there is this one girl danielle i cant stop thinking about we used to be friends and went out but we broke up then we stoped hanging out for a while but then some guy hit her and i relized how much i still liked her so i went and beat him up pretty bad (concussion hospital) but that led to some consequences like got arrested suspended broken knuckle suspension from school lawsuit but i liked her in such i way i didnt care what happened and then we were real close for a while but one day she stoped talking to me and ignored me pretty much and i thought i was over her but then the other night i had a dream about her that made me relize i still had feelings for her i dont know what i should do i cant stop thinking about her
can some one please help me
14/m
You can keep telling yourself your over her, but you wont be until you stop thinking about her. Tell her how you feel. Dont push it in her face that you beat up the guy for her so now its her turn though, because that will only push her away further. It might be easier not to be her friend at all. You cant be friends with someone you have feelings for. its going to be hard but take it one step at a time.
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Lately, I have had no purpose. I don't join after school activities and I don't really like to do many things outside of school. I just saw this movie saved and it got me thinking about thing. I never really was that into religion. I mean my family never went to church and we basically never practiced. I just want to start being a better person and starting up things to help others. Does anyone have anyideas?
You should deff go to church. Not only on sundays. On Christmas, and other holidays they have food drives. you can either bring them food, or even take the food to the homeless with others. There are also after school activities you can do with a church. Just go to church and see when they have all the activities and other things.
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Hey well my parents are gettin a divorce and sense then i have had to put alot of things aside for myself. Like i love playin sports i have played basketball, soccer, v-ball, track, cross country i meen alot of sports and sense my parents are getting a divorce i have to watch my brother an sister alllll the time!! So i wasn't able to do stuff "sports" that i wanted to do and sense then i never get to do anything 4 me what should i do?? My parents don't even let me go out on weekends i feel like cinderella i work all day and night and never get thanked and my parents won't let me go out with my prince Charming!!
Well you have to understand that your parents are going through some things. This is probably just temporary. They let you do things"sports" and now its your turn to help your parents while they get evrything straightened up. Dont worry soon youll be able to do what you used to, but if it doesnt happen try to work something out with them. Ask them if you can have some time to hang with your friends until a a time they can deal with.
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my girlfriend and i have been going out for 4 months and we feel we are ready to make out. i need some tips to making out. im 14 and shes 13. when and where can we make out?
Please help me i need advice ans soon.
Theres no certain time to make out with your girlfriend. It will just happen and it doesnt matter where. Like I said it just happens you cant have a certain time or place.
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Hey all.
I got this hair curling mouse, and the thing is, I dunno how to use it. I tried 2 times to do 'something' but I ended up with my usual normal hair.
Can you tell me how to curl it?...
Thanks loads.
Kay
First of all, if you want curly hair, then just get a perm. It would be better if you went to a salon, but if not the directions are on the box. It is very easy. You can get your mom or one of your friends to do it. I hope I helped.
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heyy my name is cate and im 13 and i liek this kid named shaun and hes 13. He likes me too so we both liek each other. Well the last time i went out with him in 7th grade we didnt talk much cuz we were both shy. Then i had to go to cheerleading practice one night while there was a dance. He went to the dance and ended up making out with one of my best friends. We are all still friends though soo.. Anyways i liek him again and i wanna go out with him but i dont kow if i trust him enough. Recently i wen tot eh football game and met up with him there. We walked around around and we held hands and he pu his arm around me and it was really sweet. I wanna go out with him but how do i know he wont cheat on me again or just wanan go out with me to make out. He really nice and super hott. What should i do?
Xoxo
CatieZ
It doesnt matter how nice or hot he is, once a cheater always a cheater. I had to learn that the hard way, and now im stuck in pain. He might be sweet, but if you cheated on you once, theres a big chance that he'll do it again, you can find someone who you will be able to trust and still nice and hot at the same time, dont waste your time on someone you can not trust.
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ok well i really really really like this guy and i dont know if he likes me. i would love if you could give me some advice. ok well im really shy around guys i mean i have been rejected before and im not that kind of girl who will go up to a guy and be like hey want to go out sometime and that will just be like your really hot. i mean we kinda sorta talk on the bus and in between classes but were not bff's and so i really want to know what he thinks of me without having a friend tell and im scared im going to rejected again and i dont want that to happen ps im 13 and i also wont be like hey can i get your # type of thing i just really like him and i want him to like me i mean i flirt with him but i dunno i think hes shy too i dunno if he has an sn becuase i havent asked but im going to ask on monday so dont tell me to do that. anything will help just please help me!
Just keep conversating with him, try to get closer, but dont look to into him because it will chase him away. While your talking to him bring up the subject of his phone number. Maybe one day you can plan for you and your friends to go the movies, and you can ask him if he wants to go or even ask one of your friends to ask him and his friends to go. Maybe sit next to him at the movies, and just get close. I hope I helped...
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what are some well-known teen poetry magazines that I can submit my poems to? Can anybody give me a website or something?
Ill rate high.
Thanks.
Poetry.com is a good website. I write poetry also, and you can join contest, and just have your poetry on the website, you can also go on yahoo, they have other good websites, but out of all poetry.com is the best.
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What do you say when a guy asks you out. I'm only thirteen, so things don't come naturally. Do you just say "yes"? But that sounds like when someone asks you to marry them!! I think too much about simple things. CAn someone help mee?!?! Don't call me dumb please because you're just stating the obvious!
I'll rate honestly.
Your deff not dumb, everyone goes through it at some part of time. If you like the person, then say yes, yes doesnt mean your going to get married it means you feel the same as the person, and you want to start a real reltionship. Yes does sound kind of funny now that I think of it, but it shows the person that you dont play games. I hope I helped...
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okay, so i like a guy and i think he likes me back. the only problem is that there's this girl at my school who's his ex-girlfriend and they've been though a lot, and also just recently broken up. the girl isn't really my friend, but sort of a "friend of a friend". so i don't know whether to keep liking the guy, or to forget about it because he might be "off-limits". i'm really confused, please help!
[i give 5's for good answers, thanks]
by the way, i'm in junior high.
I think you should give it a chance, but don't get to attached because if they been through alot he might want her back. I understand how it feels, and not know if hes off limits or not, but they must of broke up for a reason. Start talking to him, dont let the ex come between you and his relationship.
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welll this is kind-of like, comfusing.
Last night i went on a hayride with about 11 friends.. and my friend A brought her boyfriend.. and he brought a friend with him.. and he looked lonely so me and my friend D were always going over to talk to him.. and then they kept telling me to give him a hug but i kinda shyed away because i just met him.. so D gave him a hug and he looked at me while he was hugging her and then on the actual ride (that was all standing in line) i sat on the end and D was next to me, him next to her, and a girl next to him, and we gave him some of the blanket we brought.. and then we switched so i was sitting next to him and when i was scared D dared me to hide my face on his shoulder so i did and he smiled down at me and stuff and then he wouldnt laugh so I made him laugh by making a joke about something and stuff. and then while me and D were waiting to get picked up she was like "I think he liked you because in line he kept looking at you with the 'Oh she's cute' look. And he smiled at you when you dug her face into his shoulder."
what do you think?
I think he likes you. He was just to shy to say anything. Get his number, maybe chill with him. If you feel a connection you should deff go for it. Yo0u never know, he could be the one you always looked for, but you will never know if you dont try.
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ok so i am 14/f and i just started high school. at my old school i had a lot of friends but they went to another school. I have some friends that went to the same high school as me but i dont really know them that well; they're not close to me. and so i found a group of friends who i hang out with and they're really nice, except i want to be popular. and here's the thing i know some of the popular kids and i talk to them and everything. and last night was the dance and i figured i would dance with the popular kids but i ended up dancing with my new group of friends. i had a great time! so here's my question..last night i didnt even want to go dance with the popular kids and normally at school i try to talk and be with them. do you guys think that i should hang out with the popular kids or my other group of friends that i just made?? thanx
Thats how I was when I was in like 7th grade. Who cares what they think, just because they are "popular" doesnt mean there cool. Your new group of friends excepted you for who you are, not if you were popular or not. Hope I helped some...
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i have alot of stress right now and i feel like im going to lose my mind. what should i do to keep myself sane fora while until things calm down?
What I usually do when I get stressed is write poetry. It doesnt have to rhyme, just write whatever your feeling and it relieves you. You can also talk to friends, sometimes my friends cheer me up. Just try not to thinka bout the stress, its only going to get you more stressed, which is not good at all. reading can also help. Sometimes I read love stories and its gets my mind away from everyone for a while.
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I'm 14/f and I'm a virgin. I have only kissed and had a guy feel up my shirt. Recently I have found little white bumps 'down there' and I don't know what they are. It's starting to worry me. It kind of hurts but not really. I sort of look like a white head. The kind you can't pop. Of course I didnt try popping it. I had one between my thigh and it went away. Now I have 1 around my womb and my vagina part. I don't know what to do :-( ... help plz
Well, maybe its just a rash or razor burn, im not saying its impossible but if you never had sex or oral sex, its less likely to be an infection. If it guess worse you should get it checked out, but for now you should show your mother, if you dont want to show her, then just keep checking on it, im sure its nothing, but make sure that you tell your mom if you see it changing.
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My best friend and i got into a fight. a really bad fight. one when we don't talk to each other for a month. my mom knos about the problem. now my x best calls and apologizes. we have gotten into so many fights i can't even count. so i told her we would talk a bout it in the morning. i don't want my mom to think we are friends because she don't like her. i don't like her. but i don't want to be mean or be enemies wat should i do?????????
Just tell her the truth, tell her that your not trying to be mean but youd rather not be friends with her anymore, all use do is fight, and youd rather not talk anymore it would make everyones life much easier.
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okay well i was going to ask this boy out on the computer...i RLY like him and ppl say he rly likes me and it looks like it because all he does is flirt with me and only me but when i ask someone to ask him if he likes me...he'll say no! the other day i asked my friend chelsey at my other friends party to tell him he should go out with me and he said no!!! and then on the computer a few weeks ago chelsey asked him if he would ever go out with me and he said he didnt know...now is he just doing this because he doesnt want to admit that he'll like me? i rly like him and EVERYONE says he likes me and some of his friends even told me he said he liked me but why is he doing this if he does!? should i just ask him out and get on with my life if he doesnt!? please help...ill rate 5's for any advice unless its mean
Dont send your friends up to him, even one of your friends. That deff makes boys nervous and mad. Just be truthful to him. Tell him to be honest with you. before you ask him out, talk to him either on the phone or in person, tell him you like him, and ask him if he feels the same way. If he doesnt then dont waste your time. even if he does like you and hes shy, hes playing to many baby games and you dont want to be with him anyway, if he does, ask him out or hint him to ask you out. JUst be straight with him before its to late.
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hi, my whole family is splitting up. my mom left me to go live wit her boyfriend in florida. my brother left to go to college to play football my sister got married moved away and my little brother lives with my dad. i dont really have much in my life i been through so much shit and i dont know what to do about it. i havnt seen my mom in about 8 months and i dont k now wat to do, i dont know where i should live who i should keep in touch with i am juss really confused and i need help everything is going wrong
Its hard not having anyone you can talk to, but remember you have friends, and I think you have this great friend Vanessa who will always be there for you. Seriously life gets better, youll be lonely for o so long until you realize you need no one but you and your friends.
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ok, im a 16 y/o guy, and i've never had a health class (reason i'm asking.) What are some signs that a girl IS NOT pregnant? like, is her period not the same? my girlfriend is 15, and we dunno. we had sex about 3 weeks ago, and we were woried about it. she's on her period right now, but does that mean she is FOR SURE NOT PREGNATE
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That doesn't mean shes not pregnant. A girl can get her period and still be pregnant. You will not be able to tell untill a little longer, but if she doesnt get her period next month and she gets dizzy and nausous, she should deff go get checked out...
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okay well like my friend (lets call her Kelly), well i though kelly was my best friend, and she was for a few years, but she knew other people in this other town and started hanging out there ALL the time and met this girl (lets call her linda) and linda and kelly became like BEST FRIENDS .. and now kelly barely like wants to hang out with me and like when i ask kelly to hang out she avoids the subject and then a day later i find out she avoided the subject cuz she already had plans with linda.
but sometimes i ask her to hang out first before she has any plans but then linda asks her to hang out AFTER i asked her and she said to me .. "sorry i cant go" and she hung out wit linda.
and now i have no plans for halloween this year cuz i got in a fight with my other bestfriend and now kelly is spending halloween with linda.
no one cares about my feelings and people push me around and i have no confidence and i cant really stand up for myself so i just kinda let people walk all over me.
The same thing is happening with my friend. I just dont understand how everyone can just hang out together. Shes not a true friend if she was she would not ditch plans with you to hang out with her. Tell her, and dont ask her, but tell her that its not right, your not makin her choose but its messed up how she doesnt hang with you nymore, you can have more then one best friend. If she doesnt care then drop her you dont need anyone like that anyway...
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Hi, Me and my girlfriend where together for 2 and a half years we broke up and couple days later she went out with a guy she works with. She said they only went out 2 times. Well we got back together things seemed cool. Then i got a funny feeling like something was wrong. She was "talking" and only "kissed" the guy but things were still going on she admitted it and said it was over with them. Well she has been deleting her cell phone history daily. She admitted to me today that they talk on the cell phone but she claims nothing is going on! Do you think she is still cheating? Also do you think it's right for her to go and talk to the guy after all that has happened! She tells me there is nothing between them now and they only talk on the phone! She tells me what's wrong with them being friends.
Obviously shes confused. She still wants to be with him, and wants to be with you. Break it off with her. You can find so much better. I can tell you really like/love her, but she obviously doesnt care about your feelings. I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and the whole time I was being played, he did the same thingg, and I ended up with nothingg but a broken heart at the end. Just tell her that your not going to be with someone you cant trust, or who doesnt wanna be with you. trust me, you dont need anyone whos going to play games with your heart. hhope i helped...
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