Question Posted Wednesday December 21 2005, 10:44 pm
i have never had a crush on girls just boys i wanna have sex with boys. with girls the same and i fantasize about doing stuff to them tell me what is wrong with me this is the worse i have ever felt in my life. i rate high if u help me good
Michelle1991 answered Thursday December 22 2005, 6:52 am: well you are bi then that what is sounds like so just, so just have a 3 som with a girl and a guy and you have you question answerd.
chechee13 answered Wednesday December 21 2005, 11:54 pm: It depends on your age, you might not know what is going on right now but later it wwill be all right. You might just be bi. or you just have crazy thoughts. Everyone has thoughts sbout doing that stuff, but you just got to get it out of your head if you want to like guys and not girls. [ chechee13's advice column | Ask chechee13 A Question ]
Teza answered Wednesday December 21 2005, 11:26 pm: I don't think that you are lesbian. A lot of girls hormones start to do this & they just don't know who they are interested in more. For now you can just take the time & figure this out. If you keep thinking like that, then you might be bisexual & there is nothing wrong with that. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
TheOldOne answered Wednesday December 21 2005, 11:20 pm: I'm not sure EXACTLY what you're asking; sorry, but your question is a little unclear. But it's a big mistake to worry about your sexuality. It is what it is, and worrying or feeling bad won't change that. If you're attracted to girls or to boys or to both, that's how you are - and you shouldn't feel bad about it.
(As long as you're not attracted to little kids or animals or something, of course. If THAT'S your problem, you should talk to a counselor or behavioral health specialist as soon as possible.)
I'm guessing that you're young. I know this issue seems huge to you right now, and it IS important. But you have to try not to worry about it. If some thought turns you on, it turns you on - that's just how it is. Don't worry, don't panic, just relax and learn what you can from your feelings. Fantasies are harmless, and guilt can only hurt you.
In any case, your sexuality is almost certainly still developing. Give yourself time, and as you mature you'll discover just what sort of a person you are - sexually, and in all kinds of ways. If you can learn to be proud of who and what you are (whatever that is), you'll be happy. You'll probably make other people happy, too.
naimee answered Wednesday December 21 2005, 11:17 pm: Some people have these feelings. You could be bisexual, but right now you're just seeking your sexual preference. It's not a bad thing, =] Don't worry too much about it! [ naimee's advice column | Ask naimee A Question ]
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