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Flirtatious girl
Hey, I really need some advice..I hope you can help me.
so there is this girl in a few of my classes at school, and she is a total flirt..she always makes sexualized comments or does pilates in front of me or whatever, and I'm just like ok..CONTROL..lol. Last week we were filming a movie for Video Production class and she was wagging her tongue at me (the camera was on me, not her) so I completely messed up my line.. and then she was trying to hypnotize me and she was really close to me, and she was just pretty hard to resist. She flirts with me, but that doesn't mean anything, because she flirts with everybody pretty much.. and I'm pretty sure people have caught me checking out her ass during class.. I am a girl too, btw.
and just the past week I have started feeling some serious attraction to her.. I seriously can't stop thinking about her, and I can't focus on anything else when I'm in the same room as her.. which isn't that good if I'm in class, because she's a really big distraction to me. I don't know what to do, because the thing is she makes me really nervous and I get shy around her.. its weird cause usually I can flirt with people, but I can't even flirt with her because I'm so shy with her, especially when I'm alone with her.
I have NO idea what to do..she is driving me crazy...do you have any advice??
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ok this is a hard one to answer but im going to try. You need to ignore her as much as possible i know you have feelings for her and can't stop thinking about her. But you need to try and focus on something else because unless you both like each other and she likes you and you like her and you both want to be together forget it because theres a girl in my school and she told all the girls shes a lesbian and erm we kinda got scared incase she was attracted to one of us and we don't hang out with her that much... as much as we used to..So yeh say you to did get together people might not hang out with you anymore......
you might think what am i talking about but its TRUE....... people are like that... So you need to just focus on something else like your work.. and just say hi 2 her and bye and just play it kool see what happens. Hope i helped lv sweetcorn.....
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My main concern is this.
Is she doing all this to make fun of you? You know how cruel girls can be to each other.
If she thinks you like her I would keep that in mind. Especially if she isn't gay/bi herself.
If you don't believe that to be the case then its possible she is trying to get your attention.
Pretty successfully I might add!
If you like her ask her out. If you think she is looking to make fun in front of others, ignore her as best you can. :)
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I think befriending her first is a very good idea. Let her get to know you. :)
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