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I share a bathroom with my 10 yearold sister and we keep our waste basket in the closet so my dog doesn't get to it. Everytime I get my period, i make sure i push my trash all the way to the bottom and close the closet door. BUT m sister always leaves the door open. My dog gets bloody tampons and the drags them around the house. My dad is getting disgusted and so am I! He blames it on me because of course its mine, not my moms. He says things like "You know the only thing that disgusts me is your bloody tampons" Its so embarassing!! How can I deal with this? My sister is an effin lazy ass.

Yeahh, my dogs do this too & it grosses me the hell out. =] I suggest you wrap the tampon up in loads of toilet paper & then maybe put it in a little baggy, so it can\'t smell the blood. Or, just put the garbage outside everytime there\'s a tampon in there. =]

♥ amyyy :]

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i have stretch marks around my nipples and on my upper thighs near my butt, how can i get rid of them? and are they normal?

Every girl has stretchmarks on her boobs, it\'s just a normal thing, but you can\'t ever get rid of stretchmarks, they\'ll always be there. But you can buy lotions specifically designed to lighten them. I don\'t know of any specific brands that are best, because I order mine from Avon, but lotions with Cocoa Butter in them will help with stretchmarks. =]

♥ amyyy :]

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14/f
hey guys. i really like pac sun but the clothes are too expensive. does anyone know a store with the same brands at a lower price? it can even be an online store. i dont mind. =]

Whenever stuff from Pac Sun doesn`t sell, they always send them to cheaper stores, like Marshalls, TJ Maxx, & Ross`s. You could always try those stores. Or maybe even amazon.com or ebay.com. =]

♥ amyyy :]

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hey well me and my ex boy friend had been going out 4 months well he desides he wants to take a break and get back to gather april 13 when he can drive but we have been having some problems since we broke up do u think there is any chance of us ever getting back to gather?

Of course, there`s ALWAYS a chance.

=] Don`t get your hopes up though, maybe you should ask him about it, just to make sure -- see if he truly likes you & tell him how you feel. Ask him if he thinks there`s a chance that you two could get back together!!

♥ amyyy :]

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so I got a 2nd hole on the lobe of my ear 6 weeks ago, and it's time for me to finally take it out.

but I try to remove the backing, and it's being stubborn && won't come off!


are there any tricks to help me get it off?

thank you in advance!!

Haha.
I've had my ears pierced way too much, to not answer this question. =]

What you need to do, is take your fingernails (or get your mom/sister to do it) if you don't have long nails and try and get your index & thumb fingernails on the back of your earring and push forward with your thumb and then back with your index if that makes sense, sort of like a "rocking" motion. =] Or try and grab on to the front of the earring with your left index & thumb nails and then your right index and thumb nails to hold on to the back & just pull at the same time. It should come off easily.

If you have trouble, go back to the place you got it pierced at, and they'll help you. =]

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im 13/f and i really think im fat. i weigh almost 120 pounds and im only 13! my friend who's a sophmore weighs less than me! its so embarrasing and its so hard for me to lose weight. i told my dad that i wanted to lose weight and stuff and he was like your fine the way you are adn he just keeps buying all this food thats really fatty and stuff... i dont no he is just trying to make me NOT lose weight. i even do some exersises at night and all i want is to be able to wear a tight shirt and not be emabrassed! i have love handles too. they suck. i just dont no what to do.. please help =]

Next time your dad says you're perfect the way you are, tell him you really aren't & you want to do something about your weight, before it's too late. I know exactly how you feel, so don't think you're alone. =]

Most of the time it's what you eat. But, you have to portionize the food you eat. & Cut it by half.

Start drinking water, no more sodas or anything like that. But if you're a big soda drinker, try cutting it down to one can of soda daily. You can't really argue about that, seen as if your dad doesn't buy you bottled water, you could just drink tap water.

Don't snack AS much. And if you do, try and replace the bags of Doritos with an apple or a banana, something healthy, like a fruit or veggie.

Try and reduce sugar intake & replace it with calcium, [such as milk, yogurt, & cheeses.]

Here's a website that provides you with a lot of helpful healthy tips, that should guide you through weight loss:

http://www.caloriesperhour.com/tips.html


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Well my grades have been slipping alot latly and i am trying my hardest and my parents dont seem to get that they think that im just being lasey i dont know what to do to try even harder to get my grades were they used to be! The next grade card is in 2 weeks!ahhh HELP PLEASE


Alyssa/13

Make sure that you turn in ALL of your homework. Study for tests, I've always used like pastel colored index cards and then I always decorate my study notes, lol. It makes it funner for me to study, so maybe you should try that? Haha. I don't know if you have one of these at your school, but at my school we have a CLC - it's like a tutoring place you go for like help with reports & English, and then we have CMC which is Math tutoring. Incase you're having trouble grasping onto whatever you're learning.

Also, if you're really having trouble ask your teacher for help, or ask him/her if there's anyway you could boost your grade a few points by extra credit or sometype of test correction.


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Does anyone know where I can get quotes for class of 2006? I've googled and found nothing

Are you sure you've googled.
I googled & came across this site, with quotes for the graduating class of 2006. You just have to scroll down a bit.

http://www.geocities.com/kristensquotes/graduation.html

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Where's a good place to find free (and legal) song downloads? I've tried Limewire but it really slowed down my computer and kept coming up as a virus/spywear thing. Thanks alot! :^)

Heyy. =]

Umm, I would've said Limewire's the best. I saw something on the tv yesterday for Rhapsody which is legal, but I don't think it's free, but you can get a 14-day trial type thing.

I don't know any legal free music downloaders. Other one's I suggest are; WinMX & Kazaa.

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yesterday was me and Scott's one month! but we didn't get to see each other...do you guys think you can date someone who you never get to see? i mean does it work? i have only seen him once since we've been dating. i hate it because his parents hate me and my parents hate him because of what happened this summer...and so we have to sneak around all the time..i hate it so much. and all his little friends hate me because of rumors people started about what happened this summer so like none of his friends know were dating i hate hiding it he says he loves me but i don t want to be a secret you know? if he really loved me like he said he would tell his friends..right? i mean i don t know i am so confused i want people to know were dating i mean i love his so much and I've told all my friends were dating...i don't want to be his secret you know? i haven't talked to him about it and i know if i did he would just get mad..so what should i do i need some good advice xox

Hehe, I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months & haven't seen him once & relationships like this rarely work out, to be completely honest.

I totally understand where you're coming from. I think it's gay that he's not telling anybody that you two are dating. You shouldn't be kept a secret & you need to tell HIM what you're feeling. Because, honestly who else are you going to tell? He probably just doesn't understand that you're upset about this.

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ok well there's this guy i like his name is kevin and he's a sophmore at mah school... and ya well the problem is that he only likes me as a friend.. but i still like him.. and now his friends make fun of me. and now we're still friends. but for some reason i hate him sometimes and other times i juz really like him !! and i've tried to get over him but i can't cuz like i c him after every class period!? so i dunno what to do!!! HELP ME pleese.

It seems the only reason you "hate" him, is because he doesn't have the same feelings as you, which is perfectly normal. A long time ago, I liked this guy named Nick & like my opinion on him would change everyday from, liking him to hating him because he didn't have the same feelings back. =] Hehe, just let "nature run it's course" eventually (hopefully) you'll get over this kid, and don't worry about these feelings you're having. They're completely normal.

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I'm sure people on this site has at one point have read "The Outsiders". For school, could you rate it on a scale 1-10? 10 being the highest? And, what did you think of Dally's death? Was it important? Did it mean anything? Thanks.

Oh my gosh. I loved The Outsiders so much. Like, I would've never read that on my own, because like it just looks SO boring, but it's like my favorite book ever & it was the first one I read at school. I would definitely rate it with a 10! Dally's death was extremely important, because throughout the story, you realize what an amazing person he was to the rest of his gang. The story was made for most of the "Dallys" in the world.

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are polybutene and polybutylene the same thing

The definition of polybutene is; a polymer of butylene; used in lubricants and synthetic rubber.
&
The definition of polybutylene is; a polymer of butylene; used in lubricants and synthetic rubber.

So, Yes

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My dog is licking people and my dad says "shes going through some hard stuff" and my mom said "yes her time of life" what does this mean??

i rate all 5's

Idk what your parents are talking about. They're probably just trying to be perverted without you knowing, which is mean. lol. Dogs lick all the time, it's just what they do.

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Could you pretty please find out where I can sned fan mail to Nic Cester, he's the lead singer in the band Jet. Thank you sooo> much! (sorry about the category, I wasn't sure what it'd be)

Hey.
Here's the fan mail for the band Jet:
http://www.fanmail.biz/77287.html

I tried googling for Nic Cester & nothing came up, and I went through fanmail.com trying to find something, & I couldn't find anything on him.

Sorry.

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Well, a month or two ago, I pulled a muscle in my back while I was rock climbing (I was being stupid- toally my fault). Well, since then, my back as continually been hurting. I went to my doctor, and he just told me to do "back strengthening excercises" which, thusfar, have not helped at all. I'm getting really tired of not being able to bend down a lot or even jump on a trampoline- I'm only 16, for goodness sake! And I feel like an invalid! Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I can do to help get my back working right again?

Did your doctor tell you to go back & see him after a few weeks of trying these exercises? That's exactly what my doctor did, because I went rock climbing & ripped my tendon, so she made me try these tendon stretches & they didn't work, so I had to go back to her, and she had to recommend a foot specialist to go to & an MRI, so they can take x-rays of it. You need to go back to the doctors, and you need to get better X-rays [MRI.] He'll tell you the ways to go about doing certain stuff.
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There is my school's culture night tomorrow. I need a Spanish food to bring in. Does anyone know any simple yet tasty recipies I could make or buy?

Hehe, well!!

I made "nachitos!"

Oh my gosh, it's the best, I just took those scoop nacho things, and put salsa, green peppers, & mexican cheeses in it. Haha. I know it sounds pretty gay, BUT that's what I did =] & everyone LOVED them. lol. & It was totally simple to do. hehe.

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1. weight loss tips? im 5'3 and 13o pounds and would like to lose 1o pounds. i need motivation!

2. i cannot find a prom dress...wheres a good place to get one? preferably under $$2oo

3. does anyone know why acrylic nails turn yellow in tanning beds?

4. im trying to grow my hair out pretty long and then cutting it in a cute ((long)) style. any ideas on where to look for pictures, celebrity hair?

thank you guys! :]

1.] Drink 6-8 glasses of water daily, & don't snack on chips/candy stuff -- replace with like fruits & veggies. Start exercising, Atleast 30 mins a day like 4-5 times a week. Hehe.

2.] JcPenney, Davids Bridal, (you can get plenty under 200.) Charlotte Russe, & DEB.

3.] The UV's in the tanning beds can cause the nails to turn yellow. There's fake nails out there called solar nails, which are a lot cuter & they help protect against your nails turning yellow. =]

4.] http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=long+celebrity+hairstyles&btnG=Google+Search

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In your opinion, how old should a girl at least be before she has her first kiss? 4th graders dog-drooling all over each other's chins don't count.

Like peck kiss? I'd say around 10.

Make out, 13.
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okay you know how some people say you're lighter when you weigh yourself in the morning?? is that true?? i was wondering what your real weight was..like in the morning er in the afternoon/day because i noticed when i weigh myself in the morning i weigh less than at night.

thanks!!

It is true.

You have to pee first, and before you do anything else, weigh yourself & that's your actual weight. =]

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