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my bestfriend is she leaving
my bestfriend and i have been friends for 2 years.well recently at school she ignores me or if l try talking to her she talks to someone else. when l asked her abt it she said we were still friends and that she was just being nice to the other girls but i dont believe it.do u guys think she is tired of being with me.confused im 15 and im a girl.
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ok i went through this last year and believe me it is hard...maybe she wants to meet other people and start hanging out with other people more...some people get tired of being with the same friends all the time...i think you should sit her down again and talk to her about it again and see what she says...if she says yall are still friends tell her how you feel about it and see what she tells you then...maybe yall should take some time apart and you should find some new friends but still talk to her!!hope this helps believe me its hard...i went through this for a month last year and i finally realized i needed to hang out with other people to and give other people a chance but i still talk to that girl just not all the time and when i have a problem or whatever we still go to each other hope this helps!!
your friend,
Jessica
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maybe she just needs some space...even if she did, this is a rude way to hint it. or maybe she was trying to be nice to the other girl (it really doesnt sound it the way you described it however)....
but i think you should sit down,and talk with her, one on one. not at school, where other people are around but by yourselves. if it has to be at school do it outside or in the bathroom, and just explain to her that you get why shes "being nice" to the other girl but you'd appreciate it if she could not totally cut you out of the picture either. if it turns out she does need space, just give it a couple days and try to hang out with some other friends you arent so close to. maybe you'll get a benefit and become closer to them and have more friends, so if your other friend does this again you wont feel so alone.
good luck
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Either way... she shouldnt be treating you this way. Ask her about being nice to you.
I have two daughters and they have had friends come and go. What happens is that they will begin to find that they have more in common with other girls so their old friendships seem to phase out... Later on ... they will end up going back to their old friends. You see, you can keep being friends even if you begin to find that you dont have that much in common. Maybe she is feeling that about the two of you, right now. The secret is to not get upset about this. Make new friends, while still keeping the old friends.
You might find that you have more in common with someone else. If you keep cool about it ... I will bet that in time, this friend will be looking you up again.
Eva J
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