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I'm a girl, I have really dark brown hair and green/gray eyes. I'm 5' 3 inches tall, and I have a brother and a sister. My favorite kind of music is rock, and i love to watch TV and read. My favorite online game is FFR.
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Her name is Allison, and she is AMAZING. I would ask her out, but I have one problem. I'm shy. What do I do to get over it? (link)
just talk to her, joke around and get to know her. then flirt a little. my advice is just go for it. the only way to conquer your fears is to confront them. and feel free to drop anything in my mailbox anytime.
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ok, im 13/f and i kno everyone has upper lip hair, but mine is starting to get a little more noticable and i was wondering whats the best way to get rid of it? i dont want to wax, if u even can, so dont say that. I have this little grooming razor thingy so would that work? thanks danielle (link)
you could bleach the hair on your upper lip, or you could pluck the more noticable ones


sry this might be long but i need help..i'll rate all 5's to anyone who helps and isnt smart about it.

i've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now. and really the only reason we went out was because i really liked him. and he kinda liked me. well lately he's been annoying.

he said he wanted to get together last weekend so i told him to call me and mayb he could come over, and he never called. and its not that he didnt come over that bugs me its the fact that HE said he wanted to do something with me. and blew me off.

any ideas on what to do here?
i've talked to him about it..and currently i probably said 5 words to him the whole day at school. so we're kinda "not talking"

thanks in advance! (link)
the way i see it is you can do better. i would be ticked if my boyfriend said he wanted to do something, and then he didnt say or do anything to make it happen. if he only kinda likes you then i dont think he is the best person for you. everyone deserves someone who will like them more than just a little.


My boyfriend just called me after he got back from hunting (we also talked at 5 AM this morning) and something was wrong so I asked him what it was and he said he had just had to shoot his dog. Because his dad ran over him with the truck (accidentally) and he had a broken back. You can tell my boyfriend is really upset, and I wanna say something to make him feel better if he's still appears upset about it later. He told me about it when he called then said he was going to go to bed (tired from hunting all morning.)

Any advice? I WILL RATE! (link)
thats really sad about your boyfriend's dog. maybe the best thing you can do is to just let him know that you are there for him and that as much as it hurts to lose his dog that he will always have people there for him.


How can you tell if a guy likes you at school. Anyone who says "this isnt a dating service" will be given an automatic 1. But pleaz answer. (link)
joke around with him
talk to him
see how he responds to that
if its good then flirt a little
if its bad then keep talkin and jokin


ok the guy i like Garrett he's ttly not shy or a jerk or anything. I know him very well.I can't stop thinking about him and i liked him since 4th grade. right now im in 7th. most people have been telling me to forget him or ask him out (thing is my friends already asked him out for me Answer was *no*) He nows i like him and on the inside i think he likes me to. I know i might be struck by love lightening but im still in reality.PLEASE HELP!!!! I need to hang out with him more!!! *~*Karlie*~* (link)
lay low for a little while just tlak and joke a little, then maybe flirt and test the waters, if he responds then maybe you should ask him out


how can you reduce the redness out of a pimple overnight?
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use toothpaste to shrink the pimple
and use eyedrops to take the red out( like Visine)


I'm 15/f.
Usually a couple days before I start my period, I get this feeling like I really want to beat someone up that I hate. Lol, it's really weird. I'm not psycho or anything. I'm a really really happy person usually, and I'm super nice. It's just like 5 days or so before I start my period I just want to beat someone up. Is this normal? Does anyone else feel like this? (link)
it's just pms, sometimes the day before i get my period i start screaming at people because i am so stressed.


ok well,just like..2 weeks ago i saw yellowish white faintly in my underwear,but im not sure if its dischagre or if i really had to go to the bath room..i cant feel anything come out so..how do i really for sure know? and also,my mom got it when she was 13,my sister 14..so will i get it at 15? how long does discharge last untill you actually get your period? (link)
i think the discharge thing is different for everybody. but girls can get their period between the ages of 10 and 16 or 17. if you can't feel anything coming out its probably discharge.


ok there is this guy. i talk to him on the phone every night. i really like him and i know he likes me too cause he said it to me on the phone yesterday. i had a secret i wanted to tell him which was that i liked him. he was trying to get the secret out of me for days. and everytime he would always say "you only have one life to live, so live it to the best," cause he didnt want me to be afraid of telling him the secret. so i told him and hes like, "well i like you too...where do we go from here?" and i said i dont know and there was silence for about 4 seconds lol. then he kinda chnaged the subject and after a while his mom was yelling at him to get off so we had to hang up. i can't help thinking about that "one life to live" thing though. should i ask him out? the only problem is that he isn't really allowd to talk to girls. he told me that if his mom answered then to pretend that he had the wrong number or just pretend to be a guy lol. but if his dad answered then it was ok. so i dont really know what to do. does this mean he won't ask me out? i really really really like him and i really want to go out on a date with him. what do you think, should i ask him out or wait until he asks me? (link)
go for it, if you like him than just ask him out
or.........
you could ask him to just meet you somewhere or somethin. then it wouldn't technically be a date(so his mom wouldn't freak)


ok i know so many poeple have love life questions but heres mine...and please help. i like this kid...ALOT i mean i practically love him! but he has a girlfriend, it doesnt really bother me that much cause hes never around her, and they just seem like only friends...BUT i see him EVERY day in school...hes in all my classes and i dont talk to him that much but i always wish i had later, i want us to be friends at least cause im not even aloud to have a boyfriend, but hes really nice to me, and i really really like, what should i do?


-broken♥ (link)
just say something to him, don't worry about the fact that he has a girlfriend. just try to be u, joke around with him for a little while, see how he responds.




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