period of time.
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You know... alot of guys have been wanting to try out this friends with benefits crap... I dont know if this is the case here but is that the kind of relationship you want to get into. Guys want to have their cake and eat it too. Nothing is at stake here. If you really like this guy and he has already told you that he doesnt love you in the same way that you love him, I would not let him get the benefits of your love.
When you love someone... your actions are the benefits of that love. If he doesnt appreciate those action enough to understand that you want to make them exclusive to the one who feels the same way about you... then is he worth it.
Good Luck,
Eva J
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