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ok so i am 14/f and i just started high school. at my old school i had a lot of friends but they went to another school. I have some friends that went to the same high school as me but i dont really know them that well; they're not close to me. and so i found a group of friends who i hang out with and they're really nice, except i want to be popular. and here's the thing i know some of the popular kids and i talk to them and everything. and last night was the dance and i figured i would dance with the popular kids but i ended up dancing with my new group of friends. i had a great time! so here's my question..last night i didnt even want to go dance with the popular kids and normally at school i try to talk and be with them. do you guys think that i should hang out with the popular kids or my other group of friends that i just made?? thanx
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Trying to be popular is so exhausting and also being cool shouldn't have to be work. If that crowd calls you and wants to hang out, great. If the other group does and wants to hang out and you have fun with them, great too. Bottom line the key to real popularity is being friendly and well liked by the most people. stay on this path, you'll probably be prom or homecoming queen in a couple of years.
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which do you like more??
hang out with who ever u want to.
dont just hang out with the popular kids because theyre popular tho.
kinda short. but hope it helps.
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Thats how I was when I was in like 7th grade. Who cares what they think, just because they are "popular" doesnt mean there cool. Your new group of friends excepted you for who you are, not if you were popular or not. Hope I helped some...
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the answer to this question is so obvious, it makes me wanna cry...hang with the people you like! it doesn't matter if your popular~ im not popular, and i really don't wanna be! i love all my friends, and i want to spend time with them! so, if you want to spend time with the nice unpopular people, do it! hope i helped! ♥
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I think you should hang out with the friends you just meet. Then eventually you will get noticed by the popular kids because you have alot of friends.
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I'm surprised these questions are still getting asked. I hate when people want to be popular. Why can't you just be yourself and stop trying to fit in with people who are nothing like you? I'm not trying to sound ignorant or mean, so please understand that. To me, it seems like you had so much more fun with your new friends than the popular kids. If you do start hanging out with them you probablly won't act like yourself. The popular kids are normal just like everyone else. They might be more socialized, confident or whatever but everyone is the same. You shouldn't be wasting your time deciding who you want to be friends. You should be thankful that you have friends and that people accept you. I'm not saying you can't do whatever you want, but you can also have more than one group of friends. Talk to both.
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