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regarding "very clear"
Same guy here from the "Romantic or Creepy?!" Topic earlier,
LadyGoodman mentioned that she would find it creepy if she made it very clear that she wasn't interested before.
My question is WHEN does a women actually make it very clear that she's not interested,
I mean when they are interested, they play hard to get or they are nice, they're not interested they are nice or they do what, to me, looks like playing hard to get...
Personally I would only take it as very clear when she literally tell's me not to bother her again, or to F%$#-off, and I'd be happy to hear the plain and simple truth, but women have NEVER done that to me, they just keep me on a line till I just stop calling them.
I have kissed this specific girl on at least five seperate occations, I've seen her jeolous at least once, and she has been playing hard to get practically the whole time.
I am as sure that she likes me as I can get, but then again, she's not awnsering her phone at the moment... in fact she turned off her cell, I'll still give her time tho.
Please girls, help a dumbass out, how or when are you saying "not interested"?
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They specifically say it. This is only in the most rare of situations, which is one thing that can make asking a girl out incredibly troublesome. Take it that she isn't interested, but don't dissolve all ties with her completely.
Girls really suck ass for doing stuff like this. It's enough to turn some men gay. (That happened to a friend of mine, actually. He couldn't take dealing with such flakey, unclear, and indirect women leading him on, and ended up going down in "flames," per se.)
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well i usualy say im not intrested i jus say it !!
but i think you should ask her if she is interested or not well thats what i would doo and dont worry its not wrong too ask her that soo goo for it !!
♥ Samra
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well i personally think that she is crazy in love but she just is playing real hard to get well i hope that answers you're quetion dumbass
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If a girl doesn't like you she will not do what you want her to. Example if you want to kiss a girl and she backs out, she not intrested. Simple as That. I helped a dumbass out!! :D
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Hahaha. Us girls, we're the stupid ones. We don't know how to make anything clear - ever!!!!!!!!! I agree with you - I'd be happy with the "plain and simple truth," but so many people aren't willing to give this.
I am willing to say that, since you've kissed her on five seperate occasions, and she's been jealous, that she's totally interested.
If she were uninterested, she would not have kissed you, she would not return your phone calls, she'd make up lame excuses to get off the phone in a hurry, make excuses not to see you or go out on a date with you, she'd act really iffy and distracted when around you or talking to you. If she doesn't display these signs COMMONLY, OFTEN, and CONSISTANTLY, she's interested. Yes, she'll be bound to have her "days" when she's distracted, but if she's not like that ALL THE TIME, she's probably interested.
Perhaps she's having one of those "days" now - which is why she's not answering her phone. Perhaps she's just busy or studying or something. I've done that before, not answered my phone when my boyfriend calls if I'm really, really busy or studying or something.
If you really want to know, ask her. I'm sure she'll tell you if she's really interested in you for the long run. Let her know that you don't really want to waste her time if she's not going to stay with you in the long run. She'll appreciate you thinking of her. Or at least I would.
-FunnyCide
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Well ask them Say I Need to know where i stand plain and clear if they like you they will tell after all if you liked a girl would you say no so she would ignore you? Girls and boys are the same no matter what anyone says we may not have the same interests but our emotions are the same. Remember no one likes to be kept in the dark.
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it really depends on the girl, alot of girls have different ways of signaling that they arent interested.For me, ill play hard to get or be nice to them because i feel bad, but if they keep on coming on to me ill say "im sorry, but im not interested." For you, i think shes playing pretty hard to get,I think she likes you.If you see her in person, say lets hang out sometime, and be like " I tried to call you,But your phone was off".Try to ask her whats been going on and ask her plain and simple if shes interested or not, i mean you cant wait forever right? If this has been going on for awhile, i suggest you try to move on.You cant wait forever if this girl wont say how she feels or shows that shes interested, or even try to get to hang out with you.Hope i could help!
♥ danielle
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I guess I was speaking from my point of view...I'm typically very straight foward. If you've told me that you're interested, I will generally be like, "well sorry, I'm not." I'm not a fan of leading people on. I think that this girl is probably interested and in your case it wasn't a creepy thing to do.
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