okay, so i like a guy and i think he likes me back. the only problem is that there's this girl at my school who's his ex-girlfriend and they've been though a lot, and also just recently broken up. the girl isn't really my friend, but sort of a "friend of a friend". so i don't know whether to keep liking the guy, or to forget about it because he might be "off-limits". i'm really confused, please help!
[i give 5's for good answers, thanks]
by the way, i'm in junior high.
sillyrob answered Friday October 28 2005, 4:03 pm: I don't think there should really be an off-limits. Especially for a friend of a friend. If she doesn't like it, she can fuck off. She had her chance, they broke up, they're done. Go for it. [ sillyrob's advice column | Ask sillyrob A Question ]
Miss_Jvl_2005 answered Friday October 28 2005, 3:44 pm: ok i think you should talk to this guy and see if he still cares for his ex...if not then go for it but if he does then just be friends with him for a while and see how things go in the future
your friend,
Jess [ Miss_Jvl_2005's advice column | Ask Miss_Jvl_2005 A Question ]
ALWAYSx0xAM0R0US answered Friday October 28 2005, 3:44 pm: First, good for you for finding someone you like and he also likes you back.
Remember now, he does not belong to anyone at the moment. And I understand that they have been through alot, so maybe she may feel jealous or replaced. TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT. Ask him if he feels the same way also. Don't give up on something that could be good for you.
NinaB answered Friday October 28 2005, 3:25 pm: You can't really help if you like him, and its alright if you keep on! You just need to wait a little bit before trying to pursue an actual relationship. Considering they had put eachother through alot and just recently broken up, he needs time to get himself together again. For the time being get to know him even better and be there for him (: [ NinaB's advice column | Ask NinaB A Question ]
iiluvpiink15 answered Friday October 28 2005, 2:59 pm: ok well mabey you could ask her if she cares. I mean im sure that she wont care if you go out with him or like him becuase there over right! well just give it a try just wait a little for her to get over her recent break-up and ask her again. hope i helped, if you need anymore help just ask!!
♥♥♥♥♥Christin [ iiluvpiink15's advice column | Ask iiluvpiink15 A Question ]
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