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asking him out
okay well i was going to ask this boy out on the computer...i RLY like him and ppl say he rly likes me and it looks like it because all he does is flirt with me and only me but when i ask someone to ask him if he likes me...he'll say no! the other day i asked my friend chelsey at my other friends party to tell him he should go out with me and he said no!!! and then on the computer a few weeks ago chelsey asked him if he would ever go out with me and he said he didnt know...now is he just doing this because he doesnt want to admit that he'll like me? i rly like him and EVERYONE says he likes me and some of his friends even told me he said he liked me but why is he doing this if he does!? should i just ask him out and get on with my life if he doesnt!? please help...ill rate 5's for any advice unless its mean
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don't ask him out cause he's about to break your heart...let him make the first move if your not sure
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Dont send your friends up to him, even one of your friends. That deff makes boys nervous and mad. Just be truthful to him. Tell him to be honest with you. before you ask him out, talk to him either on the phone or in person, tell him you like him, and ask him if he feels the same way. If he doesnt then dont waste your time. even if he does like you and hes shy, hes playing to many baby games and you dont want to be with him anyway, if he does, ask him out or hint him to ask you out. JUst be straight with him before its to late.
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He's probably answering differently everytime because your friends are asking him. Ask him in person if he likes you.
♥ Melissa
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I think that he likes you. If you ask him oput you willl finally know whether or not he likes you. If you dont you will just wonder if he likes you or not and it will eventually drive you crazy lol. I think that he is afraid to tell you because he is afraid of that if you dont like him then he will be upset. The best thing is to take a chance.
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Ya i think you should ask him out! because it sounds like he likes you its just fear of rejection! you know how guys are if they think youll turn them down they idmeatly say wich is super gay.. soo just ask him out theres a 95% chance you'll get a yes!
Lots a Luck
Blur
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Be patient with him. He's really shy. What I suggest you do is start becoming his friend. Start talking to him at parties and start hanging out with him. Whenever you see him someplace, like school or the mall, say hi and work on being his friend first. If you get that uncomfortable feeling when you do this at first just make the contacts short ones. This will help him to feel comfortable with you and it will be easier for him, then, to ask you out. If you go ahead and ask him out it might take him off guard and he might say no because that is just what came out of his mouth at the time, not because he meant it. But, it will already be said. Relax and have fun...it will work out.
LULABELLE
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Dear Asking him out,
So the only reason you think he likes you is because EVERYONE tells you that he says he does, Right? Yet he won't admit it to anyone. Let me pass on some advice my dad once gave me in a similar situation: Believe only part of what you hear, part of what you read and half of what you see. Get to the bottom of this by simply asking the boy if the rumors are true. Go to the source, quit beating around the bush. If he likes you and you like him then you are just waisting time that you could be using to get to know each other. If he denies the rumor then you know EVERYONE was just messing with your head. Quit having other people ask him questions, maybe he is saying no because you are sending other people to do your deeds. Just talk to him and above all stay honest. I hope I helped you. Happy Halloween :)
Sincerely,
Honestymatters
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