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i really like this guy. and i know he likes me. The thing is he is black and some are my friends are acting weird about that. i mean i don't see anything wrong with it. Is there something wrong with a white female dating a black male??

no sweetie there is nothing wrong liking a black guy. My boyfriend is black and i'm white some of my friends don't agree with it but i don't let that bother me. if they're really your friends they shouldn't care about what race you date.

ok there is this kid that i like and i kno him but he dosnt kno me! How can i make him notice me?This is eating me up inside

please help!

Note that i am very shy.

thankyou

try putting yourself out there. like go get an ryecatching outfit then try to get up the courage 2 go up to him and talk 2 him.

Alright I think my friend is a cutter, But I'm not sure. I've never seen any cuts but she is always wearing long sleeves. How can I tell if she is? Are there other signs?

if she wears long sleeves then yeh she does and you probably shouldnt know if she does she has something wrong with her and if she wanted you to know then she would tell you and she doesnt want you or anyone else to know and if she wanted you to know then she would wear a t - shirt that said it.it is her bussiness trust im experienced i use to do it so when you find out then dont tell her you know she might get mad.

Ok, for about 2 months now I got white stuff in my underwear, and always feel wet. I think its discarge. I haven't had a period yet but I don't know when its comming. Should i tell my mom or just leave it be?

That's just your cum(sperm). It's normal to have this.

hey i got my gf a promise ring for xmas, only problem is...wat do i say when i give it to her, do i like promise sumthin or like say nething?? im very confused

Tell her a simple promise you want to keep to her.

Im 15/F..and i havent had a boyfriend in awhile. Maybe because im afraid to take a risk of getting hurt because let me tell you..boys these days are not the brightest nor have the biggest hearts. Or maybe its because im just plain scared? I wonder alot what it is..any advice on why i feel this way?

Maybe it has to do with any of your past boyfriends but there really is nice people out there you just got to keep looking for the right one.

Okay .. so there this guy.. and we've bout making out and stuff.. but the thing is i have no experience in french kissing at all.. and he has plenty experience .. hes 3 years older then me.. im 13.. so can you please tell me exactly how to french kiss.. please dont be like it comes naturally , i dont care.. just tell me how you french kiss or something.. give me steps! Lol
THANKS !!!!
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Here's how ya do it step by step: Make sure that mood is and time is right.

2. Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders.

3. Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.

4. Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional.

5. In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other persons mouth open using your tongue.

6. Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other persons mouth and playfully touch their tounge.

7. Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing.

8. If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.

9. As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem, don't forget to swallow.

10. Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.

i have never had a crush on girls just boys i wanna have sex with boys. with girls the same and i fantasize about doing stuff to them tell me what is wrong with me this is the worse i have ever felt in my life. i rate high if u help me good

it all depends on your age take it from a bisexual and you're not techinically lesbian your probably bi.

Im 15 female and ive never had a boyfriend before. Im not going to say im ugly becuase people will just say "youre beautiful inside" blah blah. But my question: Will a guy still want to go out with me if i dont want to do anything past makeing out? Well at least him doing to me..or until i feel more comfortable with my body.

So am i considered prude?
Will I ever get a boyfriend if i feel this way?

I think that someday you will find a guy that likes you for who you are and not what you look like. It might sound cliche but eventually you will find Mr. Right.

Am I good to go with a tampon and a thong?

ya, totally.

What do people mean when they say "opposites attract"? Is this statement true?

Personally I think it's true. That's how me and my boyfriend are.

Sorry this is such a gay question, but what are some good songs to listen to that are recent, and make you think of someone you fall head-over-heals for?

your eyes by alexz johnson.

Our school is having an after school Christmas dance and I have no idea what to wear! I want to look cute and sexy, but also Christmas-y.

I will rate 5's to a good answer.

wear some cute jeans and then a cute sparkly halter with a jacket over it.

i didnt know what category this would go in so i just put it here

ok well im 13/f and when i try to remember happy times in my life, like family vacations and stuff all i remember is bad times i can remember every bad thing that has ever happened to me but i cant remember the good things.. does any one know why

maye the bad times affected you more than the good times.

Is it weird that im in 7th grade and havnt had my first kiss yet?? i mean, so many people in my grade have been kissed. Am im like, a freak or something?

no you're not a freak. im in the 8th grade and i just got my first kiss this year.

hey im in 7th grade and so i was going out with a girl for like 3 weeks until today becaues i broke up with her and, well today i just found out that she thought i just liked her cause of her looks. and now im all pissed off and i want to get back with her.so today at lunch i go up to her and try to talk to her and she simply just walks away with her big group of friends. but like a week ago we were like makin out so im like confused? yea so if u could help me ill rate you a 5 even its retarded cause i think i am haha

just go up to her and say look i like you for who you are and not what you look like. then tell her everybody deserves a second chance.

I have a unibrow..no doubt about it..but i started shaving for at least 5 months. Im not stupid and i new that it'd grow back darker and thicker. But i just thought i'd shave it all off before anyone could see. But now it's really dark and there are black dots.How do i get rid of it?

pluck it with tweezers.

Is there any makeup that makes your eyes look bigger?

try eyeliner there's a type of eyeliner technique you use.

i have brown eyes that have a hint of green to them so they almost look hazel in the sun...does anybody know a good eye makeup/shadow or whatever that would make them look hazel even when there not in the sun?

use intense eyecolor it brings out the color in your eyes.

i want to get my boyfriend(17 years old) something cute/do something cute for him for christmas but i cant think of anything good. advice would be greatly appreciated.. thanks!

what about a gift card to one of his fave stores.

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