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ahh im soo confused about this guy
ok well there's this guy i like his name is kevin and he's a sophmore at mah school... and ya well the problem is that he only likes me as a friend.. but i still like him.. and now his friends make fun of me. and now we're still friends. but for some reason i hate him sometimes and other times i juz really like him !! and i've tried to get over him but i can't cuz like i c him after every class period!? so i dunno what to do!!! HELP ME pleese.
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It seems the only reason you "hate" him, is because he doesn't have the same feelings as you, which is perfectly normal. A long time ago, I liked this guy named Nick & like my opinion on him would change everyday from, liking him to hating him because he didn't have the same feelings back. =] Hehe, just let "nature run it's course" eventually (hopefully) you'll get over this kid, and don't worry about these feelings you're having. They're completely normal.
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Hi! Well I hear what you are saying...it makes perfect sense, you like a guy that likes you as a friend and you both have different feelings for eachother,,,the reason you probally feel like you hate him sometimes is because we automatically get negative feelings towards someone or something that causes us stress...even if its someone we love...the best thing to do is try your hardest to be able to remain friends with him. if you are 100% sure that you both will never amount to more than a friendship then you need to decide if you can even remain friends with him, if not then you should be straight up honest about it. tell him that you have stronger feelings for him and that friends isnt enough for you...but if friendship is enough then stay friends with him...65% of girls have fallen for a friend...it happens and many times its because we confuse our feelings sometimes but you will get over it,,,if i didnt answer this correctly or you want to know more...just email me or ask me another question on my column sweetie! good luck and remember things always move forward!!!
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It sounds like you really just need to move on. I know it will probably be difficult, but these kind of things do take time. So just try to forget about him, and try liking another guy. I am really serious you need to just give it some time, and you will eventually get over him.
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