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so confused
ok there is this guy. i talk to him on the phone every night. i really like him and i know he likes me too cause he said it to me on the phone yesterday. i had a secret i wanted to tell him which was that i liked him. he was trying to get the secret out of me for days. and everytime he would always say "you only have one life to live, so live it to the best," cause he didnt want me to be afraid of telling him the secret. so i told him and hes like, "well i like you too...where do we go from here?" and i said i dont know and there was silence for about 4 seconds lol. then he kinda chnaged the subject and after a while his mom was yelling at him to get off so we had to hang up. i can't help thinking about that "one life to live" thing though. should i ask him out? the only problem is that he isn't really allowd to talk to girls. he told me that if his mom answered then to pretend that he had the wrong number or just pretend to be a guy lol. but if his dad answered then it was ok. so i dont really know what to do. does this mean he won't ask me out? i really really really like him and i really want to go out on a date with him. what do you think, should i ask him out or wait until he asks me?
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Hey sweetie,
Like he said, you only have one life to live. I really think you should ask him out. It sounds to me that he was hinting to you that he wanted to go out with you, so just ask him. I'm sure he'd really like that. By the way, if you two really like each other that much, I think you two shouldn't worry about his mom. You guys like each other and that's all that matters. x3
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My opinion is you should have him ask. the following paragraph tells you why.
You should get to know him better and be friends with him and maybe flirt a little and someday hell ask you out and if you work up the nerve to ask him out and you two are madly in love and he's not allowed to date and you both realy want to date and you decide to do it in secret, you can overcome any obsticals if its meant to be. you should wait for him because, this may sound crazy, but its normal for a man to ask if you would join him in any romantic occasions. He may not ask anytime soon because he may worry that you arent allowed to date until your sixteenish.
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wait till his mom is ok with the dating scene. So basically just wait for him to ask you.Because when he askes you it probably means hes worked it out with his mom. But if he doesn't just wait, if he really cares about you he will work hard to convince his parents he can date.
If he doesn't ask you out still be friends, because you both obviously care about each other. But in his case family probably comes first so you probably would want his parents to like you and not hate you because your going out with their son.;
good luck~bballsista2~
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go for it, if you like him than just ask him out
or.........
you could ask him to just meet you somewhere or somethin. then it wouldn't technically be a date(so his mom wouldn't freak)
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hey all you should do is say "Hey, i was wondering if I could be more than a friend to you". Go for it don't wait for him follow your heart.
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I dont think you should wait any longer. You should ask him out you have to at least rty and make it work. Write him a note or an email or just talk to him on the phone. Maybe he told his parents that he was going to the movies and you happened to be there to. IKt wouldnt be lying and technically you are his friend and he will be saying he is going with friends but to you two you are on a date. It willl be hard even with a mother like that but you will regret if you dont ask him. He will say yes b/c he likes you.
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Ask Him Out!! If you both like eachother there's a 95% he'll say yes. The 5% is about the mom thing but I would ask him out anyway. If you never ask you'll never know.
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well hes being apprehensive because of how his mom feels. Doesnt sound like you would have much of a relationship though if his mom doesnt allow him to even talk to a girl, let alone have a gf!!
Has he ever had a gf? Just ask him how his mom would feel if he had 1. His mom sounds like some1 from the the dark ages. I mean she doesnt allow him to talk to girls? Thats the lamest thing ever.
By the way, how old are you and him?
I think in your case, i would wait on the asking out. I dont think hes going anywhere, so you have nothing to worry about there.
Just talk to him about his feelings on the subject. Thats all you can really do at this point.
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Ask him out !! Its better to be rejected than to not try!!
♥ Melissa ♥
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i say wait a little while until he asks you. if it takes over a month after this then ask him out. <3
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Ask him out. Carpe diem...seize the day.
You never know until you try. What have you got to lose, anyway?
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