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Question Posted Thursday October 27 2005, 4:51 pm

I'm 14/f and I'm a virgin. I have only kissed and had a guy feel up my shirt. Recently I have found little white bumps 'down there' and I don't know what they are. It's starting to worry me. It kind of hurts but not really. I sort of look like a white head. The kind you can't pop. Of course I didnt try popping it. I had one between my thigh and it went away. Now I have 1 around my womb and my vagina part. I don't know what to do :-( ... help plz

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AskmeNess7 answered Saturday October 29 2005, 11:36 pm:
Well, maybe its just a rash or razor burn, im not saying its impossible but if you never had sex or oral sex, its less likely to be an infection. If it guess worse you should get it checked out, but for now you should show your mother, if you dont want to show her, then just keep checking on it, im sure its nothing, but make sure that you tell your mom if you see it changing.

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askmee04 answered Saturday October 29 2005, 10:11 pm:
well it cant be anything that bad, if you are a virgin you have nothing really to worry about. there are alot of different things it could be. you should tell your mom even though it might be imbarassing and go to a doctor they will tell u what it is

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protossc542 answered Saturday October 29 2005, 5:43 am:
give it a few days. If it isnt gone, then you should talk to your mother.

It isnt an STD. All STDs contracted by you downstairs require direct contact. Since you've never let a guy get between your legs, its not anything you have to hide from your parents, as there is not a chance in hell of it being any kind of a result of you fooling around with a guy.

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Jessica13 answered Friday October 28 2005, 9:47 pm:
ok it sounds like it could be to things

1. Shingles if it is Shingles then don't worrie as much but if it doesn't go away in like a week then tell someone about it becasue you might have to go to the doctors

2. Herpies this can be passed by kissing so and if it is Herpies you need to go see the doctor now tell your mom about it or someone that you can trust now you can go to the school counsiler if you trust her and ask her aobut it

but if it is Herpies i would do something but wait a week and if it goes away then it was just Shingles

well I hope I helped

From Jessica

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dreamingkat answered Friday October 28 2005, 8:56 pm:
They could be white heads - women do get one or two "down there" (on your vulva) now and then. Or ingrown hairs (especially if you started shaving the area recently). Or some sort of dry skin condition or allergic reaction (especially if you changed soaps or laundry detergent recently). Or a wart. While genital warts are sometimes listed as STDs/STIs they really aren't. The vast majority of Americans have had them at some point in their life.

Show them to your mom or another trusted adult. If you can get a doctors appointment, that's probably the best thing. Not because I think you've got a problem that needs a doctor to take care of it, but because I think you'll feel a lot better if the doctor looks and tells you for sure. :)

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hailebop answered Friday October 28 2005, 3:39 pm:
I second pinky's advice - you do not have an STD if you haven't had any direct sexual contact. The most likely explanation is that it's an ingrown hair - just a folicle that's got slightly infected. Just keep the area clean and try not to aggravate it. If you are still concerned or it doesn't go away, show a doctor, but really, it doesn't sound like there's any need to worry.

I'd also recommend visiting [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) - it's an excellent online women's community where you can post this kind of question and get really good advice from other women who've been through similar things, which is really reassuring. All the best, and try not to worry.

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Friday October 28 2005, 3:26 am:
hmmm a white head that you can't pop... kinda sounds like a wart to me... it's best to go see a doctor so you can be diagnosed & put on the proper medication

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angelndisguys answered Friday October 28 2005, 12:39 am:
Its probaly nothing to worry about. Women get bumps and things down there all the time and its not always an STD or something. My best advice is for you to show it to you doctor next time you go. I know that can be intimadating but just mention it casually and see what he/she tells you. If you've never been sexually active oral, anal or otherwise then its probaly nothing. Hope that helps!!

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Thursday October 27 2005, 5:39 pm:
Please, for the sake of you freaking out, do not listen to iiluvpiink15. (First person to answer)


This person clearly does not know what they are talking about.


You CANNOT get an STD unless you have sexual contact of some sort with a person infected with the disease.


1) You don't have a womb. You aren't pregnant. And a womb is on the inside of you, not the outside. So you mean you have one on your stomach near your bikini line?

2) You have only been kissed and felt up. It is close to impossible to contract an STD from that. If the guy(s) you kissed had their face in a girls vagina, they could have contracted some sort of STD from her. But it wouldn't be showing up in your "no no zone". You'd get it on your mouth.

3) Odds are they are just pimples or ingrown hairs. Do you shave yourself down there? Because if you do, the odds of it being an ingrown hair are even greater. But, it could still be just an ingrown hair or a pimple. Nothing to worry about.

4) Stop worrying. There is NOTHING wrong with you. It is NOT an STD. Just keep yourself clean down there. Use soap a nd water and a washcloth. Or, you could even buy yourself baby wipes to keep yourself clean there.

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iiluvpiink15 answered Thursday October 27 2005, 5:12 pm:
hey ok well i dont want to scare you but you MIGHT have std's. becuase from what i heard is that if he had a tiny cut in his mouth and he kissed you or you kissed him that could cause an std.(becuase the germs that he might have gotten from another girl and she might have had std;s and she never knew and when he had sex or kissed her he got it mabey) but to know for sure you might want to go see a doctor and they will tell you for sure, but if i were you i would so give it a try and i hope everything works out for you. Good Luck!!!
hope i helped
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Christin

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