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Hey Melissa! Do you have any ideas on where I could have my 14'th birthday?

I was thinking about Lazor tag, but that's in Illinois and I live in Missouri.

Anyways, I can't have a house party, too cold to do anything outside. I just want somewhere fun and I was thinking of just having like 5-6 people.

Thanks!! ♥ ♥

Hey!! UMM, maybe a bowling alley, a skating ring, or maybe you could just watch a movie at the movies!! :)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!
Hope its fun!!!
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This isnt a real love life kinda question but like ive heard that chewing gum actually makes your breathe stink? is that true?

No... thast why its minty.......

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I know this is a stupid question. But can someone explain to me what a " queer " is ? Im so confused about it. I'll rate if you want me to

Queer is another word for gay.

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does anyone know where you can go online to listen to music... (the whole songs not samples) without having to download anything...
easy 5's for help

Here are some:
http://www.cdzinc.com
http://music.yahoo.com/

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is it unusual for a guy to like 2 girls.

Nope. I've liked maybe 5 guys at once, lmao!
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what is a good site to get music for free? i only have real player, not windows media.

Limewire works good! http://limewire.com

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can you have sex while your pregnent?(serious question, no smart answers please.) all fives.

Yupp.

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Hello everyone!
I was looking in the section "Browse Columnists" of course, to browse columnists! I notice the dark blue stars that made the stars seem all full. But i see people with 8 stars and they have like 1 or 2 of the stars gold? How come? And why do they have soo many stars when the "original" columnists have like 5 or 4 and its all filled with blue stars.

(and by blue stars i mean DARK BLUE..not the light blue but the dark ones that means they got it filled up)

Thank you VERY much if you help me!! ♥

The dark blue stars are your rating. Like it fills up the gray stars from 1 full star to 5 stars. And the gold star means you have a paid account.

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Ok. This might sound kind of wierd, but here goes. When I go to use the bathroom and I pull down my underwear, there's this nasty, sticky, white, creamy looking stuff in there. It doesn't like cover the whole bottom of my underwear, it's only like a little bit. I'm not sexually active, so it couldn't be from that. What is this? Why does this happen all the time? I rate 5's on good answers!!!

LOL, ITS PERFECTLY NORMAL!! Discharge! You get discharge when you're about to get your period and while you have your period. So if you dont already have your period, its coming! Hooray!
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Toodles.
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First of all, you are really pretty. Second of all, I was wondering how you would get a guy to notice you. I really really like this guy named Peter and we like talk to eachother and stuff, but I like LOVE him. He kind of ignors me when he's around his friends. How would I get him to REALLY notice me without going ALL OUT (if you know what I mean)?

Aw, okay thanks. To get a guy to notice you you should flirt with him. Maybe smile at him often, twirl your hair in front of him, bite your lips in front of him, and hug him. But before that you should become really good friends with him so that you have a good friendship. Then try to hang out with him more often. After a while make your move!!

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what does it mean WHEN A GIRL SMILES AT ME? when we're walking past each other, and we make eye contact, and she gives me that little smile, you all know the one. does it mean:

1. she thinks i'm cute
2. she thinks i'm hott
3. she wants to talk to me
4. she wants to kiss me
5. she wants to do dirty things to me
6. other

come on ladies, i need to know what you're thinking. i have a pic on my profile, if it helps. (i think it will).

I think its 1#!! :D
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Ok this could be long! I am in 8th grade and last year there was a kid in my class. EvEryone made fun of him and he was bipolar and had some mental problems. Well, yesterday 11/3. He attempted suicude for the second time. He jumped from the bak of a moving school bus and he is now in acoma. He broke his arm and probably his bak and neck too. He isn't dead though. ThEre was BLooD everywhere. The first time he tried to stab himself with scissors. I feel really bad because I was one to make fun of him. How can i make myself not feel so bad? ALl my freinds say im different since but im really scared for the kid. He seems like he could be nice. Plese help will rate. _-HeArtbreaker-__

OMG i feel so sorry for the kid!! There isnt much you can do. Hes bipolar. Its really hard to control your anger if you're bipolar. Go see him in the hospital and tell him you're really sorry for making fun of him, and that you will never do it again. Try to stand up for him whenever someone is making fun of him. It might make him feel better!

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I have a question that may sound strange, but tis a genuine question. I live in the UK, and I know nobody who supports George Bush, or even has a good word to say about him. He is generally a figure of hate. But I don't want to be close-minded, I just want a reasonably intelligent answer from somebody as to why they voted for George Bush, because I cannot see any good points to the guy at all.
Thanks!

Nobody that i know of voted for bush. Hes bullcrap!! I cant see anything good about him either!! He's fuckin gay, and i hope he loses the next election!!

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can looking at porn give your computer viruses?what are some good porn sites and how do i erase the website memory

Hey,
downloading porn can give you a virus! But i dont know how to delete website history or any "good" :D porn websites.

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Sorry it's sooo long but I really need help

ok I got a 65 on my social studies test last friday. I got it back on monday to get signed. Well it was Halloween on monday so I forgot to get it signed that night. The next morning before I went to school I told my mom about it. My mom told my dad and my dad totally flipped out on me. He told me that I couldn't go on any of the computers in my house cause I go on and talk to people a lot.(I'm grounded pretty much but I still go on.)I told him that half my class did bad and other classes and people had lower grades than me. So a day or two after my sis comes home with a 68 3 points higher than mine in bio.(almost all of her class did bad she says) My dad doesnt even yell at her. Yet my sister doesnt get in trouble and she is always doing her homework with the tv on which I'm not allowd to do. She also does homework with her ipod mini on. I flipped out on my mom the other night when she was sick because she told me that I shouldnt be IMing people. Mys sister is always making fun of me and telling me I should do this or that better(I'm the youngest) The other day my sister comes in the room while I'm doing homework and starts going through my candy for halloween and asking me if she can have like everything that she can eat. I told her go eat your own candy and she says I barely got any candy and I couldnt eat half of it(shes allergic to nuts) and I told her well thats not my fault. My parents are always making me do chores and not her. They are always buying her candy and crap. They always play favorites and I'm not gonna take any of this shit anymore. My annoying bratty nosey sister and my yelling parents I can't take it. I just want to run away I want my sister to get out of my life but we have to share a fucking room.
What can I do about my parents playing favorites?
I want to tell my dad that its not fair but he hates that. What can I do? Please help!!!!!

f/13

I believe you and all but i think you're over reacting. Your parents probably expect more from you. So in a way, its a good thing. For example if you get a bad grade they're suprised but if your sister does they probably get used to very bad grades from her. Dont be afraid to ask your parents why your sister doesnt get punished for bad grades (in a calm voice, no yelling :D)

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when you have sex and your pregnant and you have it unprotected..
is there a chance of like getting twins or something??
like you know you have the chance of getting pregnant when a guy gets in you
but when you're pregnant and a guy gets in you is there a chance of getting pregnant again??

stupid question...

Nope. :D

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Same guy here from the "Romantic or Creepy?!" Topic earlier,

LadyGoodman mentioned that she would find it creepy if she made it very clear that she wasn't interested before.
My question is WHEN does a women actually make it very clear that she's not interested,
I mean when they are interested, they play hard to get or they are nice, they're not interested they are nice or they do what, to me, looks like playing hard to get...
Personally I would only take it as very clear when she literally tell's me not to bother her again, or to F%$#-off, and I'd be happy to hear the plain and simple truth, but women have NEVER done that to me, they just keep me on a line till I just stop calling them.

I have kissed this specific girl on at least five seperate occations, I've seen her jeolous at least once, and she has been playing hard to get practically the whole time.
I am as sure that she likes me as I can get, but then again, she's not awnsering her phone at the moment... in fact she turned off her cell, I'll still give her time tho.

Please girls, help a dumbass out, how or when are you saying "not interested"?

If a girl doesn't like you she will not do what you want her to. Example if you want to kiss a girl and she backs out, she not intrested. Simple as That. I helped a dumbass out!! :D

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i am 15 and boobs are very small what are the best things to us to stuff a bra like not buying one thats stuffed just what can i use thanks i rate high

Eww, dont stuff your bra, people will notice!! Wear a padded bra (not to padded), or a push up bra! Works like a charm :D

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im a boy in 8th grade and i am getting f's in l.a. lit and math and report cards are coming out tommarow friday and i wanted to know if any one could give me advice on how to show my parents my report card with them tearing my head off

thanks
mike

Say "Uhh mommy i tried hard and i tried my best. Its really hard though. Next report card ill try even harder." Lol. Works.

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Toodles.

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hey

i was wondering how old do u have to be to get into a rated R movie..and if your to young all you need is your parents permission right??

thanks in advance!

You have to be 17 but if your younger sometimes they'll let you in, sometimes you need to have a parent with you. Depends on what theatre.

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